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How to Use a Dildo for Strap-On Sex


FlyJ

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Lesbians who like penetration may want to try a dildo for strap-on sex. Here are some tips for great sex with a dildo or strap-on:

1.    Find the right dildo. Here are some tips for buying the right dildo for your needs.

2.    Get used to your new toy. Put on your harness and dildo and get used to how it feels before jumping right into bed with your partner. Have her help you into the harness. The tighter it is, the more control you will have and the more sensation you will feel.

3.    Don't forget foreplay. Kiss her. Touch her. Get her excited and turned on before you penetrate.

4.    Put a condom on your dildo and use plenty of lube, even if she seems lubricated. Slippery and wet is much more enjoyable.

5.    Go slow and easy the first time. Angle your dildo upwards, not back toward her spine. Let your partner guide you in how fast, slow, deep, rough or easy you go.

6.    Try different positions. Old fashioned missionary position allows for face to face intimacy. Doggy-style allows you to penetrate further inside her.

7.    Use your hands. Remember the foreplay? Keep at it, caressing her where she likes it most.

8.    Mix it up. Experiment with oral sex. Watching their lover go down on a dildo is a big turn on for many dykes. If you want to experiment with anal penetration, take it slow and easy and use lots of lube. Remember to change condoms any time you change orifices.

9.    Communication is key. As with any sex, talking about what you like, don't like, what you want, what feels good is very important. Listen and pay attention to her body language. Ask her if it feels good. Does she want it deeper, faster, and slower?

10. Remember if you share any sex toy, to change the condom!

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Hahahahaha. Aunty Flyj and her favourite rainbow dildo o...

Corrupting us this early Monday morning. Well done ma. Lol.

Insightful post tbh, I did learn a thing or two from reading... 

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4 minutes ago, Gimbiyya said:

This is really enlightening. Errm...going down on a dildo? Turn on? hahahaha wonderful.

Hahahaha. I thought I was the only one who found that odd. Na real wa 😁

What's that about? Lol. Please help me understand if someone gets it. 

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2 hours ago, kimi said:

Hahahaha. I thought I was the only one who found that odd. Na real wa 😁

What's that about? Lol. Please help me understand if someone gets it. 

Gawd!!! Y'all Don't like experimenting OOO.

It's sexy and Hot to watch My Lover wrap Her mouth around My Fake Cock. It's good visuals And Would definitely make Me Wet even tho I won't feel a Thing. It's just sexy and Wild. Makes For good foreplay o.. @Gimbiyya shey Oti ye eh? As in, you don understand?

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36 minutes ago, vina said:

Gawd!!! Y'all Don't like experimenting OOO.

It's sexy and Hot to watch My Lover wrap Her mouth around My Fake Cock. It's good visuals And Would definitely make Me Wet even tho I won't feel a Thing. It's just sexy and Wild. Makes For good foreplay o.. @Gimbiyya shey Oti ye eh? As in, you don understand?

Hahahaha. Thanks for that vivid explanation. O ti ye mi 🙄

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And I used to think I was crazy and wild ooo..

Go down on whatchamacallit?

I would be glad to strap on and fire away if it so pleases my partner. 

But for me? Hahahahaha! 

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On 11/13/2017 at 9:26 AM, vina said:

Gawd!!! Y'all Don't like experimenting OOO.

It's sexy and Hot to watch My Lover wrap Her mouth around My Fake Cock. It's good visuals And Would definitely make Me Wet even tho I won't feel a Thing. It's just sexy and Wild. Makes For good foreplay o.. @Gimbiyya shey Oti ye eh? As in, you don understand?

Lool errm...I'd to love to experiment if you'll show me. Chai I'm so engrossed with the p**sy that i didn't realized there's pleasure in za dildo too  

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16 minutes ago, Gimbiyya said:

Lool errm...I'd to love to experiment if you'll show me. Chai I'm so engrossed with the p**sy that i didn't realized there's pleasure in za dildo too  

Lol. Penetration Is not for every girl O. But if you have a flexible Waist and Stamina, Then let's fix date And Time. We will borrow Aunty Flyj Rainbow Dildo, u dO the do, I lie down and Enjoy.. hehehe

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@vina Lool. Okay o flexible waist and stamina on point mehn! Worry less, date and time, you'll get. Aunty Flyj don't disappoint o biko ensure your rainbow cock is available. 

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