Moderators moresko Posted December 18, 2013 Moderators Share Posted December 18, 2013 Would you date (serious relationship) a single woman who already has kids? Personally, it depends on many factors because if you're in a relationship with her, you're in a relationship with her children also; not to even talk of the ex that you would have to deal with also. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
M2DD Posted December 19, 2013 Share Posted December 19, 2013 No Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lovebird Posted December 19, 2013 Share Posted December 19, 2013 No Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suavity Posted December 19, 2013 Share Posted December 19, 2013 Why are you guys saying no?dont tell me u are afraid of kids.pls for me i can. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dreamgal Posted December 19, 2013 Share Posted December 19, 2013 If I'm financially stable enough to cater for the kids then why not. The only problem will be if the kids don't accept me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators moresko Posted December 19, 2013 Author Moderators Share Posted December 19, 2013 Why are you guys saying no?dont tell me u are afraid of kids.pls for me i can. It has nothing to do with fear. Some people might not want to deal with the responsibility that comes with kids so early in a relationship. Like dreamgal said, what if the kids don't like you? What happens if the relationship ends, and you've become really emotionally attached to the kids? Lots to think about. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
M2DD Posted December 19, 2013 Share Posted December 19, 2013 There would be drama at the end of the day Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrators FlyJ Posted December 20, 2013 Administrators Share Posted December 20, 2013 No...too much to deal with. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Diff Posted December 25, 2013 Share Posted December 25, 2013 Rily... It all depends on the kids Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rencie Posted February 12, 2014 Share Posted February 12, 2014 Nope Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrators Prisca Posted February 12, 2014 Administrators Share Posted February 12, 2014 No , too tasking. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
adedayo Posted March 7, 2014 Share Posted March 7, 2014 Yes I can Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nomusa Posted March 7, 2014 Share Posted March 7, 2014 No matter how much yourl into eachother.. At the end of the day it all depends on the kid/s if they accept you or not.. Its harder when the kids are grown, but when they little they just need a 'bribe' lol.. Some candy, play with them, be interested in their world. Yourl end up being the best of buddies.. As for the father.. Well if he seems like a threat.. Then will just have to eliminate him! Lol *jokes* I also know someone who got attached to her partners kid, but unfortunately they brokeup because of pressure from family who thought that the kid will grow up to be confused. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrators FlyJ Posted March 7, 2014 Administrators Share Posted March 7, 2014 Interesting perspective. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skills Posted March 15, 2014 Share Posted March 15, 2014 Hell no! Too much baggage! Ur lone time 2gether is totally doomed! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators moresko Posted March 16, 2014 Author Moderators Share Posted March 16, 2014 Hell no! Too much baggage! Ur lone time 2gether is totally doomed! Everyone has baggage, whether emotional or physical , and if the couple really cares for one another I'm sure they can make time for one another. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skills Posted March 16, 2014 Share Posted March 16, 2014 Everyone has baggage, whether emotional or physical , and if the couple really cares for one another I'm sure they can make time for one another. ..no one is perfect so,we def all hv bagages ,experience has thot me a million times over ,so hell no Moresko,we all hv our opinions now don't we. ?We individually knw wat works 4 us n what doesn't.we can't all be the same,so HELL NO! not dis type of bagage! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrators FlyJ Posted March 16, 2014 Administrators Share Posted March 16, 2014 Hell no! Too much baggage! Ur lone time 2gether is totally doomed! Valid. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators moresko Posted March 16, 2014 Author Moderators Share Posted March 16, 2014 ..no one is perfect so,we def all hv bagages ,experience has thot me a million times over ,so hell no Moresko,we all hv our opinions now don't we. ?We individually knw wat works 4 us n what doesn't.we can't all be the same,so HELL NO! not dis type of bagage! Wow, I don't have dog in this fight, just pointing obvious counter opinions Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skills Posted March 17, 2014 Share Posted March 17, 2014 I don't hv dogs either honey,..we all hv our opinions..no beef here at all..no wahala! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators moresko Posted March 18, 2014 Author Moderators Share Posted March 18, 2014 I don't hv dogs either honey,..we all hv our opinions..no beef here at all..no wahala! Lol...I can't even Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skills Posted March 18, 2014 Share Posted March 18, 2014 Now there's a good gir:-Pl...group hug?:-D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrators FlyJ Posted March 18, 2014 Administrators Share Posted March 18, 2014 I can't deal.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skills Posted March 18, 2014 Share Posted March 18, 2014 Hey blondie,join in the group hug...hehehehe:-P Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VINA Posted July 12, 2018 Share Posted July 12, 2018 I definitely can. If it's one then it's easier for me but when we are talking 3 to 6 kids.. my God!! Don't know what I would do. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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