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Can you start off a relationship with someone without first seeing a picture of them?

Have you ever done it before? Did the relationship survive the big reveal?

How blind is your love? :597f824b9bcf2_tw_blush1:

 

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Yes, I can start off a relationship without seeing a picture of the person..

Yes, I have done it before cos she wanted it that way, I had to oblige..and yes our relationship survived the big reveal cos even though we didnt share pics, we both had a mental image of what the other looked like via physical descriptions and all that jazz..

Distance and immaturity broke us up..

For me, Love is not blind..deaf, yes..

*whispers* kimi..come closer, did that happen between you and hawken?

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8 hours ago, Ivyy said:

whispers* kimi..come closer, did that happen between you and hawken?

Hahahaha. She was cuter than I had imagined. Lool. It was really a pleasant surprise no joke. Hahahaha

Yea I can.

Yes I have

Yes it did :597f824b9bcf2_tw_blush1:

My love ian't blind o... lol

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l can't.

lt can be heart  breaking  if it doesn't  finally pleases the eyes and such may end up being a thin line between  love and dislike. Then the other person may end up being  a victim of love.  Wish will not be fair.

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I can't tbh 

i think it's reasonable to ask for pictures when u start talking.Some people may say they are attracted to the personality first and not your looks.i say --to each his own,in as much as I love content and I'm a sapiosexual, I also consider looks a lil bit.

i don't want to go through that process of eventually meeting u in person and then I don't feel that attraction...it will just make things awkward.

so to avoid stories that tor tor ri the body ...ask for pictures when u guys get to that comfortable stage b4 you start developing feelings.

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I've had both good and not good experiences with this (The not good experiences were because I have prejudices I have refused to face). I think it just depends. 

Personally, my love is mostly blind as a bat. Is she African? Is she intelligent? Does she command my respect? Does she make me rethink my stand on certain things? If yes, I am good to go.

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On ‎10‎/‎22‎/‎2017 at 9:58 AM, kimi said:

Can you start off a relationship with someone without first seeing a picture of them?

Have you ever done it before? Did the relationship survive the big reveal?

How blind is your love? :597f824b9bcf2_tw_blush1:

 

Who did you catfish yo?

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On ‎10‎/‎22‎/‎2017 at 2:02 PM, Txunamy said:

Yes, I can start off a relationship without seeing a picture of the person..

Yes, I have done it before cos she wanted it that way, I had to oblige..and yes our relationship survived the big reveal cos even though we didnt share pics, we both had a mental image of what the other looked like via physical descriptions and all that jazz..

Distance and immaturity broke us up..

For me, Love is not blind..deaf, yes..

*whispers* kimi..come closer, did that happen between you and hawken?

Would you share a pic if asked?

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