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Wassup folks, was Poppin? It's the freaking weekend and I am sure someone somewhere is doing all the fun stuff that comes with weekend. Anyway while you all get your groove on let me hit you with this one as seen on twitter. "What is the most petty reason you stopped talking or seeing some one after the first date" Hit me up with your comments and experience, I am always ready to listen. Do have a wonderful weekend and plenty orgasm.🤭

I recently gave a hug to a friend and that moment felt very odd to me. So l got thinking, that most straight girls are too body conscious to a fault that even when they hug a fellow girl they tint their body side way like they don't want you feel their boobs or something? The other way, they hug you as even they are stretching across a fence in such a way as if they are mindful of their p***y area' To me l feel gay girls are better when it comes to hugs in respective to sexuality. They give you this warm welcoming hugs and make you feel good without any string attach. what do you think?

Soooo.... this is me just recommending some good read for those books lover. If your a fan of lengthy stories and you happen to be on Wattpad, please do read 'Madam Mayor' sequel 😊. Very much interesting and erotic. For those lover of 'literotica' site I recommend you read the following; Stoned Alex Benign something Summer song Veteran day.... They are alot more I can't remember but will be willing to come back and add. Enjoy 😉

Nigerian lesbian and LGBT rights campaigner, Biwom Pamela Adie has fixed the date of her wedding to sweetheart and partner. According to an update she announced on her social media page, the date is 23rd of June, 2018. In 2011 Pamela Adie left her family and friends shocked, when she came out to declare openly that she’s a lesbian. She used to be married to a man. Pamela’s sexual orientation had been hidden from her family for years, she hadn’t discussed it with either her family or fiancé—even before she walked down the aisle with him. She thought: “It would be nice to keep mum about it, forget about my sexual orientation as lesbian and move on with marriage”: to seek change. But it didn’t turn out as planned for Pamela. For 24 months, Pamela says she was living in pain but with grit and courage, she realized straight relationships (and marriage) were not meant for her and the best way to salvage the situation was to wipe the slate clean. “My pain became more than my fear. I came out because I needed to be free from pain, from telling my loved ones lies, from living a double life (as lesbian and a married woman). The burden was just too heavy to bear,” she said with a serious look that mirrors nothing but sincerity. “When I came out, I came out to free myself. I didn’t come out because I wanted to be an activist or because I wanted to prove a point. It was really about me.” Pamela Adie was born in a Christian home; raised by staunch Catholic parents in the serene city of Calabar, Nigeria. She’s from Obudu in Cross River state. When she was seventeen year old, she left for the United States where she earned a Bachelor of Business Administration, with a Minor in Personal and Professional Communication. She says she had her first same-sex relationship even before she travelled abroad and having been in a same-sex relationship for years—she thought her marriage would save her from being lesbian. It never did. “Even before I came out, I was already in a same-sex relationship but I never saw myself as lesbian. I hadn’t come out to myself and I always thought that when I get married it will somehow go away. That’s one of the reasons I eventually got married.'' “At the end of the day, it didn’t go away because it’s not something that goes away. Your sexual orientation is part of who you are and it’s not a choice”. After struggling to fit in for two years she couldn’t continue acting straight, she couldn’t put her sexual orientation behind her despite her marriage to a wonderful man. “My ex-husband is a great guy. He didn’t deserve to be lied to. I felt really bad. For me coming out, and leaving the marriage was really for him so that he can move on and find someone that can give him what he really wants,” she said. “My parents didn’t like that I am lesbian. They were angry. My mum was more vocal than my dad, though. My dad was more loving but the tension between my mum and I was thick. She was of the opinion that I was possessed and that there was something wrong with me. So it created a tension in the house,” she told YNaija in a past interview earlier this year. “I don’t have that issue with my father. It’s still the same till today. He’s still the one I talk to the most. My mum hasn’t come to a place of acceptance as of this point. She’s still struggling with my sexual orientation.” Source: http://www.lailasblog.com/2017/07/nigerian-lesbian-pamela-adie-sets-wedding-date-marry-partner-photos.html

