dequeen Posted January 9, 2018 Share Posted January 9, 2018 Do you think you fit properly into the available labels? Have your labels changed over the years? Have your labels affected who you love? What are your thoughts on labelling? Have you ever been mislabelled? If yes, what did you do about it? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dipbluesae Posted January 9, 2018 Share Posted January 9, 2018 Some people like to be labeled cos they want to fit in, but that ain't really necessary sometimes. Just be you.. I don't like being labeled but that's just me cos fitting in a group is usually no big deal cos I manage well on my own. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dequeen Posted January 9, 2018 Author Share Posted January 9, 2018 I don't mind labelling but in my experience, labels are quite misguiding. I do not fit into any of the available labels (funny because for most of my life, I thought I did), labels have never affected who I love or hangout with and yes I have been mislabelled by almost everyone that knows me. My reaction? Simple, I pack my bags and move, not literally of course, if we're in a relationship, I end it. If we hangout, I just become scarce. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dipbluesae Posted January 9, 2018 Share Posted January 9, 2018 27 minutes ago, dequeen said: I don't mind labelling but in my experience, labels are quite misguiding. I do not fit into any of the available labels (funny because for most of my life, I thought I did), labels have never affected who I love or hangout with and yes I have been mislabelled by almost everyone that knows me. My reaction? Simple, I pack my bags and move, not literally of course, if we're in a relationship, I end it. If we hangout, I just become scarce. Is it so bad that you will quit your relationship because of it? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dequeen Posted January 10, 2018 Author Share Posted January 10, 2018 16 minutes ago, Dipblusea said: Is it so bad that you will quit your relationship because of it? When a person labels me wrongly, in my mind that means they have a different ideal from who I really am and it's just stressful for me to live up to the ideal they want. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dipbluesae Posted January 10, 2018 Share Posted January 10, 2018 4 minutes ago, dequeen said: When a person labels me wrongly, in my mind that means they have a different ideal from who I really am and it's just stressful for me to live up to the ideal they want. Right. I think I understand you now. It's hard to live up to people's expectations. People should be loved for who they are and not what is expected of them, I believe in this case you are not alone, many feel same way too. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted January 10, 2018 Moderators Share Posted January 10, 2018 Prior to now, I had always been a labels girl. Lol. It just sort of made life/dating easier. You know your 'type' and you filter off easily who isn't. More recently, I'm doing away with labels. Apparently, it's a continuous process. Lol. I work at not making it matter as much anymore. Truth is, this paradigm shift has changed the way I love. Now, I don't expect to be worshipped as much these days. Lol. Jokes o.. I no more think in terms of roles and what expectations are had of me. I also now allow myself just be a woman. To love and experience love without boundaries Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hawken Posted January 10, 2018 Share Posted January 10, 2018 6 hours ago, dequeen said: When a person labels me wrongly, in my mind that means they have a different ideal from who I really am and it's just stressful for me to live up to the ideal they want. You know you can just correct them right? Its not like our expectations are set in stone or something. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hawken Posted January 10, 2018 Share Posted January 10, 2018 14 minutes ago, kimi said: Prior to now, I had always been a labels girl. Lol. It just sort of made life/dating easier. You know your 'type' and you filter off easily who isn't. More recently, I'm doing away with labels. Apparently, it's a continuous process. Lol. I work at not making it matter as much anymore. Truth is, this paradigm shift has changed the way I love. Now, I don't expect to be worshipped as much these days. Lol. Jokes o.. I no more think in terms of roles and what expectations are had of me. I also now allow myself just be a woman. To love and experience love without boundaries I've been such a huge influence, you should thank me for this love every day 😄 Yep, thank me and make me breakfast everyday 😄😄 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted January 10, 2018 Moderators Share Posted January 10, 2018 1 hour ago, Hawken said: I've been such a huge influence, you should thank me for this love every day 😄 Yep, thank me and make me breakfast everyday 😄😄 Hahahaha. Yes baby. It was all you... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teewhy Posted January 10, 2018 Share Posted January 10, 2018 These two haff come again oo... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dequeen Posted January 10, 2018 Author Share Posted January 10, 2018 13 hours ago, Hawken said: You know you can just correct them right? Its not like our expectations are set in stone or something. I know, right? Lazy ass that I am maybe I'll procrastinate on that a while longer. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted January 10, 2018 Share Posted January 10, 2018 Labels are confusing.. Can't we all thrive without labels? Arrrghhh! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dequeen Posted January 10, 2018 Author Share Posted January 10, 2018 10 minutes ago, Ivyy said: Labels are confusing.. Can't we all thrive without labels? Arrrghhh! Hahaha! My sentiments exactly until I realised society thrives on labels. Girl, boy, man, woman, teen, twent, adult, child, toddler, adolescent, twink, wife, concubine, girlfriend, sidekick, etc. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted January 10, 2018 Share Posted January 10, 2018 12 minutes ago, dequeen said: Hahaha! My sentiments exactly until I realised society thrives on labels. Girl, boy, man, woman, teen, twent, adult, child, toddler, adolescent, twink, wife, concubine, girlfriend, sidekick, etc. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scarlet Posted January 22, 2018 Share Posted January 22, 2018 The whole labeling thing bothers me alot, like cant I eat p**sy and be eaten in peace? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
milaz Posted January 25, 2018 Share Posted January 25, 2018 On 1/22/2018 at 7:03 PM, scarlet said: The whole labeling thing bothers me alot, like cant I eat p**sy and be eaten in peace? By all means, whoever stops a healthy meal should be labelled something TBH!!.lol 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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