Moderators moresko Posted September 27, 2013 Moderators Share Posted September 27, 2013 Would you have children with a same sex partner? Does the sexual orientation of parents matter? How might a gay or lesbian couple's parenting style differ from that of the mother/ father? What affects do you think this may have on the children? Any negative impacts? Should gay and lesbian couples be allowed to adopt? Personally I want to have to children with a same sex partner either by adoption, IVF, or whatever method we settle on. I don't think my sexual orientation matters, I believe it's the values we teach our children that really matters. A homosexual is just as qualified as any heterosexual at raising children. Heterosexuals and homosexuals can be both bad parents and good parents and it's the individual that decides the parent they are, not their sexuality. Sexual orientation does not matter. I can't say how parenting might differ, expect from dealing with homophobia, my family will be traditional Nigerian family with cane, and everything included (just kidding). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovebird Posted September 28, 2013 Share Posted September 28, 2013 I think dat it shuldnt affect...-in fact I was having dis discussion wit ma frnds..n like 80% said dat been gay doesn't mean u'l b a bad parent or it'l affect d child..it all depends on hw u bring dem up..n d children can decide dem self if dey wanna b like deir parents or diff sex..it all depends on d parent...as 4 me..I'l definitely have children wit same sex partner..2ru any method #fact# Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrators FlyJ Posted September 29, 2013 Administrators Share Posted September 29, 2013 I think dat it shuldnt affect...-in fact I was having dis discussion wit ma frnds..n like 80% said dat been gay doesn't mean u'l b a bad parent or it'l affect d child..it all depends on hw u bring dem up..n d children can decide dem self if dey wanna b like deir parents or diff sex..it all depends on d parent...as 4 me..I'l definitely have children wit same sex partner..2ru any method #fact# Couldn't have said it any better. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
honeybee Posted October 13, 2013 Share Posted October 13, 2013 I really want kids and I know I wil make a good parent, my only problem is the stigma. I dont want my child to be an outcast, dont know if it will be fair to drag a child into my world but I really wanna have kids Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrators FlyJ Posted October 14, 2013 Administrators Share Posted October 14, 2013 Outcast because you are gay?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
honeybee Posted October 14, 2013 Share Posted October 14, 2013 Outcast because you are gay?? my family will definitely treat them like one. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrators FlyJ Posted October 14, 2013 Administrators Share Posted October 14, 2013 Extended family? Makes sense but as far as they don't feel like that with you, they should be fine. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chishlom Posted October 16, 2013 Share Posted October 16, 2013 easy for u to say one way or another the child is gonna feel strange awkward and different...he or she is gonna have kids taunting him or her at school..its Def gonna happen 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators moresko Posted October 16, 2013 Author Moderators Share Posted October 16, 2013 easy for u to say one way or another the child is gonna feel strange awkward and different...he or she is gonna have kids taunting him or her at school..its Def gonna happen I don't think FlyJ is saying everything is going to be nice and rosy, far from it. Of course, kids will be kids and say things but at the end of the day, you have to love and protect that child no matter what. Are homosexuals exempt from having kids because our kids will be bullied, or are we going to stand strong, show society that its the values we teach our kids that matters at the end of the day, not the sexuality of the parent. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrators FlyJ Posted October 16, 2013 Administrators Share Posted October 16, 2013 easy for u to say one way or another the child is gonna feel strange awkward and different...he or she is gonna have kids taunting him or her at school..its Def gonna happen Please go back and read my comment again.Thank You. Spot on Moresko Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chocolat Posted October 16, 2013 Share Posted October 16, 2013 I don't think FlyJ is saying everything is going to be nice and rosy, far from it. Of course, kids will be kids and say things but at the end of the day, you have to love and protect that child no matter what. Are homosexuals exempt from having kids because our kids will be bullied, or are we going to stand strong, show society that its the values we teach our kids that matters at the end of the day, not the sexuality of the parent. Well said.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chishlom Posted October 18, 2013 Share Posted October 18, 2013 I'm not saying u said...I'm just giving the negative side ..it got to be weighd...its not as easy as it sounds... 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators moresko Posted October 21, 2013 Author Moderators Share Posted October 21, 2013 I'm not saying u said...I'm just giving the negative side ..it got to be weighd...its not as easy as it sounds... Nobody said its going to be easy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovebird Posted October 23, 2013 Share Posted October 23, 2013 Definitely its nt gonna b easy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
softstud Posted February 8, 2014 Share Posted February 8, 2014 I wud love to have kids wth a same sex partner.. Cos my deal is long term Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dequeen Posted February 24, 2016 Share Posted February 24, 2016 Either way, hetero or homo relationship, I want kids. However with a same sex partner, i'd want to have all girls. Girls reason better and handle peer pressure a lot better. Trust me, the bullies. Will come hard at those kids and I need them to not break. I can count on the quiet strength of a girl but a boy always needs his buddies. I don't want a boy that turns homophobic and tries to kill us cause he's angry about what his mates are saying. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Princesa Posted February 25, 2016 Share Posted February 25, 2016 I wantu ve jus a baby gal wit m partner buh ion knw hw posible it's gona be in Nigeria, she is gonna def ask kwesions, she may be bullied and insulted and dt wud break m hrt buh same tym I hoping d love we wud both shower on her shud be enugh Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dequeen Posted February 25, 2016 Share Posted February 25, 2016 I wantu ve jus a baby gal wit m partner buh ion knw hw posible it's gona be in Nigeria, she is gonna def ask kwesions, she may be bullied and insulted and dt wud break m hrt buh same tym I hoping d love we wud both shower on her shud be enugh Most times, baby girls don't ask questions. If you offer one, she'll listen but if you never do she'll still always understand and make excuses for you and just try to be the best baby girl in the world for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrators FlyJ Posted February 26, 2016 Administrators Share Posted February 26, 2016 I wantu ve jus a baby gal wit m partner buh ion knw hw posible it's gona be in Nigeria, she is gonna def ask kwesions, she may be bullied and insulted and dt wud break m hrt buh same tym I hoping d love we wud both shower on her shud be enugh So sweet...just believe your love will conquer all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TeeJay Posted February 27, 2016 Share Posted February 27, 2016 I wantu ve jus a baby gal wit m partner buh ion knw hw posible it's gona be in Nigeria, she is gonna def ask kwesions, she may be bullied and insulted and dt wud break m hrt buh same tym I hoping d love we wud both shower on her shud be enugh Wish she would be my daughter too. She'd be so pretty. You know, we would conceive in love. Just before you climax. Chei. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Princesa Posted February 28, 2016 Share Posted February 28, 2016 Teejay!!! Oya naa let d conceiving process begin #blushing Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TeeJay Posted March 1, 2016 Share Posted March 1, 2016 Yes, baby. Scream my name. Bury your fingers into the skin on my back. Spread it out, honey. Awwww... I see my lovely kids already in that love city. Now, lets go on a ride. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hawken Posted March 2, 2016 Share Posted March 2, 2016 Just look at the two of you -_- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TeeJay Posted March 2, 2016 Share Posted March 2, 2016 Close your eyes jor Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Princesa Posted March 6, 2016 Share Posted March 6, 2016 Just look at the two of you -_-/> Watchu seeing? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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