It was few days to my birthday when mine cousin Godday walked in to my hostel room with his friends and l knew the rest except one. Godday: Mena meet Gina, she's from our state and from our town. Mena: Waoh! good to meet Gina Mena: Do you school here? Gina: Yes, l do. l stay in this wing, E10 Mena: Really? that's like two rooms from here and l haven't even notice you around. Gina: yeah, but l have been seeing you around. Mena: Good to know. As we were discussing, l couldn't help but to notice Gina's beauty and how she grind her teeth in a sexy way in between sentences she made. Her off pink color lipstick was like a charm that made me analyze the shape of her lips. l was amazed on how could l not have noticed such a beauty that stays just two rooms away from me? So we gist and had a good laugh, as she stood up to leave, l invited her for my birthday celebration about three days away from that day. The following morning, l woke early to have my bath outside as it was a usual for girls to bath out in Uniport because of the poor state of the bathrooms conditions. As l finish bathing and about to step into my room, l over heard Gina's voice so l stood and looked to the direction. lo and behold, she stood there completely naked as she chart with her roommate. So l took my time to observe her breast, her p***sy area and her curves and l suddenly had a strange feelings of want. So some how she turned to my direction and saw me starring and she suddenly covered her breast with one hand and the other hand p***sy. As she look at me in shock with out saying a word, l smiled at her and step into my room. It was my birthday morning, Gina came in to wish me happy birthday and l was glad she didn't forget the date then l told her the time for the marking. So, it was evening and a lot of friends were coming in and the birthday celebration has started proper. Gina hasn't showed up yet so l was some how worried, l decided to check at her room but she wasn't in. l became worried the more. Then suddenly she showed up with some friends and stayed briefly then said to me that she will back, that she wanted to see her friends off. l said okay but she never showed up again till the end of the celebration and l became so angry because all through the day, my focus and hopes was to have Gina by my side but she wasn't really available. It was as if the day was ruined not having her by side. l was amazed at my self, l can't be feeling so much for a girl l barely even know. It was dark, so the party had ended well and every one has gone and l was so exhausted, now thinking of how to clean up when Gina walked in and asked how did it go? l looked directly into her eyes and said how could you not have showed up again. She tried to explain but l didn't say a word again because l was till very angry with her. So when she noticed l wasn't answering, she just cleaned up the place and said good night. l was impressed but till l didn't say a word. The following afternoon, as l returned from school, she walked into my room and said she wanted to talk with me. So l said okay, go on but she insisted that we should have a walk. As we walk out of the hostel and sat by the walk way, she held my hands and said she was sorry that she wasn't there for me and she never met to upset me on my birthday. As l looked into her eyes, l was full of emotion but l managed to put myself together and told her it was okay. So went to the senior staff club to have suyer. From that very day, we hang out every day after school. We never got tired of each other's company. My roommates and her roommates was surprised at our sudden connection. But l had mixed feelings because l was religious so it made me had mode swing with Gina most times. Every one saw me as the cute religious tomboy. So it was difficult for me to cope with my feelings for Gina and my religion because my roommate and most people knew l was seriously involved in the campus fellowship. It lead to depression most times and offend Gina suffered it. So it was one of those my mode swing days where by l will deliberately avoid Gina for two or three days, she walked into my room and insisted she wanted to see in her room. l told her l had lectures right a way but she insisted it will be brief. Then l said okay, if she insist. As l walk behind her into the room, the room was empty, there was no roommate, then she locked the door behind me, held my hands looking straight into my eyes and said to me, Mena what exactly do you want from me? her eyes was clouded in tears. As l behold the sight, l was overwhelmed with emotions. l held her firmly against the door and kissed her passionately and it felt so, so good. And l said within my heart, can l let this go? To be Continued............