VINA Posted November 20, 2017 Share Posted November 20, 2017 I have read of many lesbian couples opting to use sperm donors they know. Like a brother, family friend, or friends and it got me thinking. Anonymous sperm donor or a known one. They both have their advantages though but for me o, I would prefer an anonymous, I can't shout. What do you think? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teewhy Posted November 20, 2017 Share Posted November 20, 2017 Anonymous donor would do please. It's gonna be like, don't ask don't tell thingy. I don't know you, you don't know me ni o. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted November 20, 2017 Share Posted November 20, 2017 Anonymous.. That way I could get to choose a handsome donor via pictures, an intelligent donor, via academic records,a healthy donor, via medical records.. I will birth a healthy genius same way my parents gave birth to this big head named ivvy..so I am not taking chances with my baby's genes.. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted November 20, 2017 Moderators Share Posted November 20, 2017 Anonymous o abeg. Lol. Awkward much except it is a very close gay friend but mehn, for fear of he turning on me to lay claim to the child in the future, I rather a stranger as I could do without all the sentiments associated with the former. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teewhy Posted November 20, 2017 Share Posted November 20, 2017 4 minutes ago, kimi said: But mehn, for fear of he turning on me to lay claim to the child in the future, I rather a stranger as i could do without all the sentiments. I wouldn't want to hear the stories that won't touch my heart. Anonymous its gonna be. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VINA Posted November 20, 2017 Author Share Posted November 20, 2017 I was thinking the same thing but I guess they usually sign a legal document that prevents the biological dad from taking the child. But still what of the emotional attachment the child can develop? Overall I guess what you can see and know so well, is better than some random guy who probably has one hereditary disease or something. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted November 20, 2017 Share Posted November 20, 2017 55 minutes ago, vina said: I was thinking the same thing but I guess they usually sign a legal document that prevents the biological dad from taking the child. But still what of the emotional attachment the child can develop? Overall I guess what you can see and know so well, is better than some random guy who probably has one hereditary disease or something. Not if you go through the proper channel. Sperm donors are vetted. So you just make your pick. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrators FlyJ Posted November 21, 2017 Administrators Share Posted November 21, 2017 Anonymous to protect the child and I from drama. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MENA Posted November 22, 2017 Share Posted November 22, 2017 On 11/20/2017 at 10:44 PM, kimi said: Anonymous o abeg. Lol. Awkward much except it is a very close gay friend but mehn, for fear of he turning on me to lay claim to the child in the future, I rather a stranger as I could do without all the sentiments associated with the former. True talk @kimi it can be heart breaking. l once watched this movie some time ago, of this lesbians couples who wanted a child by all means. After several trials from anonymous that failed, they couldn't afford it again. So one suggested let them wait and save up. But the carrier refuse and suggested they should sort locally. So they meet this guy with high success rate but part of his conditions was he will be allowed to see the child every month. The carrier insisted they should accept the offer so they did. After several insertion that failed. She pleased with her partner, that she wanted the sex proper that maybe insertion was the cause of failure. Before you know, she was sleeping with the guy behind without concept. when she finally give birth, the guy was always involve in almost everything. The other partner ended up being unhappy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ria Posted November 22, 2017 Share Posted November 22, 2017 1 hour ago, MENA said: True talk @kimi it can be heart breaking. l once watched this movie some time ago, of this lesbians couples who wanted a child by all means. After several trials from anonymous that failed, they couldn't afford it again. So one suggested let them wait and save up. But the carrier refuse and suggested they should sort locally. So they meet this guy with high success rate but part of his conditions was he will be allowed to see the child every month. The carrier insisted they should accept the offer so they did. After several insertion that failed. She pleased with her partner, that she wanted the sex proper that maybe insertion was the cause of failure. Before you know, she was sleeping with the guy behind