Administrators FlyJ Posted September 29, 2015 Administrators Share Posted September 29, 2015 Are you thinking of popping the question to your lover or partner? Getting married is a big deal. Make your proposal something she'll remember and have a great story to tell her family and friends. How did she propose? "She asked me when we were doing the dishes," isn't that great of a story to tell. Don't put too much pressure on yourself, but do try to be unique. Here's How: 1. Decide if you want to present her with a ring. It's not necessary to propose, but it is traditional to present her with a ring when you propose. If you do want to present her with a ring, here are tips for picking out a lesbian engagement ring. 2. Decide where you want to ask her. On vacation? In your home? A favorite restaurant or a romantic beach? The place of your first date? ***. Plan for location. Are you going to take her on a picnic? Be sure to pack all her favorite foods. If it's a restaurant, plan ahead and get the wait staff involved. 4. Decide how you want to say it. If you're going to ask her to marry you, you might want to prepare a little something to say about when you knew she was the "one," why you want to spend the rest of your life with her or even write her a poem. If you're the musical type, write her a song proposal. She'll certainly never forget that! 5. Decide when you want to ask her. Your anniversary? Christmas? Gay pride weekend? Her birthday? Start getting ready at least a month beforehand. 6. Get your friends involved if they can help facilitate the process. They'll want to be involved. Friends can help pick out her ring, set up the place you plan to ask, get the DJ to play your song. If having assistance will make it go smoother, do ask! 7. Do it! Look her in the eye and ask her to marry you. You know yourself and your girlfriend better than anyone. Just speak from your heart, tell her how you feel about her and why you want to be with her for the rest of your life. Bear your heart and soul to her. 8. Listen. If you're lucky she'll say yes, but she may have something else in mind. She might not be ready. If she needs time to think about it, give her that. 9. Celebrate. If she says yes, it's time to start planning your lesbian wedding. Tips: Try something fun. A friend of mine proposed by putting a ring in a sushi roll. Another had a friend set up a picnic off one of their favorite hikes and asked her there. Try something romantic. Bring flowers and chocolate. Go to a nice restaurant. Write your proposal in the sand. Try something unique. Slip a note in her favorite bag of candy. Rent a billboard she drives by on the way to work. Have the announcer do it at an NBA game. (I've seen plenty of straight proposals this way, but never a lesbian one!) Keep your sense of humor. If you get too serious, she'll freak out and think something is wrong. What You Need: Ring - if you're presenting her with one. Courage. An open heart. Source Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Abystacy Posted September 29, 2015 Share Posted September 29, 2015 Hmm interesting, definitely one of those day she or I will be saying....yes!yes!yes! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrators FlyJ Posted September 29, 2015 Author Administrators Share Posted September 29, 2015 Hope I get an invite o...lol. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sexyug Posted September 29, 2015 Share Posted September 29, 2015 @flyj guess dis would only work well abroad not in nigeria lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrators FlyJ Posted September 29, 2015 Author Administrators Share Posted September 29, 2015 Haha true that but you never can tell. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hawken Posted September 30, 2015 Share Posted September 30, 2015 And if your babe is short, after she says yes, hold the ring over her head and make her jump several times for it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dequeen Posted September 30, 2015 Share Posted September 30, 2015 And if your babe is short, after she says yes, hold the ring over her head and make her jump several times for it. hahahahahahaha!!!! you no well.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hawken Posted September 30, 2015 Share Posted September 30, 2015 hahahahahahaha!!!! you no well.... :P Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dequeen Posted September 30, 2015 Share Posted September 30, 2015 :P/> Admin! Stalker alert! Tell @Hawken to stop stalking me oooo. Hawken, dey de do you? abi them send you? Tell them say you no see me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrators FlyJ Posted September 30, 2015 Author Administrators Share Posted September 30, 2015 Lol...is it stalking or love? Haha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dequeen Posted September 30, 2015 Share Posted September 30, 2015 Lol...is it stalking or love? Haha Strong stalking o. Tell her to not be found two posts from me! :P B) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hawken Posted October 1, 2015 Share Posted October 1, 2015 Strong stalking o. Tell her to not be found two posts from me! :P/> B)/> You go fear restriction order loool Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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