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Happy New Month Ladies and gents. Oya o. I'm bored as hell o. Come and gist with me. Anything at all. Any topic. Abeg. Safe meeee. Epp.🤣🤣🤣

So I am a foodie...(can i get an Amen??) i could eat for a living but lucky me, or thanks to good genes, i am ever petite and i no where look near my age. Back to topic.. Which is your favorite fast food/restaurant. what is your special? why do you like the fast food/restaurant? Lets do a review.

No topic. No rules If you are bored, want us to know something fun, watching a foot ball match, anything, just drop it here. It's not Every time we need to open new threads. You can mention anybody and just have a gist. Let the fun thread begin

#coughs #clears throat. long distance relationship=dirty talking. so is it just me or do people actually get off from phone sex/sex chat? i want to know if i have a problem or its generally the same for everyone. It doesnt turn me on, doesnt bring any form of relief, just a lot of awkwardness that makes me laugh and want to sleep. Or is there something i am missing?? who is a pro in this abeg? I need to learn.

So all the drunks on NL, come and mark register, lets take a selfie!!! Say cheese. i know a lot of you and i will start mentioning names if y'all don't respect yourself and come out here. abeg, if you take ref,tm, coco, crack,coke, etc you are not welcome here. (Goan argue with your transformer) ayam talking about the ogogoro and kain kain murderers. so questions. 1) rep your beer, gin or vodka brand. 2) whats the highest numbers of drink you ever took? 3) most embarrassing drunk story? Tell us. 4) what kind of a drunk are you? 5)when did you start drinking? 6) ever drink and drive? 7) ever got high and talked rudely to family when you got home? 8) ever drink and f***k and then regret it? 9) whats the one combination or drink that is guaranteed to get you messed up? I repeat eyin awon science students, you are not allowed here except you smoke LOUD.

Just as the title says, write a letter to the person dating your ex... This is tricky for me cos the person dating my ex is on this forum but what the heck!!!

Hey everyone. i am just here thinking that being an adult is hard and what is even harder is making a decision. I am at a dilemma!! I have two beautiful women in my life, i swear it wasn't because i wanted to cheat but it just happened. one minute we were friends and the next we were more than friends even though i told her i had a girlfriend and she said "we are all single till we have a ring on". Pheww. Having a woman is not easy, everybody knows, now having two is even worse, i am past double dating and i have to drop one. problems! 1) They both have strong feelings for me. 2) i have strong feelings for both 3) They both have different traits that i love. E. G one is quiet and reserved and holds me down while the other is crazy, passionate and rings all of my bells. I love both traits even though they are opposites. 4) it would hurt both if i leave them. 5) they both want to get married and have kids with me. 6) Whenever i think of leaving either one of them, my blood boils and i start to get sick because i honestly dont want to. questions 1) have you ever been in this situation before? 2) what did you do? 3)what would you advice me to do? 4) help my fears, what if the one i leave is the right one for me? edakun epp!!! My head wants to scatter!! Please dont judge me!!!

Whether a best-selling author, a blog writer or even just a newspaper journalist, dating a writer can be frustrating. From their messy moods to weird sense of style, writers can be a handful. Here are the top 5 things to expect after saying yes to a writer: 1. Get ready for the arguments; There is nothing a writer enjoys more than picking your brains out. Finding a way to disagree is a hobby for them. But don't always misunderstand this -- it is not really you but them. As chronic consumers of information, the writer is only trying to be absolutely sure there is nothing else left in you they could feed on. 2. Get ready to sleep alone; That same time you wrap yourself in the warmth of the sheets to pass into the obliviousness of sleep is the same time a writer's inner demons awaken. From werewolves, zombies to vampires, writers harbor them all. And once a writer's beast awakens, he/she must feed it! 3. Get ready for the pessimism; Even when all roads appear to lead to an easy success, the ever judicious writer is able to pin down that one very tiny loophole that ordinary eyes are not able to see! 4. Get used to the constants 'nos': Nobody says no as easily as a writer. They are not afraid of you or society, so saying yes just to please you is never an option. 5. Get ready to inspire a story; Of course you can't tell a writer what to do. You can't tell them not to put you in their next story or essay. But don't worry as this is more of an honor than anything else. In a world filled with normal people, being chosen as a source of inspiration by a writer is a thing of pride. *** Beside all of these, nonetheless, writers could be one of the best set of people to date. They are honest, faithful, and are rarely dumb! And they are loaded with lots of exciting things to keep you eccentrically entertained every moment of your life. Source; http://nigerianshood.blogspot.com/2018/06/5-major-things-to-know-before-dating.html

