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Finding Love this Christmas


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What is Christmas apart from love? Apart from sharing it with that one special person that makes you smile effortlessly.

 

It isn't too late folks! All hope shouldn't be lost yet! To find love this season, simply read on.

 

  1. Be the definition of 'LOVE' itself. Give it generously and you shall have it given back to you in return. The law of Karma if you will.
  2. Let your guards down. Disabuse your mind of what 'LOVE' should look, walk or talk like. Let your heart do the filtering.
  3. Love may be found in the most obvious and the most unsuspecting places. Be sure to get out often. be everywhere. That way, you increase your visibility.
  4. When out, dress nice! I cannot overemphasize putting your best foot forward. You attract who you are (what you project) and not what you want!
  5. Don't be shy. take that bold step to ask her if the seat next to her is free.
  6. Start from the outward in. Some humour would be a great place to start. Look around, there's always someone/something silly happening next to you that could be the perfect icebreaker.
  7. Guage. Observe her mood. don't push it if she's being dismisive and not falling over your jokes laughing.
  8. Remember to be alert. Someone someplace may have her eyes on you as well. There's no crime in being picked up too *wink*
  9. Be clear on what you want. Our focus here is 'LOVE'. If she doesn't fall within our interest level, we should ignore the throbbing in our pants and just pass!
  10. If you are the type who would rather be home, go online. There're lots of cool peeps there too! e.g. kimi :D :P
  11. While it's tougher finding love online, do not be dismayed. Go to the the members list and start chatting ladies up. Start from the letter 'A', work your way all the way to 'Z'. That way you don't lose track or skip any name.
  12. Out of 1000 you chat up, atleast some 30 would respond. Out of the 30, some 12 may find you interesting. Of the 12, some 5 may like you very much. Whatever you do, refrain from coming across as a sucsexful candidate

 

Love takes work. It comes easy for some but not for others. You must be willing to give it all you've got! I assure you, it would be worth every ounce of effort put in.

 

...and so, as you seek out love this season, May love seek you out and find you too.

 

This ought to yeild some results... if it doesn't, please stick to your Porn viewing and day-dreaming. This too shall pass!

 

xx

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