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how will you feel..Act ïf you notice ur bestie havin romantic feelings towards u..?


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Boxed. Keep it flowing... Will you go for it and risk ur friendship...or avoid the temptation nd maintain ur friendship.... Lol ...let's hear ur opinion..

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This is one of those situations I never want to be in. A part of me would want to go for it, because all great relationships are based on great friendships(and we already have that), but what if it doesn't work out? I could end up losing my best friend.

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Sorry... My best friend is a dude....

*awkward answer*

But d first girl I ever liked was a girl that was as close to me as a best friend.

Never told her. She hated me cuz I was bi bt got over it later. We never talk about it nw n I never bring it up.

Bt thinking about it, I dnt see myself going for her if she likes me nw. And my other best friend is more like a sister, so I dnt see her as a "best friend" like that anymore- something deepr.

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This is one of those situations I never want to be in. A part of me would want to go for it, because all great relationships are based on great friendships(and we already have that), but what if it doesn't work out? I could end up losing my best friend.

 

I think about those things too.

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Or things could turn out pretty awesome

 

Maybe or Maybe not...

Are we talking about dating or just sex??

Speaking from experience, it complicated things since it was FWB.

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@ Moresko I can identify wit you.. All great relationship re based on true friendship .... Its s very difficult decision cos it cud turn out awesom nf disastrous....so menh lols ...

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@ Moresko I can identify wit you.. All great relationship re based on true friendship .... Its s very difficult decision cos it cud turn out awesom nf disastrous....so menh lols ... So I do rather not risk it..

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Maybe or Maybe not...

Are we talking about dating or just sex??

Speaking from experience, it complicated things since it was FWB.

I am talking about dating, 'FWB' with a best friend, I don't see that working in any way.

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Its a 50% chance for both sides. But the survival of the relationship depends greatly on how ur fend feels. To be clear im talking abt frm friends to relationship not just sex

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if I feel the same way I will go for it, so I dont start wondering what if.

I believe ur best friend should be ur gf and your gf should be your best friend.

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Ummm @sexy tgel..wat abt if u go 4 it..and u guys feel same 4 each other den @the end u guys eventually break up..wat will u do??cos den u'v not only lost your girlfriend also ur bestfriend??

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I can't date someone that knows everything about me, it won't work.

if she approaches me I will tell her that I have given my life to christ, , lol

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@lovebird, I understand u, bt do u know,its best u date ur best friend when it comes to lesbianism, cos its safer nd healthy.. So d world won't knw anytin

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@lovebird, I understand u, bt do u know,its best u date ur best friend when it comes to lesbianism, cos its safer nd healthy.. So d world won't knw anytin

 

personally I feel its safer to have a straight girl as ur best friend cos shes gonna have a boyfriend and so ppl wont really suspect u that u are gay.

but when she is a lez and u both have no bf, and u guys are so close all eyes will be on you.

except u are a bisexual.

about the healthy part, do u mean health wise?

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