Administrators FlyJ Posted October 13, 2014 Administrators Share Posted October 13, 2014 There are no hard and fast rules on dating and marriage but you can pay extra attention to certain ‘cheating’ pointers: There is an attachment to phones We are all attached to our phones; but if you notice your partner takes her phone when leaving the room every time, even if it’s just to go into the kitchen to get a glass of water, or into the bathroom, there’s a good chance your suspicions could be right. Most of her Facebook friends are ‘hot’ girls! This scenario is rather peculiar to all and the common excuse might be that those girls are all her friends. This may very well be a big lie. Such coincidences are rather suspicious. Your partner suddenly has to work late every night There’s nothing wrong with burning the midnight oil from time to time. However, if you notice your partner suddenly says she has to work late all the time on projects that can’t be explained or decides to ‘just crash at the office because it’s so late,’ you might want to start doing some investigating. Your partner is too nice to you This one is tricky, because it’s not saying surprise sweet gestures necessarily translate to cheating. However, if one or more points on this list ring true and your partner suddenly starts bringing you flowers for no reason or buying you expensive gifts out of the blue, she could be feeling guilty about something. Watch it. She doesn't want to go out with you When a lady doesn't ever want to hang with you, but prefers her friends and some unknown persons, something is fishy. Your partner alters plans Be alarmed if she starts cancelling dinner plans, texting that something came up, and can’t make your friend’s party after an agreement had earlier been reached. Your partner suddenly becomes snappy and defensive Sometimes, guilt manifests itself as irritability and paranoia. If you make casual comments to your partner such as, ‘Oh, I texted you earlier,’ and she lashes out that you are overbearing, annoying, or neurotic; you may want to look for other red flags. Your partner makes you feel bad about yourself If your partner suddenly finds ways to pick on you by criticizing things like your body, your job, your apartment; or perpetually nitpicking about your personality quirks, your clothes, or your beliefs, there could be another woman in the picture. Source Photos: Google Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dequeen Posted October 13, 2014 Share Posted October 13, 2014 First to comment! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Abystacy Posted October 13, 2014 Share Posted October 13, 2014 spotted. . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dreamgal Posted October 15, 2014 Share Posted October 15, 2014 if your partner does all these,then you are not in a relationship to begin with. just forget it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dequeen Posted October 15, 2014 Share Posted October 15, 2014 if your partner does all these,then you are not in a relationship to begin with. just forget it isn't that a little too harsh? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dequeen Posted October 15, 2014 Share Posted October 15, 2014 if your partner does all these,then you are not in a relationship to begin with. just forget it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xenastar Posted October 15, 2014 Share Posted October 15, 2014 My partner has hot friends.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dequeen Posted October 16, 2014 Share Posted October 16, 2014 My partner has hot friends.. watch your back would be in place. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xenastar Posted October 17, 2014 Share Posted October 17, 2014 Maybe...I just hotter than they are Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dequeen Posted October 17, 2014 Share Posted October 17, 2014 Maybe...I just hotter than they are Lol.... nice one... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suavity Posted October 18, 2014 Share Posted October 18, 2014 My partner has hot friends.. shine your eyes then Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daftpunk Posted October 18, 2014 Share Posted October 18, 2014 The chick in the picture fine die Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skills Posted October 22, 2014 Share Posted October 22, 2014 This my "so called partner" is soooo gone!...lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrators FlyJ Posted October 23, 2014 Author Administrators Share Posted October 23, 2014 Lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
M2DD Posted December 31, 2014 Share Posted December 31, 2014 I don't agree with the phone part Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrators FlyJ Posted January 9, 2015 Author Administrators Share Posted January 9, 2015 The chick in the picture fine die Lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
relangel Posted January 17, 2015 Share Posted January 17, 2015 I came here yesterday and read the last two points my eyes where popped open and its what my ex was doing to me and it made me Build a huge high wall of solid form around. It makes me so angry seeing people cheats and being sincere. A big thank you to who put all All these point together bc am seeing wat I didn't see before. Thanks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators moresko Posted January 18, 2015 Moderators Share Posted January 18, 2015 I only agree with the last two points, the remaining are things that are acceptable at some point in every relationship. I wouldn't be alarmed if my partners has hot friends on her social media page, I am semi-attached to my phone, I change plans all the time (things happen), and so on. The true and tried one that I have seen and heard work all the time is, if your partner has to take a bath every time they get home even before they hug you, that's a huge sign. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daftpunk Posted January 18, 2015 Share Posted January 18, 2015 I like to bathe everyday immediately I step in my house to wash off everything about the day. I think some doctors do so too for health reasons. It'd be funny if someone suspected me of cheating for this reason. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mifled Posted January 19, 2015 Share Posted January 19, 2015 I like to bathe everyday immediately I step in my house to wash off everything about the day. I think some doctors do so too for health reasons. It'd be funny if someone suspected me of cheating for this reason. Loooool....they said if u didn't hug her before going to bathe then cheated. Meanwhile daftpunk were is simpl3, or did u refuse to hug her. She's been missing for awhile. Where did u hide her Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daftpunk Posted January 19, 2015 Share Posted January 19, 2015 Loooool....they said if u didn't hug her before going to bathe then cheated. Meanwhile daftpunk were is simpl3, or did u refuse to hug her. She's been missing for awhile. Where did u hide her abeg no be me hide her, na her trutru honey hide her. Me I'm just a solo. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sophia blinks Posted January 24, 2015 Share Posted January 24, 2015 I don't agree with the phone part.. I don't agree with the hot friends. Besides why would you keep friends that are not hot. My friends are hot Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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