Moderators kimi Posted January 21, 2018 Moderators Share Posted January 21, 2018 Hey Ladies... If there could only be one first, second or third place, how would these rank? Work, Relationship, Family let's assume you're in relationship leading somewhere PS -- family represents the one you grew up in. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted January 21, 2018 Share Posted January 21, 2018 Family Work Relationship In that order.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scarlet Posted January 21, 2018 Share Posted January 21, 2018 Work comes first, for me anyday anytime. Being in a "relationship with the one" and there are difficulties in affording basics needs would make the whole thing go sour, no matter the lovey -dopeyness. So? Lemme make money so we can both enjoy our relationship together. then family, before relationship. But if I happen to marry the "one" , automatically she's my family now and the family I grew up with comes last. But if it's a mere relationship, than I'd choose the latter, girlfriend would get up and walk away someday, family always stays. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dequeen Posted January 21, 2018 Share Posted January 21, 2018 For me it's ; 1. Work 2. Family 3. Relationship My work is my life's purpose, I go days without sleep for my work, my work defines me to a large extent. It's my Nirvana. I work so I can earn money to take care of my family. I work so I can make my family happy. If I am happy and they are happy, all is well with the world. Relationship for me is tricky because I have made up my mind that my next girlfriend will be wifey so I tend to just jumble her up with my family and our kids. However, my parents come before her and if I work hard and we have more than enough, who cares what their number on my priority list is? Everyone gets taken care of and that's what matters. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted January 21, 2018 Author Moderators Share Posted January 21, 2018 Thanks ladies! These are very interesting responses. Relationship Work Family Priorities for me doesn't mean the neglect of the others. You see, I will always love family (and would certainly play my part) also, I can't help but give my best to my work, ensuring I am well aligned to get to the zenith. ...but more importantly In all of these is the woman who I believe is the one. She comes first. I'm a major lovergirl... a true romantic. Lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted January 21, 2018 Share Posted January 21, 2018 50 minutes ago, kimi said: Thanks ladies! These are very interesting responses. Relationship Work Family Priorities for me doesn't mean the neglect of the others. You see, I will always love family (and would certainly play my part) also, I can't help but give my best to my work, ensuring I am well aligned to get to the zenith. ...but more importantly In all of these is the woman who I believe is the one. She comes first. I'm a major lovergirl... a true romantic. Lol Awww.. *sniffs* *wipes tears* 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dipbluesae Posted January 21, 2018 Share Posted January 21, 2018 Relationship Work Family Simple. Classified lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Damiee Posted January 21, 2018 Share Posted January 21, 2018 Trying this thing were work does not overshadow every other thing. So its in this order: Family Relationship Work 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Damiee Posted January 21, 2018 Share Posted January 21, 2018 2 hours ago, kimi said: Thanks ladies! These are very interesting responses. Relationship Work Family Priorities for me doesn't mean the neglect of the others. You see, I will always love family (and would certainly play my part) also, I can't help but give my best to my work, ensuring I am well aligned to get to the zenith. ...but more importantly In all of these is the woman who I believe is the one. She comes first. I'm a major lovergirl... a true romantic. Lol Awwwwww. Let us know when it’s time so we can buy NL aso ebi lol. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted January 21, 2018 Author Moderators Share Posted January 21, 2018 5 minutes ago, Damiee said: Awwwwww. Let us know when it’s time so we can buy NL aso ebi lol. Hahahaha. Sure thing! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dequeen Posted January 23, 2018 Share Posted January 23, 2018 #StrangeButTrue I have been going through everyone's priority order against Maslow's hierarchy of need. It's giving me a fearfully accurate understanding of where everyone is in their life currently. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted January 23, 2018 Share Posted January 23, 2018 34 minutes ago, dequeen said: #StrangeButTrue I have been going through everyone's priority order against Maslow's hierarchy of need. It's giving me a fearfully accurate understanding of where everyone is in their life currently. 😁 I wish I have psychic powers to know your thoughts.. Wait, I think Clairvoiyant is more like it.. Anyone sha.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Oldlover Posted February 14, 2018 Share Posted February 14, 2018 Family Relationship Work My family is everything to me. They've saved my life so many times that it's weird for me imagining anything coming before them. I come from a large, close knit family and my siblings are my best friends. I really wish relationship could be higher but eish, I've learnt that sometimes, relationships come and go and family is what stays with you forever. I love my work but work is work. It's a means to an end. The end being the ability to care for my family and the things I love. 1 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrators FlyJ Posted February 18, 2018 Administrators Share Posted February 18, 2018 On 21/01/2018 at 5:00 AM, scarlet said: Work comes first, for me anyday anytime. Being in a "relationship with the one" and there are difficulties in affording basics needs would make the whole thing go sour, no matter the lovey -dopeyness. So? Lemme make money so we can both enjoy our relationship together. then family, before relationship. But if I happen to marry the "one" , automatically she's my family now and the family I grew up with comes last. But if it's a mere relationship, than I'd choose the latter, girlfriend would get up and walk away someday, family always stays. Well said! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MENA Posted February 19, 2018 Share Posted February 19, 2018 Family ---- They are always there but somehow they see you as a burden, they wish you have found your feet. Relationship ---- Money is not the a priority but somehow she wish you guys could just exclusive outing. Work ----------- It gives a more definition to the two above somehow money is a binder. When you work and have money, your family and your girl will be proud of you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted December 9, 2018 Share Posted December 9, 2018 Work Family Relationship Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted February 8, 2019 Share Posted February 8, 2019 On 1/21/2018 at 6:54 AM, kimi said: Thanks ladies! These are very interesting responses. Relationship Work Family Priorities for me doesn't mean the neglect of the others. You see, I will always love family (and would certainly play my part) also, I can't help but give my best to my work, ensuring I am well aligned to get to the zenith. ...but more importantly In all of these is the woman who I believe is the one. She comes first. I'm a major lovergirl... a true romantic. Lol You'd ditch work to kick it with bae 😀 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted February 8, 2019 Author Moderators Share Posted February 8, 2019 2 hours ago, Michelle said: You'd ditch work to kick it with bae 😀 Hahahahaha... I would for a few hours or for a day or two. It's good to pray without ceasing 😇☻ 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chilee Posted June 16, 2019 Share Posted June 16, 2019 Relationship Family Work Simply asked myself who'd be most affected when my time"here" is done. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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