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Funny though isn't it that the woman whom I intended to love silly isn't the woman whom I am loving silly. Life is something else. 😃 Still, I wish everyone happiness and love. I am here now with the absolute love of my life and to me that is the only thing that matters. ♥︎

You know, I like to think that my baby is a really fortunate human. I am the second woman she's dating and according to her, the previous relationship wasn't as heartbreaking as normal lesbian relationships usually are, and now here I am, loving her the best way that I can. The best way because she deserves every bit of it! We met at a point where I am really ready to settle down. I say really ready because although I may have always been ready, I was always afraid of living with someone thanks to all the numerous crazy fights I encountered in relationships past. I was so convinced that I can not live in a house with a woman and have peace. When we started dating it's one of the things that amazed me, we rarely fight and many times it was weird to me, but it was normal to my girlfriend because that's what she was used to. I, on the other hand was used to relationship chaos. Yet, It was also one of my biggest fear, committing to someone in marriage and it turning out to be full of chaos. I genuinely wanted to go crazy with one of my ex's because it was so chaotic. Although I do not like to refer to her as my ex. Just a relationship that never should have happened. But my baby shows me sincere love. She gives me so much peace. She respects me. She loves and cares for me. She shows me that I am everything to her. She never fails to let me know. For example, here is one of her excerpts to me: "Times like this I remember why I fell for you. The way you take care of me even from a distance. The way you worry even when you don't have to. The way you want me to have everything I need. The way you love me. You have proven time and time again to be the best thing in my life. When I say that I will choose you over and over. I mean it. I don't want this any other way.Your love is enough for me" PS: My baby can write 😊. She is a writer/poet and she is absolutely good with words. When my baby met me, she was ready to relocate. She was tired of Nigeria and she told me honestly, from the get-go. She didn't try to sugar coat it. She told me she was tired of dating Nigerians living in Nigeria as well because apparently one person always assumes a leadership role and tend to want to control the other and she hated that. And then, she met me. Me, a grown woman who has evolved over the years and does not share in any form of heteronormative gender roles, and lives overseas. She, a ready woman. A smart woman. With goals and dreams mapped out. Just waiting for support and encouragement. My baby is a fortunate human back to back and I like it since I will be tapping from her well (pun intended). 😃 Anyway, I was just thinking tonight about everything and it's quite wild. I am also very fortunate. Just meeting my baby is one of the most fortunate things to have happen to me. When we met she was not really searching, I don't know how I managed to convince her but I'm glad I didn't give up on the first day. Maybe it's because no one I have dated has ever loved me so selflessly and so sincerely. It was mostly about what I was willing to do for them. I am very grateful for my baby. She listens to me. She understands me. She encourages me. And she is there for me. She was the first person I've dated who told me that I am her family. The first person I have dated who has done something meaningful for me. She meets me half way and I respect her for it. My girlfriend is a very generous woman. She is a giver, not a taker. I am a giver too. And so, I am the one who has to remember that she has needs too and try to support her. I do love my baby. The things I have contemplated doing for her, I have never thought about doing for anyone. It would be an honor to build a home with her and I want nothing less. I wanna do meaningful things together. Make babies together. Love each other till forever. I am thankful for her. Always and everyday 🌼 PS: Tonight, I sent her a picture of what I have done with our apartment. I left her a message because she was asleep, and minutes later she woke up, still sleepy, yet she called me. She told me "Thank you baby for everything." And then I asked her to go back to bed. She is a very grateful human you know. Down to the littlest things. My one in a million woman ♥︎ I am a finished woman sha 😃

In about a couple weeks my baby will be arriving in Canada. 😄 We've been preparing. Getting ready. This has to be the biggest step I have taken in a relationship. (The rest you'll know later 😃) By the way, I finally ordered a couch and other little decor stuffs for our apartment here. (Took me quite awhile to decide how the living room is gonna look, I'm not the best person for decor trust me 😊 but I think I got it figured out) We got people to buy all of my baby's stuff as well from her apartment in Nigeria. So that's out of the way. Right now, we just waiting and watching. It's been a tad stressful looking for a full-time role in this small city. (My baby and I agreed that we'll relocate to Calgary as soon as she is done with her school here and hopefully make it a home) May 19 and 26 is our birthdays. I will be 29 and my baby will turn 30. Old age 😄 Anyway, we've decided to celebrate both our birthdays this year on the 26 since she will be here. Being 30 is a big deal. I hope I can make it memorable enough for her. Happy birthday in advance my lover 😘 She is quite excited. She's put in so much work to be here and I am happy for her. About this time last year, we chatted for the first time and here we are planning life together for the rest of our lives. Exciting stuff to look forward to! There's time for everything. This is ours. Welcome Home! ♥︎

