Jenny1403 Posted September 16, 2017 Share Posted September 16, 2017 So on a normal girls' parole...lets assume u been seeing a girl for sumtime now...u two have actually agreed to date and of course u possibly have had ur intimate moments in and out of bed. In your opinion...when do u think its right to go al d way raw with her...down to tribbing / scissoring? (for those whom it matters to) Would it sound right if u request that u both get tested and screened before u get down raw on yourselves just so we are sure we re both safe and can play al d way without fear of herpes or the likes of dem...? Pls share ur thoughts Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chrmd Posted September 16, 2017 Share Posted September 16, 2017 In my opinion, any time is right... but I will only go raw with my girlfriend when i'm sure she's clean... And if a relationship with my girlfriend is going to get sexual, i'm definitely suggesting us testing ourselves, it is the right thing to do... I love my life too much to get STI. And if she loves me or wants to be safe, i'm sure she would have no problem with it or even get angry at me for suggesting it. Safety and sexual health should come first in any relationship. 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mimy Posted September 16, 2017 Share Posted September 16, 2017 Sadly most queer women are not having safe sex. We don't worry about unplanned pregnancy and most lesbians seem to think that we don't have to worry about contacting STIs from our partners either. The fact is, our risk for STIs is comparable to that of a heterosexual woman. I think it's safer we insist on getting tested before going raw. Though some ladies might find that offensive, which it shouldn't be. We should insist anyway. Again it's easier for partners who are in committed relationship than for those who just wanna have fun and go. In whatever case it's good we know safe/protective sex isn't just for straight people. 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted September 16, 2017 Moderators Share Posted September 16, 2017 I would say getting tested is the ideal. Best it is discussed at the earlier stage of your getting-to-know phase otherwise, it gets tougher as the feelings deepen. Lol. When to go Raw, All the way? Before she goes to do a number 2 On a more serious note, I would say it rests with the parties concerned. Two adults in bed should make their own rules😊 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
contessa Posted September 17, 2017 Share Posted September 17, 2017 There are soooooo much nasties out there.... Many don't even have a cure and u d most likely be living with it all your life. To me, it's not too much to ask. As for the right time....honestly I Dont know.... 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VINA Posted September 18, 2017 Share Posted September 18, 2017 Awww man. Where did spontaneity go? And I'm usually in the moment kind of girl o. Chai. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
contessa Posted September 19, 2017 Share Posted September 19, 2017 9 hours ago, vina said: Awww man. Where did spontaneity go? With the advent of herpes and genital warts, it flew right out the window sweetheart 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jenny1403 Posted September 19, 2017 Author Share Posted September 19, 2017 10 hours ago, vina said: Awww man. Where did spontaneity go? And I'm usually in the moment kind of girl o. Chai. Baby.....its caution over spontaneity 😂😀😅 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VINA Posted September 19, 2017 Share Posted September 19, 2017 1 hour ago, Jenny1403 said: Baby.....its caution over spontaneity 😂😀😅 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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