Moderators kimi Posted August 13, 2017 Moderators Share Posted August 13, 2017 NL is fast becoming Nigeria's foremost credible LBT+ online community. We do have our share of challenges in terms of members' consistency and stay period etc... Nevertheless, it is a place for people of common interest to interact and perhaps progress things further. So here's the thing. Considering we are a (not-so) small community, it is a possibility that you could date several people off the site. It is also a possibility that you would enter into a relationship with someone who has dated someone you know or are friends with. Questions are: a) Do you have a cap for the number of people you would allow yourself date from here? b)What are your thoughts about the 'recycling' that is almost inevitable? Do you mind it that your girlfriend has been with ***, 4 or 5 people from here. c)What number of exes from this site (NL) would bother you about a person you are considering dating? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VINA Posted August 13, 2017 Share Posted August 13, 2017 Some of us are not here to date. Just to cause trouble. When I'm not a calendar. Lol. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jenny1403 Posted August 13, 2017 Share Posted August 13, 2017 Lol. ...This is quite interesting and very funny. Well, I will have u know that NOT everyone has a common interest when it comes to meeting people, while sum peepol re here to recycle and be recycled, some others may also be here to strike real life Goals. Now Speaking for myself. ...at my age & stage , I am not open to any silly recycling games - at least not any more. You actually get to a point in life when u come to know that games are not for all times. And then dating in itself is actually deep , so if I meet someone who's been recycling or recycled, u would need to make me understand why you have such a trend and then I would also need to be sure that u not gonn play the same old game with me before we then talk about dating. Basically I need to be sure that u want Wat I want too, not that i want to date and you want something else. The objectives and of course feelings would need to be mutual before we date. That being said....If uv been in the recycle room more than once, lemme hear you say Yeaaaa Yeaaaa🎤🎵🎶🎤 **in wizkids voice*** 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted August 13, 2017 Author Moderators Share Posted August 13, 2017 (edited) *** hours ago, vina said: Some of us are not here to date. Just to cause trouble. When I'm not a calendar. Lol. Looool. Sounds familiar Edited August 13, 2017 by kimi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jibz Posted August 13, 2017 Share Posted August 13, 2017 I suppose it all depends on what your expectations are. I personally don't mind whatever her past is as long as the past doesn't dictate our present. This community is still smaller than the average heterosexual community in any state so it is expected that you have a past and you have dated a few people who will also be on this safe space. Whilst some people are serial daters for the heck of it, some actually unfortunately have not been lucky in relationships and are not giving up. To answer the questions, I personally don't have a limit or choose to be bothered about her exes if we are both on the same boat moving forward. 3 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teewhy Posted August 13, 2017 Share Posted August 13, 2017 I'm just a cheerleader, cheerleading true love tho. Nonetheless, I was here to make real friends but in here, I got more than friendship(story for another day). That said, different strokes for different folks. What worked for Mr. A might not in any way work for Mrs. Z. I always tell people, follow your inner instinct, that shii doesn't mislead, well maybe for me. To the questions, recycling o le werk mehnnn! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dreamgal Posted August 13, 2017 Share Posted August 13, 2017 Been with 4 or 5 people from here? That's too much o 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suavity Posted August 14, 2017 Share Posted August 14, 2017 On 8/13/2017 at 6:38 PM, dreamgal said: Been with 4 or 5 people from here? That's too much o Hajiya too much. am here to make as much friends as I can, carry over load if possible I need Lots of friends please.... Hmmmmm how comes I have never said this before? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrators FlyJ Posted August 15, 2017 Administrators Share Posted August 15, 2017 @kimi you haven't answered yet o. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrators FlyJ Posted August 15, 2017 Administrators Share Posted August 15, 2017 1) I haven't considered dating anyone on NL but let's say 1. 2) My thoughts on recycling - I wouldn't date someone who has been with 4 or 5 people. Na serial dater? 3) 2 and above. It just doesn't seem right to me. ☺ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted August 15, 2017 Author Moderators Share Posted August 15, 2017 56 minutes ago, FlyJ said: @kimi you haven't answered yet o. Loool. Just when I thought I had escaped this. Lol. Well... lol. Flyj well done o... 1. Yes, there is a cap for me. 2. I mind o... lol. I am a very private person, I wouldn't want all that drama of having shared experiences with other members over a girl. ***. Anything above 2 would be of concern to me... that said, shit happens and I tend to be more open minded than I admit to being lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nmacie Posted August 16, 2017 Share Posted August 16, 2017 I just find that word "Recycling" funny Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suavity Posted August 16, 2017 Share Posted August 16, 2017 6 minutes ago, Nmassie said: I just find that word "Recycling" funny Where have you been? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nmacie Posted August 16, 2017 Share Posted August 16, 2017 *** minutes ago, Suavity said: Where have you been? Suav :) I've been around. It's been a while.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suavity Posted August 16, 2017 Share Posted August 16, 2017 Yeah.... How are you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrators FlyJ Posted August 18, 2017 Administrators Share Posted August 18, 2017 @Suavity you never answer the question o ☺ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suavity Posted August 18, 2017 Share Posted August 18, 2017 I have nah Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted December 28, 2018 Share Posted December 28, 2018 On 8/13/2017 at 2:34 AM, kimi said: NL is fast becoming Nigeria's foremost credible LBT+ online community. We do have our share of challenges in terms of members' consistency and stay period etc... Nevertheless, it is a place for people of common interest to interact and perhaps progress things further. So here's the thing. Considering we are a (not-so) small community, it is a possibility that you could date several people off the site. It is also a possibility that you would enter into a relationship with someone who has dated someone you know or are friends with. Questions are: a) Do you have a cap for the number of people you would allow yourself date from here? b)What are your thoughts about the 'recycling' that is almost inevitable? Do you mind it that your girlfriend has been with ***, 4 or 5 people from here. c)What number of exes from this site (NL) would bother you about a person you are considering dating? I wouldn't care. I'm very different from the 3 to 5 she's dealt with here. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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