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When Did You Accept Your Sexuality?


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At what age did you accept your sexuality?

 

Me - Age 12 but I didn't know what it was really... I came to full acceptance in my early twenties.

 

For the longest time, I thought it was marine spirit things...lol..

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Hahahaha. I hail you o Fly!

 

I struggled for a very long time. I came to FULL acceptance 2years ago *covers face*

 

I made my journey (of no return) quite public I think... :P

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Found out 10 years ago at age 16 after I kissed a girl for the first time but came to full acceptance in 2013

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I always knew I like girls from the start, but I never thought it had a name or was it was until I was about 10/11. I never fought the feeling, just went with the flow...

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Even when I was little, like 11/12, I kissed girls, I was a good girl tho, very good but I was and I still am attracted to girls. Got a lil story behind my sexuality. In 2014, It finally dawned on me how much I wanna be with a woman.

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I don't know if I have. I am still watching it unsure.gif

Lol... did you get healed by the Holy Spirit? Lol...or you visited Apostle Suleman? :D :D

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I knw when I clocked 14yrs then my friend (crush) told me she had a boyfriend I felt a strong hrtbrk tried to make her feel am d best person for her... I gt to accept 4 years ago and it feels Good to be ur real self.

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Lol... did you get healed by the Holy Spirit? Lol...or you visited Apostle Suleman? biggrin.gifbiggrin.gif

 

biggrin.gifbiggrin.gif I hear hes sending money to peoples account, maybe i should go sef

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After praying it away for about 8 years, finally accepted it at age 26. Been a trip of honest self discovery since then :)/>

 

Lol....apparently, prayer/deliverance works for some

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Well I found out recently...I realised I like girls Cause I kinda fell in love with my roomate....but she's straight...lol

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Well I found out recently...I realised I like girls Cause I kinda fell in love with my roomate....but she's straight...lol

 

Oops.

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Well I found out recently...I realised I like girls Cause I kinda fell in love with my roomate....but she's straight...lol

Hmmmm, falling in love with a straight girl, not an easy something.... Before somebody will die in silence.

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As in @teewhy...it's not a joking sturv oh...hmmmm. .. living with someone I really love and she only sees me as her friend cause shes straight lol...she found out or guessed that I really liked her and sh took advantage of it...apparently

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As in @teewhy...it's not a joking sturv oh...hmmmm. .. living with someone I really love and she only sees me as her friend cause shes straight lol...she found out or guessed that I really liked her and sh took advantage of it...apparently

 

Aww...how did she take advantage of it?

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Still struggling. Sometimes it's intense like the people i'll disappoint and sometimes it's mild like "what will be will be".

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I have always been attracted to women and I didn't know what it was called or that it was seen as a taboo until secondary school when I went to an all girls boarding house :) .Even then, I still didn't wrestle with it within myself

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Still struggling. Sometimes it's intense like the people i'll disappoint and sometimes it's mild like "what will be will be".

*Hugs* Just try to choose whatever makes you happy.

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Still struggling. Sometimes it's intense like the people i'll disappoint and sometimes it's mild like "what will be will be".

I think you just got to do what makes you happy. You can still live your life without disappointing anyone...more like no one's knows what you truly are...

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