As I watched the Argentina and Iceland match today and wondered why there were no black players in the Argentinean team when other South American teams had black or biracial players, I remembered a conversation I had last year. It was while I was on a cruise from Florida to the Grand Cayman Islands in the Caribbean. Between an Argentinean doctor and myself, who had walked up to me during lunch one day and struck up a conversation with me. There was no hiding the attraction. We had bonded much to the chagrin of her three Argentinean friends. On the deck of the ship that day, she kept going on about how she loves black men and looks forward to traveling so she can meet them. I asked her. "Don't you have black people in Argentina?" She said with a matter of fact candour. "No. Long time ago, after slavery, we killed them all." I was taken aback. She smiled And continued. "Very bad. I am ashamed of my people. It was very systematic though. Very well thought out. First they forced most of the men to fight for Argentina against Paraguay. They knowingly sent them into battles that were poorly planned so that the Paraguay army will do for them what they couldn't themselves do. Kill the blacks.Most of them died there. The remaining of them they forced to live in this province were there was a plague. A disease that the government refused to curb so that it can also do for them what they couldn't do. Kill the blacks. They refused to set up hospitals, clinics, adequate shelter,food outlets, nothing. They created the best environment for the disease to thrive. It killed the rest of the men that had survived the war. The darker you are, the higher the chance they will send you to that place to live or to the war to die. The lighter skinned women they forced them to sleep with the white men, so that their children are biracial, then they forced the children when they grew older to sleep with white men, so that the blackness of the skin of the children became whiter and whiter until there was no longer any visibly black people seen. It was so bad that blacks fled to Chile, Peru, Bolivia, Brazil and even Paraquay where they were better treated even though not as well as they should be treated as human beings deserving full equality. Atleast those ones did not want to kill them and accepted to give them protection and a means of livelihood. As a matter of fact in Chile, there was a city called Arica where Black people were so accepted and respected that in the 1700s two black free man, one called Anzuréz were elected mayors. But the white colonial masters from Spain came six months later and nullified the elections, they were afraid of other cities giving black people too many rights. But the blacks who had found succour did not complain, they sent word for others to flee Argentina and come join them. Afterall what was cancelled elections compared to certain death?" Then she went silent as though trying to replay the magnitude of the crime in her mind again. Then she said it in a sombre tone in order to drive it home to me. "The ones the Argentineans did not kill through war or disease, and rape and impregnate, fled the country and ultimately we got rid of the blacks." I listened in rising sorrow. She continued academically. "So although they abolished slavery in 1815 in Argentina, it continued until 1853, after that the main preoccupation of the leaders was how to get rid of the black slaves and their descendants. Our president who ruled us from 1868 to 1874, Domingo Faustino Sarmiento, wrote in his diary in 1848, this was long before he became president and slavery endedthat - 'In the United States… 4 million are black, and within 20 years will be 8 million…. What is to be done with such blacks, hated by the white race?' - It shows that he was already thinking of how to eliminate black people before he became President and when he became President, he succeeded." "Didn't the world say anything?" "No. They ignored it. I am sure most of them wanted to do the same thing but failed. At that time, they admired them. I remember when I will go to Brazil as a child, my father's friend will say in disgust as he looked at the black Brazilians - we should have had your guts and finished them off. All of them.Make Brazil white just like Argentina." "And the Europeans?" She laughed. "It is an open secret, just like King Leopold and his genocide in Congo. No one talks about it, but they know about it. Atleast the older ones do. The younger ones not so much. Why do you think all the Nazis ran to Argentina after World War 2?" I was silent. She continued. "Because it was the perfect place for the most evil racists in history to live." Then she looked out to the infinitely blue sea around the ship and sighed audibly before she continued. " Sadly, to some extent, it still is welcoming and accommodating of racial hatred. We took the Tango from the African slaves and made it our own. In Argentina, not one person will tell you the true history of that dance. They don't want to associate it with Africa. In fact if you ask them about black people in Argentina they will tell you that there has never been black people in Argentina. They teach them in schools. They rewrite the history. They make it all white. And as I said it is all underneath the surface. They never come out and say we hate black people. Argentina is only for whites or anything like that. They have just fixed the country to only be for white people." I looked at her friends, Argentineans like her, who were lounging on the chairs on the deck, clad in their tiny bikinis,drinking pina coladas and smiling. She followed my gaze and then turned to me. "Don't be fooled by all those smiles, scratch the surface and you will see that all they want is for you to disappear." copied from Jude idada on facebook

So I am on a journey that I always imagined would be fun. Yayyy!!! No sex relationship!!! I am super excited already and it's going really great but there are some things that I need opinions on. At what point can it be concluded that we had sex? As in, do I get to kiss her? Maybe smooch and neck??? What if she rubs her p on my knee and cums? Have we broken our no sex rule?. It's all confusing to me because lesbian sex sef get wahala. Should we just stay from touching altogether? I really want to do this and I need all the tips y'all can give me... Thanchu.. And Is there anyone currently doing this?? Or am I alone?

So the year is gone gone gone. Let's try to keep this thread running till 31st night. What are Your best moments in the year? What are your worst moments? Things you are thankful for? Best make out session of the year. Basically anything memorable about the year can be dropped here. We might not remember it all right now but post as you remember.