without concept. when she finally give birth, the guy was always involve in almost everything. The other partner ended up being unhappy. Sad Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ria Posted November 22, 2017 Share Posted November 22, 2017 Anonymous o jare Too much drama involved in a known face abeg Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VINA Posted November 22, 2017 Author Share Posted November 22, 2017 2 hours ago, MENA said: After several insertion that failed. She pleased with her partner, that she wanted the sex proper that maybe insertion was the cause of failure. Before you know, she was sleeping with the guy behind without concept. when she finally give birth, the guy was always involve in almost everything. The other partner ended up being unhappy. Arrghh. Woh, after I marry Wifey ehn, I will put MaGun there, any Finger or prick that Enter there Except mine will Wither and Die Away. What Nonsense. Tswwww. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MENA Posted November 22, 2017 Share Posted November 22, 2017 8 minutes ago, vina said: Arrghh. Woh, after I marry Wifey ehn, I will put MaGun there, any Finger or prick that Enter there Except mine will Wither and Die Away. What Nonsense. Tswwww. you no go kill person for this NL o. Vina, Vina! you don't mean it o? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted November 22, 2017 Share Posted November 22, 2017 54 minutes ago, vina said: Arrghh. Woh, after I marry Wifey ehn, I will put MaGun there, any Finger or prick that Enter there Except mine will Wither and Die Away. What Nonsense. Tswwww. Again with 'wifey' Lol.. Do you think that thunderbolt magun works for everyone? Just kidding... Hehehe No I'm not. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VINA Posted November 22, 2017 Author Share Posted November 22, 2017 Lol I mean it o @MENA i can't take nonsense abeg. Ahn ahn. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VINA Posted November 22, 2017 Author Share Posted November 22, 2017 12 minutes ago, Ivyy said: Again with 'wifey' Lol.. Do you think that thunderbolt magun works for everyone? Just kidding... Hehehe No I'm not. Babes It must work. I will use like three from trusted BBL Guys. I have to insure my property mbok. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VINA Posted November 22, 2017 Author Share Posted November 22, 2017 15 minutes ago, Ivyy said: Again with 'wifey' Lol.. Do you think that thunderbolt magun works for everyone? Just kidding... Hehehe No I'm not. Fly's Fence Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted November 22, 2017 Share Posted November 22, 2017 18 minutes ago, vina said: Babes It must work. I will use like three from trusted BBL Guys. I have to insure my property mbok. It's official mi Lady, you are cray.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VINA Posted November 22, 2017 Author Share Posted November 22, 2017 4 minutes ago, Ivyy said: It's official mi Lady, you are cray.. Lol. Several sources Confirms This. I cannot Deny. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scarlet Posted November 22, 2017 Share Posted November 22, 2017 I'd rather go for a known one, that would, be of course, my remarkably intelligent and broad -minded friend.. I have even told him, he'd father my kid, and he's cool with it.. He may not be actively involved in our child's formative years or upbringing , but I just want to point to him when my child demands answers about his/her paternal lineage. Even though, I'm gay, and want to be a parent, my child deserves every right to know, who their father is, And I am so not going to hoard or take away that from him/her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted November 22, 2017 Share Posted November 22, 2017 9 minutes ago, scarlet said: I'd rather go for a known one, that would, be of course, my remarkably intelligent and broad -minded friend.. I have even told him, he'd father my kid, and he's cool with it.. He may not be actively involved in our child's formative years or upbringing , but I just want to point to him when my child demands answers about his/her paternal lineage. Even though, I'm gay, and want to be a parent, my child deserves every right to know, who their father is, And I am so not going to hoard or take away that from him/her. Awwwww... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted May 16, 2020 Share Posted May 16, 2020 Anonymous...no ties. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted May 16, 2020 Share Posted May 16, 2020 On 11/20/2017 at 1:07 PM, Txunamy said: Anonymous.. That way I could get to choose a handsome donor via pictures, an intelligent donor, via academic records,a healthy donor, via medical records.. I will birth a healthy genius same way my parents gave birth to this big head named ivvy..so I am not taking chances with my baby's genes.. Ok baby momma 😀 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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