Moderators moresko Posted February 23, 2015 Moderators Share Posted February 23, 2015 This is when permission given to your partner go out with the someone else. When partners in long-term marriage get sexually antsy, they start fantasizing — seriously fantasizing — about strangers. Would you give then permission or free pass to sleep with someone else for a selected period of time? Maybe a weekend pass, or a week pass? Do you think it could help or destroy a relationship? Note: I am not talking about an open relationship. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skills Posted February 23, 2015 Share Posted February 23, 2015 No.absolutely not.I would NEVER allow my partner sleep with someone else.I would loose interest in her.if our sex life is getting old...lets cook up new ideas...there's google ...unimaginable adventurous fantasies we could try.And,No ,giving u dat would not help my relationship, rather it would destroy it so...instead of giving u a pass,I would rather break up with u. if I grant u such a pass... believe me..I do not love u(anymore)...#myopinion# Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrators FlyJ Posted February 23, 2015 Administrators Share Posted February 23, 2015 No way...I would never give my partner a pass to be with someone else. Like Sleeky said, the moment I do that then its over.If my partner is having fantasies and I am not in the picture , then I know the end is near. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Iris Posted February 23, 2015 Share Posted February 23, 2015 I’ll ask her if there’s anything she wants to say before we break up. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators moresko Posted February 23, 2015 Author Moderators Share Posted February 23, 2015 Lol, what if its you that gets antsy, or you meet someone that you really want to have sex with, would you ask for a sexual hall pass? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Iris Posted February 23, 2015 Share Posted February 23, 2015 It's impossible for me. I can't be in a relationship and want to bed another. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dreamgal Posted February 24, 2015 Share Posted February 24, 2015 edited Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dreamgal Posted February 24, 2015 Share Posted February 24, 2015 hmmm it depends. I'm open to the idea but I will always use it against her. in the end tho, it will eida destroy the relationship or make you appreciate what you have more. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dreamgal Posted February 24, 2015 Share Posted February 24, 2015 hmmm it depends. I'm open to the idea but I will always use it against her. in the end tho, it will eida destroy the relationship or make you appreciate what you have more. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Iris Posted February 24, 2015 Share Posted February 24, 2015 It pays a lot not to make rash decisions on serious issues; my first comment was on the impulse. After I must have gathered my thoughts (and I have, assuming it’s happening for real), I would suggest that we talk about it because after all, she was willing to share what others probably wouldn’t. I’d respect that and ask her certain questions to determine if her feelings are fleeting. Her responses and willingness to listen would very well determine my next course of action. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
M2DD Posted February 24, 2015 Share Posted February 24, 2015 Hmmmm Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Abystacy Posted February 25, 2015 Share Posted February 25, 2015 Lol..I wouldn't. If we as couple can't work it out then there's no need to be in it. Ending will be my priority. If your fantasies isn't about us or me in particular. Then we have absolutely nothing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rencie Posted March 1, 2015 Share Posted March 1, 2015 Observing Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daftpunk Posted March 1, 2015 Share Posted March 1, 2015 :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dequeen Posted March 4, 2015 Share Posted March 4, 2015 I didn't know we were in a classroom, n d classroom has a hall? wow :o Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators moresko Posted March 13, 2015 Author Moderators Share Posted March 13, 2015 I wouldn't give my partner a relationship hall pass, she can fantasize about whoever she wants (because I except her to find other people attractive) but I own her body (like she owns mine), and if she decides she wants to share herself with someone else, I will remove myself from the equation. However, I think that for some people who have a more open approach to sex, especially those that think that sex is more about "f**king" than "intimacy", I might work for them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
relangel Posted March 30, 2015 Share Posted March 30, 2015 I wouldn't give my partner a relationship hall pass, she can fantasize about whoever she wants (because I except her to find other people attractive) but I own her body (like she owns mine), and if she decides she wants to share herself with someone else, I will remove myself from the equation. However, I think that for some people who have a more open approach to sex, especially those that think that sex is more about "f**king" than "intimacy", I might work for them. I second this to say hell no. Thumbs up dear for hitting the nail at the right spot on d head Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
destiny Posted June 4, 2015 Share Posted June 4, 2015 hmmm interesting. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted September 22, 2015 Moderators Share Posted September 22, 2015 Hmmmm... interesting. My thoughts... I love easily and I love hard. I get bored and my eyes wander. Considering the 'circumstances' of not being able to commit to marriage with her, I would most certainly allow and ask for hall passes from time to time. She should be allowed to explore with others if I will not put a ring on it period. Fair enough I would say... We would just always be 'a hot thing' I guess... #sadly Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hawken Posted September 23, 2015 Share Posted September 23, 2015 Hmmmm... interesting. My thoughts... I love easily and I love hard. I get bored and my eyes wander. Considering the 'circumstances' of not being able to commit to marriage with her, I would most certainly allow and ask for hall passes from time to time. She should be allowed to explore with others if I will not put a ring on it period. Fair enough I would say... We would just always be 'a hot thing' I guess... #sadly This is so liberal, i'm impressed. Even though i don't agree, its a welcome opinion. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted September 23, 2015 Moderators Share Posted September 23, 2015 This is so liberal, i'm impressed. Even though i don't agree, its a welcome opinion. I'm very liberal at heart... ;)/> It liberates the soul! Try it sometime :D/> Hahahahaha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dequeen Posted October 9, 2015 Share Posted October 9, 2015 The deeper you love a person, the more ridiculous giving a hall pass begins to look. When you aren't so into a person you give a hall pass with all pleasure!!! IMO of course... 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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