Today is one of those days.. I miss you Mother. ♥︎

Love is beautiful you know. Sincere love is the most beautiful thing on the face of the earth. I love you flower. With all my pure heart. ♥️ I have been loved. I am grateful for this love 🙏 May it stay lite. May we flourish ✨️

Lmao. But wait o. How Una take catch her?

It's funny.. how things start to go well for us or even better, the moment we find a good partner. Things start going so amazingly well and we never have to struggle for anything. When my elder sister came home and got married to her now husband. The whole process took about a month. Every damn thing, including getting her husband's papers. UK normally has the easiest visa route for Nigerians, for one moment to be honest, I wished I lived there. I was so worried about moving back here and leaving my baby so far away, I really didn't want a long distance relationship anymore. At that moment, Canada with their hectic visa requirements became something I was scared of. But like I said, things just work out when you are with the right person. Stress free and at the right moment. Sometimes, I remember how it all began and it's crazy. It's not everyday that you meet someone from such distance and it turns out to be this amazing. Truth is, I could have ended up with anyone. It could have been anyone but no, it's my baby. And she's the kindest,smartest,most understanding human I have ever met! We met. We fell in love. We became best friends. I don't know why, but this is one of the kindest act the universe has bestowed upon me. Maybe as a compensation, maybe because I have always desired a family. Regardless, It is something I am grateful for. It couldn't have been by merit alone. This is not my first relationship. But it is my absolute best. It is something I have sought for most of my adult life. I am forever thankful for the gift of flower. Forever hers 🌼. In this whole wide world, there's nothing I could do that I wouldn't do for her. No one has cared for me. Loved me. Showed me that they loved me. Like she has. For the first time in my life, I actually feel seen, loved, appreciated, and understood by my partner. In the way that I have always wanted. I am fortunate. I am grateful 🙏

Hello. I was just browsing through twitter and ran into this site again. Gave me euphoria. Others have sprung up over the years and have gained following. I could help with my stint kn social media management and flair for content creation and community management. I'm ousting it out here as the process to volunteer na long thing

Hello. I would like to make a friend request. This space just seems more safe to actually venture into looking for queer friendships and tribe. So if you're in Lagos and would like to be friends, friends ooo. E dakun. Send a dm or post a response here.

I miss my baby so much! This week has been a bit wild. I am furnishing the apartment and it's finally looking like home, not to mention that I'm broke asf lol. But as always, my baby has been super supportive in every way including contributing some money to help fix the apartment. I am so fortunate. I miss her. So so much. It's like a whole new world. It's been difficult being apart from each other. So far, everything is working out for us. And we're expectant, hopeful and quite happy. My baby is ready to come to me and I am ever ready for the next step. It's funny. Less than a year ago, I was bemoaning of love and here I am today, with the purest form of love I have ever known. I am ever thankful. And now we wait, one day at a time until we can be together again.. very soon. 🌼

It's been 12 years of being on this platform wow! I am grateful for the early years. Discovering this platform shaped my thinking and made me realize I am not alone.

With each passing day, my baby gets closer to joining me. February is almost over and we can't wait. Building a life with someone you love has to be one of the most wonderful things that can happen to anyone, and right now, this is our turn. I know it started like a joke but It's wonderful how far we've come. It's been pretty tough being apart and I have been mostly cranky but hope has kept me going.. 😊 As for settling down, it took me awhile but I found a place for us and I am slowly fixing it up. It feels really good you know.. There's someone for everyone. I completed my PM certificate this week and I am starting my degree in April. Super excited as well about that. I am grateful as always for life, for family and for the love of a woman who means the whole world to me. ❤️ May everything work out for us and may all our dreams come true. Iseee!

