Txunamy Posted October 21, 2017 Share Posted October 21, 2017 I came across a book two days ago titled "5 Love languages" by Dr Gary Chapman. It made for quite an interesting read.. According to Dr Chapman, there are five universal ways of expressing love to your partner and they are.. 1)word of Affirmation 2)Quality time 3)Receiving gifts 4) Acts of service 5) physical touch I'd love to know guys, which Love language do you speak? All 5? 4? 3? For me I speak 5)physical touch.. I'm a touch feely person, I express my love by physical touch..holding hands, back rub, hand rub, foot rub, kissing and all that stuff.. Followed by 1) word of affirmation.. What's yours? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scarlet Posted October 21, 2017 Share Posted October 21, 2017 I detest the word of affirmation thing, but bae always prod me to say it, and I do, just because she loves to hear me say it. But personally,(1) I prefer acts of service, I believe love isn't about feelings but actions ( behaviors), so I just instinctively do anything that'd put a smile on her face. Just to show her, i love her. and i value quality time (no2) I love to listen to her prattles about a bad day or an annoying someborri or whatever, eat together, see a dumb movie and all those things people who are inlove do with someone they love.(3) Then of course the physical touch, it's also a reassuring thing, I enjoy throwing kisses here and there when we together. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Farida Posted October 21, 2017 Share Posted October 21, 2017 3,4. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted October 21, 2017 Author Share Posted October 21, 2017 29 minutes ago, scarlet said: I detest the word of affirmation thing, but bae always prod me to say it, and I do, just because she loves to hear me say it. But personally,(1) I prefer acts of service, I believe love isn't about feelings but actions ( behaviors), so I just instinctively do anything that'd put a smile on her face. Just to show her, i love her. and i value quality time (no2) I love to listen to her prattles about a bad day or an annoying someborri or whatever, eat together, see a dumb movie and all those things people who are inlove do with someone they love.(3) Then of course the physical touch, it's also a reassuring thing, I enjoy throwing kisses here and there when we together. Awwww..that's so sweet Scarlet. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted October 21, 2017 Author Share Posted October 21, 2017 17 minutes ago, Farida said: 3,4. Nice 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mimy Posted October 21, 2017 Share Posted October 21, 2017 1) word of affirmation, I cherish this a lot. I turn poet when in love and I love to hear bae express how she feel about me wordily, using beautiful languages hmmn my head will just be swelling up. 2)Quality time, I'm stingy with my time. Sign that you're important to me is that I give you lots of my time. 3)physical touch, touchy touchy hmmn it feel good, so I do it a lot. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VINA Posted October 21, 2017 Share Posted October 21, 2017 Wow,! I really do need to change o. I speak just one comfortably. Acts of service. I'm of the opinion that it's better to show love than say it. So I would walk on hot coals for my lover but the rest ehn, I can't really say. Who will teach me biko???? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted October 21, 2017 Moderators Share Posted October 21, 2017 Mine has changed over the years... Right now: acts of service and quality time I think. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted October 21, 2017 Author Share Posted October 21, 2017 49 minutes ago, vina said: Wow,! I really do need to change o. I speak just one comfortably. Acts of service. I'm of the opinion that it's better to show love than say it. So I would walk on hot coals for my lover but the rest ehn, I can't really say. Who will teach me biko???? 49 minutes ago, vina said: Wow,! I really do need to change o. I speak just one comfortably. Acts of service. I'm of the opinion that it's better to show love than say it. So I would walk on hot coals for my lover but the rest ehn, I can't really say. Who will teach me biko???? Hehehe.. I'm particularly interested in teaching you my fav..physical touch. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted October 21, 2017 Author Share Posted October 21, 2017 26 minutes ago, kimi said: Mine has changed over the years... Right now: acts of service and quality time I think. That's really cool.. *musing* But if one is in a long distance relationship, quality time is not feasible, I guess that's when words of affirmation does the whole trick. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted October 21, 2017 Author Share Posted October 21, 2017 1 hour ago, Gimbiyya said: 1) word of affirmation, I cherish this a lot. I turn poet when in love and I love to hear bae express how she feel about me wordily, using beautiful languages hmmn my head will just be swelling up. 2)Quality time, I'm stingy with my time. Sign that you're important to me is that I give you lots of my time. 3)physical touch, touchy touchy hmmn it feel good, so I do it a lot. 1 hour ago, Gimbiyya said: 1) word of affirmation, I cherish this a lot. I turn poet when in love and I love to hear bae express how she feel about me wordily, using beautiful languages hmmn my head will just be swelling up. 2)Quality time, I'm stingy with my time. Sign that you're important to me is that I give you lots of my time. 3)physical touch, touchy touchy hmmn it feel good, so I do it a lot. Nice one Gambiyya. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matty Posted October 21, 2017 Share Posted October 21, 2017 1. 2. 4. 5 Esply 5 I learnt more of No5 recently..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teewhy Posted October 22, 2017 Share Posted October 22, 2017 Love is give and take right? Then give me the whole 5 and I dish them back to you. Shikena! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted October 22, 2017 Author Share Posted October 22, 2017 1 hour ago, Teewhy said: Love is give and take right? Then give me the whole 5 and I dish them back to you. Shikena! Ha hahaha! Well, that's a whole new language. Just kidding..you speak all 5, interesting.. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted October 22, 2017 Author Share Posted October 22, 2017 10 hours ago, Matty said: 1. 2. 4. 5 Esply 5 I learnt more of No5 recently..... Nice one Matty Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matty Posted October 22, 2017 Share Posted October 22, 2017 1 hour ago, Teewhy said: Love is give and take right? Then give me the whole 5 and I dish them back to you. Shikena! *thinking* Am cool with dt, meet me at our usual arena. Let talk further. *wink* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dwayne1 Posted October 22, 2017 Share Posted October 22, 2017 Quality time Act of service Physical touch PS: I can be very touch nd cuddly but its all good tho Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teewhy Posted October 23, 2017 Share Posted October 23, 2017 23 hours ago, Matty said: *thinking* Am cool with dt, meet me at our usual arena. Let talk further. *wink* Usual kini? Don't come and pour sand inside my sugar coated garri ooo. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matty Posted October 23, 2017 Share Posted October 23, 2017 Garri dt i coasted ..... Issoryt Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teewhy Posted October 25, 2017 Share Posted October 25, 2017 On Monday, October 23, 2017 at 11:14 PM, Matty said: Garri dt i coasted ..... Issoryt 😱😱😱 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matty Posted October 25, 2017 Share Posted October 25, 2017 On 10/21/2017 at 4:21 PM, vina said: Wow,! I really do need to change o. I speak just one comfortably. Acts of service. I'm of the opinion that it's better to show love than say it. So I would walk on hot coals for my lover but the rest ehn, I can't really say. Who will teach me biko???? Am free as a bird...... I volunteer to teach you and many more .... Just holla when u ready...... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VINA Posted October 25, 2017 Share Posted October 25, 2017 7 hours ago, Matty said: Am free as a bird...... I volunteer to teach you and many more .... Just holla when u ready...... This is me hollering. "I'M READY" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matty Posted October 26, 2017 Share Posted October 26, 2017 36 minutes ago, vina said: This is me hollering. "I'M READY" Teaching begins..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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dequeen Posted January 16, 2018 Share Posted January 16, 2018 On 10/21/2017 at 1:28 PM, Ivyy said: For me I speak 5)physical touch.. I'm a touch feely person, I express my love by physical touch..holding hands, back rub, hand rub, foot rub, kissing and all that stuff Touchy people are bae. That's not my language though. I just like the way touchy people make me feel. Lol. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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