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i hear many attimes some studs/lesbians say they cant date a bi-sexual because they cant imagine their gf dating someone else ie (guy) at the same time .

 

now this is my topic ,would u consider it cheating if your gf (bi-sexual) is cheating on you just because she has a boyfriend or just because she is also into guys ....

 

its just a thought ,only a thought ...in addition to the above ,HOW WOULD YOU DEFINE CHEATING IN THIS CIRCUMSTANCE ...is it cheating or not ...

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Firstly, most bisexual women I know date men and women but never at the same time, I feel I need to point that out. Personally, I don't care if you're gay, bisexual, queer or whatever, if you're dating (or sleeping with) someone else that's isn't your partner; its cheating except its an open relationship but that's a totally different discussion.

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Firstly, most bisexual women I know date men and women but never at the same time, I feel I need to point that out. Personally, I don't care if you're gay, bisexual, queer or whatever, if you're dating (or sleeping with) someone else that's isn't your partner; its cheating except its an open relationship but that's a totally different discussion.

 

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I think there's a distinct different between cheating and sexual preference. I needed to point that out because I couldn't reconcile how  both  could be related in  this topic.

And when has cheating been about " a girl whose into guys? If you won't date a bisexual because you can't compete with men, then that's some insecurity bullshit and nothing to do with the girl.

People should never be judged for who they had have sex with ( or don't have sex with) because people like sexuality is fluid.

Op you need to unpack your baggage around this stuffs, and stop hurting people with stewpid stereotypes.

PS. I'm not bisexual.

 

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On 9/20/2017 at 2:34 PM, scarlet said:

PS. I'm not bisexual.

 

I wonder why you felt the need to write that. Like you're stating a position, then clarifying that you aren't one of 'those people'...

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18 minutes ago, Althena said:

I wonder why you felt the need to write that. Like you're stating a position, then clarifying that you aren't one of 'those people'...

That wasn't my intention. I only inscribe that statement, for those who'd feel probably I'm bisexual to have to defend bisexuality. My emphasis was merely to clarify  any speculation anyone would have after reading that post. So they know they are " keen lesbian women" who enjoys the BI magic and support them too.

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