Magic hour - Jhene Aiko

Most definitely. An app is more convenient.

Are you into guys? Strange request from your girlfriend. Is this the first time?

This one pass me, pass my knowlege. Abeg another person should answe.

I dey always form like say I no dey watch Nollywood movies but na my guilty pleasure

My girlfriend wants a threesome with her Dad's friend. She believes we will make good money from it that will support our japa dreams. I am not on board with the idea but we need money somehow. Not only that, she wants me to make the first move. What do you think?

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Happy Valentine day to my baby love. I miss my baby, I do. The feeling is crazy and inexplicable. I have been trying to settle down but I can barely concentrate. Still, I have peace. I have love. Because I have you. The kind of love we share is indescribable. It feels so good to be finally able to relate to what people define as sincere affection. I love my baby. With all of my heart I do. Everyday, I find new things to love about her and new ways to admire her. The love of my whole life. I don't ever wanna NOT do life with you. You're the dream of every woman, of every man. Indeed, you're perfection. You're kind. You're mine and I'm never ever gonna let you down. I love you. I love you completely. I love you with all that is within me. Happy valentine flower 🌼

Omo they say this year 2024, make we no gree for anybody but omorrrr this babe no even gree for herself o 😆 Hiannn…Aunty ran out of the office to buy and deliver a bouquet of flowers to herself. First lied that she had an urgent emergency and had to leave the office. Then called saying a delivery was coming for her and BOOM 💥 A bouquet 💐 arrives. She comes in after 10 mins and plays the whole surprise card and keeps talking about how “she is so surprised” 🤣 Now she is walking around the entire damn building with her bouquet in hand “looking for the right spot to take a picture” The entire damn office of over 10 floors 🤣 The elevators are gonna hear it lol Omgoodness I don’t want to sound like I’m hating but I swear this level of insanity is beyond ridiculous 😆 Somebody please tell me it’s all in my head because… Omorrrrr 😅 On that note…Happy Valentine’s Day beautiful people!!! 💐 💕 No tension anybody o biko…love and allow yourself be loved 🥰 xo

Help, I am sleeping with my brother and cousin's girlfriends. We have sex regularly and both girls are not aware that I am involved with them both.

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About the agency.. I have done pretty well actually, in my own definition. Started last year July and we have continously done 1 to 1.5m naira monthly since then. However, this year I have decided to do a tad better, I am going to register the business in 🇨🇦 as soon as I go back and also go back to paid employment but this has presented certain challenges for me. Currently, I am hiring one Sales/Business Representative to cover some aspects and hope that my current team members will sit up. I have not really been too impressed with their work ethics especially with working remotely. Sometimes, I feel like they use the time for other stuff. But I am about to set them up straight starting today.. I hope I don't have to fire them.. I will if I have to. Anyway, I am taking the next step to hopefully getting us to 3 - 5m a month at most by end of year. Just to be realistic. I am not blind, however, to the challenges that a paid employment can bring. So I need to work a bit harder. Still, I am grateful for the business. For my clients and for the opportunity. And of course, grateful for my baby who has been nothing short of encouraging and a constant blessing in my life. 🌼

It bothers my girlfriend a lot that she is dating me and people would think it's because of money or visa or you know abroad fever lol. It's funny because my girlfriend is not broke. She can take herself to any country of her choice to live or study. Yet it bothers her. Doesn't bother me a bit! Made me remember one of my ex's attempting to mock me for not giving her my bank statement to apply for a visa. That one would have gladly married me for visa lol and maybe divorce my ass 😅 Anyway, a part of me doesn't like that she is bothered. Another part of me kinda appreciates that about her. So, Canada made some crazy ass rules cutting down students to 360k because of the housing crises currently going on there. But before that.. Around September I started convincing my girlfriend to move to Canada with me maybe as a student or even visitor because I want a life for us but of course, she was quite reluctant. Then, when she finally made up her mind to.. we applied for a visitor visa that has not been approved still. 😐 We also got admission and finally applied for a study visa. My baby paid for every damn thing. Full tuition, and extra backup funds for miscellaneous. I am so proud of her. My baby is a woman and more! I hope she knows that I could never have made a better choice of a partner. She is the best thing that has happened to me in a long long time.. Tbc...