Malawi Posted July 20, 2014 Author Share Posted July 20, 2014 @ladyomah ur always on the defensive no one is pointing fingers @ you. I said some girls (no one in particular) not referring to you missy. :P Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrators FlyJ Posted July 20, 2014 Administrators Share Posted July 20, 2014 I have this feeling LadyOmah and Kushpuss will make a good outing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Abystacy Posted July 20, 2014 Share Posted July 20, 2014 Seconded. ..lol I have this feeling LadyOmah and Kushpuss will make a good outing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mide Posted July 20, 2014 Share Posted July 20, 2014 I have this feeling LadyOmah and Kushpuss will make a good outing. Don't even think about it, they will argue through out the outing Not a good idea Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rencie Posted July 21, 2014 Share Posted July 21, 2014 I'm always on the defensive? Admin we've got a stalker here Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
msztee Posted July 22, 2014 Share Posted July 22, 2014 You ask, you pay. When or if it proceeds to another date....then we may or may not split the bill. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Malawi Posted July 22, 2014 Author Share Posted July 22, 2014 I'm always on the defensive? Admin we've got a stalker here :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: @stalker...smh. one would need full body armour to accomplish that... :lol: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
M2DD Posted July 22, 2014 Share Posted July 22, 2014 Lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ghrayz Posted July 23, 2014 Share Posted July 23, 2014 Lmao Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hawken Posted April 24, 2017 Share Posted April 24, 2017 Who pays the bills guys? My 2cents? The person whose idea it was to go out. This is prior to a relationship. However, once we start dating and shame/pride has been thrown to the wind, expect to hear stuff like "babe i want to eat Asun, lets go to the place. You are paying sha". Or "babe go and buy ice cream naa... With your money ". But really though, splitting bills with my SO makes me feel some how Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted April 25, 2017 Moderators Share Posted April 25, 2017 I agree with that general dating etiquette. However, nothing is cast in stone for me. As the spirit leads usually. I tend to offer to pay on firsts then as we go along, whoever has really... the idea is for both get to a point where these things aren't a big deal. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrators FlyJ Posted April 25, 2017 Administrators Share Posted April 25, 2017 I agree with that general dating etiquette. However, nothing is cast in stone for me. As the spirit leads usually. I tend to offer to pay on firsts then as we go along, whoever has really... the idea is for both get to a point where these things aren't a big deal. Hmm, I do same but I am slowly learning that people take advantage of it. If I notice I am being taken advantage of...I am learning to say "split bills". Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hawken Posted April 25, 2017 Share Posted April 25, 2017 Yes, some people do take advantage it. Luckily I have never been with any of such people. In fact i think I have been one of them at one point. I didn't take advantage of her but i definitely didn't spend money in that relationship. She wouldn't let me but i was a student then, so its not as if i even had money to spend Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrators FlyJ Posted April 25, 2017 Administrators Share Posted April 25, 2017 Understandable...I respect that Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teewhy Posted April 25, 2017 Share Posted April 25, 2017 Let's look at this scenario. You are working and earning a lot and at the same time dating a student who still depends on a not well-to-do parents. A student who doesn't have money, not even a 5k part time job. As a lady, who is dating that student, what would you? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted April 25, 2017 Moderators Share Posted April 25, 2017 Hahahaha. You foot the bills of course but student should not be too particular about where she wants to go have the meals. Some may say the sheraton or nothing. 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrators FlyJ Posted April 25, 2017 Administrators Share Posted April 25, 2017 Let's look at this scenario. You are working and earning a lot and at the same time dating a student who still depends on a not well-to-do parents. A student who doesn't have money, not even a 5k part time job. As a lady, who is dating that student, what would you? Well, if that is the case, I will foot the bills. However, I did like to see the student try...like if she has N1000 and we go get a cold drink...she should attempt to pay or pick up small bills. It shows that she is ready to share d little she has...goes a long way for me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hawken Posted April 26, 2017 Share Posted April 26, 2017 Yes, it does go a long way. Can i also add that the person i was dating was also a student? but she was from money. Anytime i tried to pick up little bills like you said, she would absolutely refuse and it would end in a fight. the relationship didn't last long though, wonder why... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted April 26, 2017 Moderators Share Posted April 26, 2017 Hahahaha. Pliss I need someone like that. Recommend? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChocoPops Posted April 27, 2017 Share Posted April 27, 2017 Like errrr I'm a student and I wana go to federal palace hotel Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teewhy Posted April 27, 2017 Share Posted April 27, 2017 Well, if that is the case, I will foot the bills. However, I did like to see the student try...like if she has N1000 and we go get a cold drink...she should attempt to pay or pick up small bills. It shows that she is ready to share d little she has...goes a long way for me. Exactly, you said it all. Some will just take advantage of you like say you pluck the money from an iroko tree. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrators FlyJ Posted April 27, 2017 Administrators Share Posted April 27, 2017 Sadly,that seems to be the trend with some Nigerian lesbians. It's all about what they can gain... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teewhy Posted April 27, 2017 Share Posted April 27, 2017 I wonder when someone girls would grow up. They do this to guys and still do same to their fellow girls. Haven't had such girls sha and I pray not to. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VINA Posted July 12, 2018 Share Posted July 12, 2018 Different strokes for different folks. Who pays the bills?? The one who asked for the date. The financially buoyant one. (Even if you didn't ask for the date but you know you got more dough, my dear spend it) I definitely have opened my wide big mouth to ask someone who worked in a multinational out on a date. In my mind eyes, we would just chill at KFC or something. Aunty decided on a restaurant at the island. My liver started to fail but good news!! She got all the bills even though I asked. At a point with my ex, all our monies were mixed and intertwined so pretty much these questions didn't arise. But still, no matter how rich your gf is, it's thoughtful to get the bills once in a while. It would mean a lot. @Hawken your story just reiterated the reasons why I do not date girls richer than I am. I do not want to be anybody's social responsibility. Ewww. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dipbluesae Posted July 12, 2018 Share Posted July 12, 2018 The one who asked for the date usually would pay. And one person shouldn't always ask the other out so it doesn't get one sided. Can't afford a date then buy something on your way back from school or work. All of them fulfill the same obligation, that you are thinking about that person. Though some people however are more generous or well-to do, still it is a good idea to go out of your way and do something for someone you care about once in awhile doesn't necessarily have to be monetary.. but as for the greedy part, it hurt very bad if someone tell you they love you so they can get something from you.. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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