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Farida

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So the second time i was 'with' a girl. We was making out and shii then she got up and reached for something, behold a rod... Strap on. She was fixing it as i was observing and wondering what she intends to do with it. Then she came at me and i was like where are you putting that!? Lmao. I was like no babe I'm not about the drill life what do you think I'm a lesbian for!? For dicks? I saw that she was not understanding my point. So I told her that rods don't yield results for me so I don't engage them. I trib instead. She said lesbians don't trib, that's just in porn videos. I said Bitch how!? I tribbed my last girl. Are you saying we're not lesbians or was we acting a script!? She argued that Tribbing & Scissoring is made for porn because it makes for good camera access and that that's why its awkward and not a natural position for 2 people to think of doing when they're alone (I can agree that scissoring is quite an awkward position but Tribbing especially in a missionary position that shii is comfortable and heaven). My pipu she couldn't believe that lesbians trib in real life and before her I thought the Strap on was a 'play' too. Anyway we settled for tribbing and guess who was on top of their voice? You got it. She's now a tribaddict. After her i dated a guy briefly, I almost made him apologize for not having a clit. I also met a gay guy who doesn't like to penetrate or be penetrated. He had a name for it, can't remember. Just when you think you've figured it all out then someone shows up and puts that behind. Tribbing is sha my favorite thing to do with a girl. Please share yours 

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The one mistake people make generally is trying to use one method for every one. That is a lazy man way.

 

Every woman is different and every woman likes to be touched and fvcked differently.

 

Your ex girlfriend should have sought your permission before introducing toys to the equation. I don't mind toys, I'm open to new ideas.

 

I wanna try it all, as long as it can bring me pleasure and if I do start and it doesn't feel good anymore, I will tell you to stop and try something else. 

Like I said, start the tune and I will dance along with you. Whatever you wanna do is cool. As long as it's satisfying for me and you at the end of the day.

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You ladies paints penetrative sex via dildos or strap on, as such a bad idea. Enjoying sex via this means do not make a queer lady any less than they are. Since the aim of intimacy is "pleasuring" and at the same time making "sure" the said partner is having a "good time" while at it.  what does it matter, the "means" in which they implore  to satisfy their sexual needs? I guess it's all about having a chat  and see what activities interest them most. Then explore.

That said, anything goes, from let say, rubbing clitoris with fingers, to inserting fingers into vagina. Sometimes sex toys comes in handy, dildo or even strap on.

Oral sex too works marvelously. But grinding and scissoring does wonders. (although I do not fancy scissoring that well) . 

Touching - lick- kiss the butt is heaven, sometimes depends though, inserting things like fingers or toys could be icing on a cake. 

Basically there are ton of other things. But lemme just stop here. For decency sake.

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13 hours ago, scarlet said:

You ladies paints penetrative sex via dildos or strap on, as such a bad idea. Enjoying sex via this means do not make a queer lady any less than they are. Since the aim of intimacy is "pleasuring" and at the same time making "sure" the said partner is having a "good time" while at it.  what does it matter, the "means" in which they implore  to satisfy their sexual needs? I guess it's all about having a chat  and see what activities interest them most. Then explore.

That said, anything goes, from let say, rubbing clitoris with fingers, to inserting fingers into vagina. Sometimes sex toys comes in handy, dildo or even strap on.

Oral sex too works marvelously. But grinding and scissoring does wonders. (although I do not fancy scissoring that well) . 

Touching - lick- kiss the butt is heaven, sometimes depends though, inserting things like fingers or toys could be icing on a cake. 

Basically there are ton of other things. But lemme just stop here. For decency sake.

It's not like we're castigating penetrative sex using dildos or strap on. The truth is some of us (I especially) don't derives pleasure from it. However that doesn't mean I can't use those toys for my partner. If it does it for her, I'll gladly pleasure her with them plus any other thing she will want I do to her. All she need to do is tell me and I'll gladly do and even do other stuffs she didn't ask for, if I think It'll give her great pleasure (unless if she doesn't want). The aim to get her satisfied. When it comes to my turn, I'll tell her to put the toys away and tell her exactly how I want it.

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I honestly still don't understand tribbing. I always thought scissoring and tribbing are one and same.

Anyway I don't like penetrative sex. Its weird. But I would like to penetrate somebody sha 😁

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1 hour ago, Hawken said:

I honestly still don't understand tribbing. I always thought scissoring and tribbing are one and same.

Anyway I don't like penetrative sex. Its weird. But I would like to penetrate somebody sha 😁

Words fail me in times like this. How about i show you? A demonstration would do. @kimi coman beat me am in my house😄😋

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13 minutes ago, Farida said:

Words fail me in times like this. How about i show you? A demonstration would do. @kimi coman beat me am in my house😄😋

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Hahahaha. My baby girl can go for lessons. She blocks her mind when she attends tutorials and as such feels nothing :597f824b9bcf2_tw_blush1:

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10 hours ago, Farida said:

Words fail me in times like this. How about i show you? A demonstration would do. @kimi coman beat me am in my house😄😋

Why, hello Farida, nice to meet you 😀

9 hours ago, kimi said:

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Hahahaha. My baby girl can go for lessons. She blocks her mind when she attends tutorials and as such feels nothing :597f824b9bcf2_tw_blush1:

She what?? 😯

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15 hours ago, Gimbiyya said:

It's not like we're castigating penetrative sex using dildos or strap on. The truth is some of us (I especially) don't derives pleasure from it. However that doesn't mean I can't use those toys for my partner. If it does it for her, I'll gladly pleasure her with them plus any other thing she will want I do to her. All she need to do is tell me and I'll gladly do and even do other stuffs she didn't ask for, if I think It'll give her great pleasure (unless if she doesn't want). The aim to get her satisfied. When it comes to my turn, I'll tell her to put the toys away and tell her exactly how I want it.

I guess the  "talking" and "dialogue" are potent cocktail for practicing great sex .

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