Moderators kimi Posted October 14, 2017 Moderators Share Posted October 14, 2017 Hey ladies, How's your Saturday coming along. Here are a few questions/issues to chat about over lunch 😊 1. How easy are you to be with when irritable, cranky or having a mood swing? Those days when you just don't feel like being cheered up. Lol 2. How do you manage it in your relationship? Are you type that withdraws and would rather be left alone or do you prefer that she caters to you? 3. Do you think there is a best/better way of managing mood swings when in a relationship (in consideration to your partner)? Let's get this conversation started... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starburst Posted October 14, 2017 Share Posted October 14, 2017 When am having a mood swing i don't like talking and I really luv to be left alone. When it comes to managing mood swings in a relationship personally speaking I believe for you to be in a relationship with someone that means to a certain extent u understand each other so if ur partner is having a mood swing u should understand let her have her space for that moment. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matty Posted October 14, 2017 Share Posted October 14, 2017 Been in a relationship, that means u both understand n know each other to a certain level... So for me i think there isnt any better way to manage mood swings other than understanding n knowing how each other feels when moody or cranky. I dont like talking n luv to be left alone for a while when moody. But most times, my mood swings isnt wat a chilled bottle of coke or Irish whiskey (Jameson) cant handle... Just for few mins. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted October 14, 2017 Share Posted October 14, 2017 For me, I'm very easy to please..I'm hardly cranky or moody, and if and when I do, all it takes is a calm and reassuring word from my partner, and I'm okay.I love attention, so I am not one to stay away from people when having a moment.I love to be coddled. However, if my partner is the cranky, irritable, red haired temper type, I always have a way of calming her down.its all about observing and understanding your partner.if you notice your partner is the type that wants to be left alone when cranky, take a step back and give her time then try to make her feel better.cater to her, take her out, make her laugh if you are together.. If you are not in the same city, spend time on phone with her, send re assuring words to her via chats..the goal is to make her snap out of the mood.you've got to be her personal clown.. If you are the type that tells your partner 'f***k off' and she replies 'Go to hell' when mad, who wants to calm who down? 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sumtnu4got Posted October 14, 2017 Share Posted October 14, 2017 kimi kim.. Saturday is coming along great.. just getting out of bed here :) Anyhoo to answer your questions.. I hardly have those days when I get moody.. And when I'm moody I can easily be cheered up..I actually like being catered to.. Now when I'm in relationships it's a bit tricky because I've never been with a woman that doesn't get cranky or moody. I just let them be and give them their space. No one has time to be around a moody or cranky woman :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted October 14, 2017 Author Moderators Share Posted October 14, 2017 14 minutes ago, sumtnu4got said: kimi kim.. Saturday is coming along great.. just getting out of bed here :) Anyhoo to answer your questions.. I hardly have those days when I get moody.. And when I'm moody I can easily be cheered up..I actually like being catered to.. Now when I'm in relationships it's a bit tricky because I've never been with a woman that doesn't get cranky or moody. I just let them be and give them their space. No one has time to be around a moody or cranky woman :) Hahahahaha meanie @ the bolded. How is you doing stranger *wink* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sumtnu4got Posted October 14, 2017 Share Posted October 14, 2017 34 minutes ago, kimi said: Hahahahaha meanie @ the bolded. How is you doing stranger *wink* Ehn ehn, tis the truth I talk oh 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suavity Posted October 14, 2017 Share Posted October 14, 2017 Whenever someone is moody the best option is to leave the person for a while, that person will come around eventually (speaking of me) when am moody and someone disturbs me I get really pissed off so the best thing is to let me be. When my partner gets moody also I will just let her be too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teewhy Posted October 15, 2017 Share Posted October 15, 2017 I'm just here to read people's mood swings stories. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Farida Posted October 21, 2017 Share Posted October 21, 2017 Boyyyy I love my space. I don't give it up. I don't expect my partner's either. When am having a moment, I like to be left alone. I come around when I'm done. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted November 10, 2019 Share Posted November 10, 2019 @kimi All too often you rarely respond to your own posts 😀 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted November 10, 2019 Share Posted November 10, 2019 On 10/14/2017 at 7:54 AM, Txunamy said: However, if my partner is the cranky, irritable, red haired temper type, I always have a way of calming her down.its all about observing and understanding your partner.if you notice your partner is the type that wants to be left alone when cranky, take a step back and give her time then try to make her feel better.cater to her, take her out, make her laugh if you are together. 🙄 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted November 10, 2019 Share Posted November 10, 2019 2 hours ago, Michelle said: 🙄 🙄😏 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted November 10, 2019 Author Moderators Share Posted November 10, 2019 4 hours ago, Michelle said: @kimi All too often you rarely respond to your own posts 😀 Lol. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted November 10, 2019 Share Posted November 10, 2019 10 hours ago, Txunamy said: 🙄😏 😘😘😘 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted November 10, 2019 Share Posted November 10, 2019 58 minutes ago, Michelle said: 😘😘😘 😘😘 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted May 3, 2020 Share Posted May 3, 2020 On 10/14/2017 at 7:54 AM, Txunamy said: I love to be coddled. 🤗 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted May 3, 2020 Share Posted May 3, 2020 32 minutes ago, Michelle said: 🤗 🤗🤗 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hawken Posted May 4, 2020 Share Posted May 4, 2020 "Sis, leave me alone 😒" that's me when I'm irritated. If you want to make me feel better, you could make me something to eat. But do it quietly and still leave me alone. 😒 But that feeling doesn't last and before long I'm all over you, sulking and complaining about the people or things that irritated me while you play with my hair 😣 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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