Moderators kimi Posted February 14, 2018 Moderators Share Posted February 14, 2018 When you meet someone (however y'all meet. Lol. Be it online, whatsapp group, in person etc...). How long would you wait before letting them know that it isn't going to work or that you can't continue with the getting to know process? OR Do you simply go cold turkey/bail and cut all forms of communication? Have you ever experienced this, How did you handle it? Alternatively, how were you let down if you have ever been at the receiving end of such situations. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VINA Posted February 14, 2018 Share Posted February 14, 2018 How long? It wouldn't end till we have a nice tumble in the sack. Only after then will I let you go. #singing, I will never let you go, except you bless me x2 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted February 14, 2018 Author Moderators Share Posted February 14, 2018 28 minutes ago, vina said: How long? It wouldn't end till we have a nice tumble in the sack. Only after then will I let you go. #singing, I will never let you go, except you bless me x2 Hahahahaga. This is ths funniest thing I've seen today. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted February 14, 2018 Share Posted February 14, 2018 I prefer the term "ghosted" it always makes me laugh when I hear it. It all depends on the person. I can have a talk with the person and let her know why it's not working, or I simply go all ghost mode on her. I have been 'ghosted' same way I ghost people, so it's all fair. 😁 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dequeen Posted February 14, 2018 Share Posted February 14, 2018 Immediately I know we aren't going anywhere, I go cold. I don't return missed calls immediately, I don't reply chats or I reply chats after several days in a monotonous way with a crisp apology for the delay in replying. I learnt that from job interviews. "If we do not contact you within one week, your application was not successful. It's nothing personal mbok." 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Damiee Posted February 14, 2018 Share Posted February 14, 2018 Once I figure out it can’t go beyond the superficial phase. Like, if there is no connection or that our interests or values don’t align. Despends, mostly I reduce communication to the barest minimum or just talk it out with her (usually this approach doesn’t end well). I think everyone has experienced it at one time or the other. I just move on, I hate to make things awkward. I always believe it’s for the best 😊. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrators FlyJ Posted February 18, 2018 Administrators Share Posted February 18, 2018 I go cold turkey/bail and cut all forms of communication. I just can't shout. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dipbluesae Posted February 18, 2018 Share Posted February 18, 2018 All or nothing usually! Going through the above comments it appears this is rare.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MENA Posted February 19, 2018 Share Posted February 19, 2018 Just disappear into the thin air Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted January 2, 2019 Share Posted January 2, 2019 On 2/14/2018 at 2:27 AM, Txunamy said: I simply go all ghost mode on her. So not nice 😥 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
M2DD Posted January 2, 2019 Share Posted January 2, 2019 Ghost is the way to go abeg Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted January 2, 2019 Share Posted January 2, 2019 1 hour ago, Michelle said: So not nice 😥 Its same thing as going cold turkey.. Not Everyone can handle Being turned down no matter the words you use to explain. I 'd Rather just backslide. That way, no one holds anything against me. 😁 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hawken Posted January 3, 2019 Share Posted January 3, 2019 19 hours ago, Txunamy said: Its same thing as going cold turkey.. Not Everyone can handle Being turned down no matter the words you use to explain. I 'd Rather just backslide. That way, no one holds anything against me. 😁 Some won't let you. Some will call you out as you try to ghost. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted January 3, 2019 Share Posted January 3, 2019 1 hour ago, Hawken said: Some won't let you. Some will call you out as you try to ghost. Lol.. True Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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