dreamgal Posted January 20, 2016 Share Posted January 20, 2016 I'm going with yes, I feel they are more intense, dramatic, passionate and even more dangerous than straight relationships. I don't know why but its just an observation. Would like to know your thoughts and reasons Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators moresko Posted January 20, 2016 Moderators Share Posted January 20, 2016 Nope, people are dramatic not the relationship. I've witnessed straight relationships that makes me thankful that I'm gay, and LGBT relationships that makes me thankful that I'm single. I think people have a warped concept of same sex relationships, assuming that since both individual are of the same sex that means that means everything should jive in a perfect "kumbayaness", so when something happens its blown way out of proportion. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Abystacy Posted January 20, 2016 Share Posted January 20, 2016 It all depends on the inviduals involved. We know we’re up against a lot that straight people aren’t. The notion that we are more dramatic is a No No for me, my opinion tho. There are many,of us who want nothing more than to live a simple life but societal imposition on us, the prejudice and expectations is in itself drama, but that doesn’t make us dramatic. Like you said, our relationship are too intense, passionate when with the right one and of course emotions will definitely be high. Right or wrong... now coming to the fact why it seems like there is a lot of drama in the lesbian than in straight relationship is because of the recycling, we all date each other. I don't think it has anything with being in a lesbian relationship. Both relationships have their fair share of drama. It rather boils down to the individual and they tend to deal with it. We all know that if there's one thing all women have in common is drama. Whether gay or straight no one is immune. we’re women and drama is a birthright.Take for instance in here, if our real identities are to be revealed, the cross pattern will be so obvious on who have dated who, our lgbt community is such a small circle, therefore is gonna be hard to escape such drama because chances are, we tend to hang out in a same place, club etc, and thus run into exes, or someone know someone nd who have dated someone. Now when all these hooking up, romantic emotions are summed up into feelings and disposition it definitely going to lead to drama but it doesn't make us more dramatic than straight relationships. Although i wil say that some *stereotypes lesbians* have a thing for being loud and obnoxious and fighting all the time. As if it makes them feel better. Those are the once that invites drama to their door steps. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted January 20, 2016 Moderators Share Posted January 20, 2016 Hmmm... I believe intensity or passion comes with the package when we fall in love. Provided you aren't a lesbian 'struggling' in a heterosexual relationship or a heterosexual settling with another (for whatever reason). I'd like to believe that it either gets as beautiful or as 'dramatic* as we make it. ...and this has absolutely nothing to do with sexual orientation. Dreamgal is on fire gan! ;) *thumbs up* 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dequeen Posted January 20, 2016 Share Posted January 20, 2016 I agree with what Abystacy has said. Its the recycling that is the drama most times. And then again, you can't help but create drama when you love makeup sex *wink*. I'm not into drama though. *just saying* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dequeen Posted January 20, 2016 Share Posted January 20, 2016 To the topic, none is more dramatic than the other. Each has their fair share of drama.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrators FlyJ Posted January 20, 2016 Administrators Share Posted January 20, 2016 I think it depends on the individuals involved and the dynamics of their relationship. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dreamgal Posted January 20, 2016 Author Share Posted January 20, 2016 you guys have convinced me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skills Posted January 20, 2016 Share Posted January 20, 2016 Drama must come at some point in any relationship. How u handle it is what matters whether straight, gay or whatever. So I wouldn't say its more here or there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nmacie Posted January 20, 2016 Share Posted January 20, 2016 you guys have convinced me. What did "we" convince you? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dreamgal Posted January 20, 2016 Author Share Posted January 20, 2016 What did "we" convince you? that its an individual thing, not an orientation thing Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fairy Posted January 21, 2016 Share Posted January 21, 2016 Nope, people are dramatic not the relationship. I've witnessed straight relationships that makes me thankful that I'm gay, and LGBT relationships that makes me thankful that I'm single. I think people have a warped concept of same sex relationships, assuming that since both individual are of the same sex that means that means everything should jive in a perfect "kumbayaness", so when something happens its blown way out of proportion. Well said. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fairy Posted January 21, 2016 Share Posted January 21, 2016 Drama gets me sick... I've seen lots of drama in both heterosexual and homosexual relationships... Some people are drama queens/kings. Its got nothing to do with sexuality or relationship... Some people don't even end in relationship drama... they have so much palava they have family drama and Bestie drama as well... Okay, I'm just blabbing.... please read moresko's comment on this thread. She's very correct. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RedSafire Posted January 21, 2016 Share Posted January 21, 2016 Passionate and intense, yes! Dramatic, I agree with moresko, it depends on the people involved. Heterosexual relationships are just as dramatic. Dangerous, I find funny sha!!! If you live in Nigeria, definitely. But in Australia and South Africa even Ghana it's not that dangerouse. That's of course if you are talking of laws and legal ramifications. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dipbluesae Posted January 16, 2018 Share Posted January 16, 2018 Hate dramas. A relationship is not hard but with dramatic people it's just ew! I think it can be passionate..with women Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Keke Posted March 30, 2018 Share Posted March 30, 2018 Whether it's a mad house has more to do with the individuals living in it than the structure itself. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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