chocolat Posted February 12, 2016 Share Posted February 12, 2016 Some of us have being cheated on or we cheated on our partner. The question is 1. Why did you cheat? 2. Did your partner find out. ***. Did the relationship continued or ended because of the incident. 4. How did you feel when committing the act. 5. Was it worth it... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chocolat Posted February 12, 2016 Author Share Posted February 12, 2016 I guess people cheat because they are not fulfilled in that relationship or they cheated because the opportunity presents itself..I've cheated in my younger years but not as an adult.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Abystacy Posted February 12, 2016 Share Posted February 12, 2016 People cheat because they want to cheat... No excuses Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
damozy Posted February 12, 2016 Share Posted February 12, 2016 Cheating is not a mistake, its a choice! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skills Posted February 12, 2016 Share Posted February 12, 2016 People cheat because the want to cheat... No excuses Thank you! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dreamgal Posted February 12, 2016 Share Posted February 12, 2016 1.I don't know why i did it,the excitement of a new adventure i guess. 2. Yes she did. That girl was a detective. ***. We broke up for months but made up. 4. Excited and guilty at the same time 5. Nope, It wasn't worth it. I hope to never hurt someone i love like that again Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dequeen Posted February 12, 2016 Share Posted February 12, 2016 1. I was upset about something so I wanted to f***k with no emotions attached. Just the activity. 2. Nope ***. Nope 4. I felt numb actually. I didn't feel anything. It was just activity. 5. Nope. Did it cure the anger I felt? Yes. Was it fair to my girlfriend? No. I was a lot younger then though so i've since forgiven myself and taken a new path in my life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hawken Posted February 12, 2016 Share Posted February 12, 2016 Never cheated. Looking forward to my first time though. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nmacie Posted February 12, 2016 Share Posted February 12, 2016 Never Cheated, never will.. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrators FlyJ Posted February 13, 2016 Administrators Share Posted February 13, 2016 Never cheated and never will. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dequeen Posted February 13, 2016 Share Posted February 13, 2016 I don't think you are permitted to comment on this thread if you haven't been in the queer lifestyle for up to 1year. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dreamgal Posted February 13, 2016 Share Posted February 13, 2016 I don't think you are permitted to comment on this thread if you haven't been in the queer lifestyle for up to 1year. I don't think cheating has a timeline, people date 4 months or less and cheat. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dequeen Posted February 13, 2016 Share Posted February 13, 2016 I don't think cheating has a timeline, people date 4 months or less and cheat. Those people have probably had a previous experience of the lifestyle. Its like a catholic Reverend sister telling me she has never and will never commit adultery. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dreamgal Posted February 13, 2016 Share Posted February 13, 2016 Those people have probably had a previous experience of the lifestyle. Its like a catholic Reverend sister telling me she has never and will never commit adultery. Firstly cheating is not peculiar to gays, if she has had relationships with guys prior to being with a woman it counts. Secondly, don't misuse your privilege of having personal information about someone by using it against them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dequeen Posted February 13, 2016 Share Posted February 13, 2016 She should know what topics to shy away from, not using inexperience to make others look like demons. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TeeJay Posted February 13, 2016 Share Posted February 13, 2016 So, here we go... 1. Did it cause I wanted to. Sexual tension was high. She, or they wanted me, I sure darn wanted them too. There were other times I did it cause I was angry and just to get back at her. Or whenever I felt, "Nna, TeeJay. You are falling too deep in love o. Better redeem yourself before she have you wrapped around her fingers" 2. Yea. She did. She always had a weird feeling whenever I cheat. Weird. *** The relationship officially hit the rocks after she found that I banged a friend of ours. Ah. She gave me a hard time. That one. TeeJay that I was, I moved on quickly. By the time she was ready to let it go and give us another chance, I'd decided to remain single and f**k around as I please without any sense of commitment, or guilt. 4. Numb, sometimes. I ENJOYED it other times. Depends on who I'm cheating with. 5. Hummm... was worth it for the usual experience, but for the ones who trusted and loved me, it wasn't worth it. They didn't and still don't deserve to be cheated on. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dreamgal Posted February 13, 2016 Share Posted February 13, 2016 She should know what topics to shy away from, not using inexperience to make others look like demons. If you feel like a demon, that's your own problem not hers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Abystacy Posted February 13, 2016 Share Posted February 13, 2016 Nothing like queer lifestyle, cheating shouldn't be categorized. Whether it's a month, a year or otherwise. As long as you have become an item or officially dating Anything you do regardless how long you be been dating is same as the other. So cheating within a year time frame,or more a day or whatever is cheating. No defense to that. I don't think you are permitted to comment on this thread if you haven't been in the queer lifestyle for up to 1year. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hawken Posted February 14, 2016 Share Posted February 14, 2016 So, here we go... 1. Did it cause I wanted to. Sexual tension was high. She, or they wanted me, I sure darn wanted them too. There were other times I did it cause I was angry and just to get back at her. Or whenever I felt, "Nna, TeeJay. You are falling too deep in love o. Better redeem yourself before she have you wrapped around her fingers" 2. Yea. She did. She always had a weird feeling whenever I cheat. Weird. *** The relationship officially hit the rocks after she found that I banged a friend of ours. Ah. She gave me a hard time. That one. TeeJay that I was, I moved on quickly. By the time she was ready to let it go and give us another chance, I'd decided to remain single and f**k around as I please without any sense of commitment, or guilt. 4. Numb, sometimes. I ENJOYED it other times. Depends on who I'm cheating with. 5. Hummm... was worth it for the usual experience, but for the ones who trusted and loved me, it wasn't worth it. They didn't and still don't deserve to be cheated on. LOOL @ENJOYED IT ho ho ho Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hawken Posted February 14, 2016 Share Posted February 14, 2016 Btw, what am i missing?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suavity Posted February 14, 2016 Share Posted February 14, 2016 I don't think you are permitted to comment on this thread if you haven't been in the queer lifestyle for up to 1year. What's that?is cheating not cheating no matter who it is done with? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Modd Posted February 14, 2016 Share Posted February 14, 2016 Btw, what am i missing?? Yes! thought I was the only confused one. We're definitely missing something... Wonder who's gotten Dequeen's knickers in a twist, Its not that serious, abeg... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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