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A Valentine's weekend


Calllaris

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Valentine is about romance. It's about love and its about sex. Don't let anyone tell you different. 

 

So, this year's Valentine's day fell in on a working Wednesday right?Fact! And we all couldn't take a day off work because it'd be obvious that we love our girlfriends better than our jobs? Fact!!. Well..the good news is Valentines day is from the 14th of Feb till the rest of the year, kidding now!, but at least its till the rest of the week. 

 

As you plan for your valentine weekend, check out these 9 indigenously tested ways to make up for yesterday's rush rush romance. Start tomorrow to show her that redness that will prove to her you love her and ensure you two will have mind blowing sack sessions all weekend.

 

Warning: material is for those in a relationship, content might sadden these who are single.

 

1.Table for two

With the gay climes in Nigeria, no doubt that most lesbians are closeted; you may not be comfortable going out with your lover to a restaurant full of straight couples. So, to enjoy a special Valentine’s meal with your sweetie, you can have a picnic! Go to a private beach, rent a thatch tent and set a mat for two. The weather is mercilessly hot now but don't be discouraged. dress lightly and have her dress lightly too. Shorts, tank tops and short-sleeveless dresses will make you both look and feel sexy. You can also play sneak-a-peak, flirting with each others body as you feed her with your fingers. You are sure to build up sexual tension for later tonight..Finger foods are especially sexy.

 

2.Get her a hand made stuff

You may have written her a poem, or  a love essay earlier, sent it to her email or posted on her favourite column or blog, but reading it aloud to her as you two can look at each other from across tables or  mats, speaks volumes of your care for her. Paint her a picture, frame a nice photo you took together or make her a one-of-a-kind piece of jewelry. Knit her a cap or sew-on a short love line unto her towel. Nothing is appreciated more than a handmade gift.

 

 

3.Trip her

Plan a weekend trip out of you boths regular municipality, to a nice hotel or a more gay-friendly location. Its very unlikely that a hotel you are patronizing will 'out' you. Play, flirt, dance by the bar/ pool side and leave the 'heavy metal' smooching for when you are back into the comfort of your hotel room 

 

4.Dance

Take here to a dance club or bar that isn't so crowded and make sure to dance with her till its obvious to her and a few others that you are so into her

 

 

5.Massage her

Treat her to a massage. Who doesn't love a shoulder or foot rub? Get some sweet smelling oils, take your time and make her your queen for the day. Add to the spa experience by running her a candle-lit bath or treating her to a home facial, manicure or pedicure. Naked massages are sexy but for this occasion, put on some discipline and so not to ravish her on the massage towel. Save the romp for your Valentine bed. Or as the spirit leads

 

6.More Music

Get creative with her favourite love music. Or make her a mixed CD of all your favorite love songs that remind you of her. Then take her hand and waltz her around the living room. Or, if you can sing, serenade her with one of your own tunes or a favorite love song. Even if you can't sing, try. Its sure to make her happy. Don't scare her with your voice though - pun.

 

7.Walk with me

Buy a bottle of champagne and some chocolates and pick her up after work with your car pr a taxi. Take her to place/ park where you can watch the sunset. Or take a walk on a moon lit night and talk about your dreams together

 

8. Home things

Forget going out to eat. She likes your cooking the best anyway, right? Cook her favourite meal, set up the table and watch her eat or feed her. Afterwards, slot in a romantic lesbian movie and snuggle close to each other on the sofa to watch it together.

 

9. Bed tactics

I said it before, Valentine is about romance and sex. So after all the build up, its time for the action. Make sure to reach a new sex milestone in your relationship tonight. Do something new or differently. Fulfill her sexual fantasies. If she likes toys, introduce toys into your bed this weekend, or dress up for her. Find out her fetishes and dish it out this weekend. No hold backs

 

Anyone of, or all these tips put together is trusted to give you and your sweetie an unforgettable Val's weekend from today.

 

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