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All hope isn't lost girls. Madly in love and want to put a ring on it? Look no further! Yaay!! Lool. I am now available to officiate wedding ceremonies online. . Believe it or not, this shall be binding on both parties involved and dissolution can only occur formally once certain conditions are satisfied. #makeyourownway #lovewins đżđ PS - T&Cs apply. (To be published)
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When is the best time of the day for sex?
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Do u think Love is enough to salvage a broken relationship?
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Waconzy who was born in Port Harcourt, gained some popularity with his song âI celebrateâ in 2010 and since then, has struggled to make a comeback even after releasing subsequent songs. The musician, whose music career is obviously over, took to Instagram to display his ignorance and homophobia. He posted âGays & lesbians are bad children wey no gree change. They have nothing to offer to this world but HIVâ. Given Nigeriaâs increasing homophobia toward homosexuals due to ignorance on the issue, the statement above is capable of further encouraging discrimination and stigma which harms efforts to prevent HIV and care for LGBTQ+ persons living with the virus. Waconzy needs to learn that anyone regardless of their sexual orientation can contract HIV, the virus which causes AIDS and if he really understands the sort of harm that his post can cause to innocent lives, then he wonât wait for too long before taking it down with an apology. Source
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Pastor kicks person in drag out of church saying âput on man clothesâ
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A pastor in Chicago has come under fire to telling a person in drag to leave the church during a service. Antonio Rocquemore, of Power House International Ministries, can be seen telling the individual to âput on man clothesâ in a video shared to Facebook. âCan you leave my church and go put on man clothes? And donât come here like that no more,â he says in the video. âI hold a standard in here. Whatever you do on the outside is your business, but I will not let drag queens come in here.â The audience can be heard saying âAmenâ and âJesusâ and applauding the pastor. Rocquemore says in the video: âI donât do no bashing, because everybody is struggling with something. The video has been shared thousands of times, with many criticising the pastorâs actions. Afterwards, Rocquemore shared another video to his personal Facebook page, in which he appeared unapologetic. He said the person at the service had been a member of the church for several months. The pastor said: âFirst of all, anybody that know me ⌠I donât bash nothing. âThe reason why I donât bash nothing because when you start bashing things then youâre separating them. I donât separate sin. Sin is sin.â Source -
A gay couple recently tied the knot in Paris and one of them wore a unique outfit for the occasion. So pretty! Thoughts? Source
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âThe Bachelor Vietnamâ went from conventional reality TV to big-time drama this week when two of the female contestants decided to reject the idea of competing for the eligible guy and instead go home together. Bachelor Nguyen Quoc Trung was unexpectedly left holding the rose when contestants Minh Thu and Truc Nhu turned their attentions away from him⌠and onto each other, according to the Asian news site Next Shark. âI went into this competition to find love and Iâve found that love for myself, but it isnât with you,â Thu told Trung. âItâs with someone else.â Thu began to cry, ran up to fellow female contestant Nhu and threw her arms around her. âCome home with me. Come home with me,â she cried. Nhu approached Trung, who had given her a rose just moments earlier. âIâm sorry,â she said. âI really want to get to know you because youâre someone who made me feel special and I havenât felt that way in a long time.â He tried his darnedest to talk her out of leaving, saying, âI want you to know that if you do this, youâll feel regretful. This wonât change my decision. Iâm not going to give this rose to anyone else.â But she gave him back the rose, having already had made up her mind to leave. Source
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Following the recent arrest and subsequent release of 57 homosexuals in Lagos, LIB recently had a chat with popular gay rights activist, Bisi Alimi who visited our studio in company of his Australian husband, Anthony. According to Alimi, in his prime, he attended several gay parties in Victoria Island, Lagos with alot of posh kids and it was fun. He went on to call on more people to lend their voices to fighting for gay people in Nigeria, 'I think people that have the platform should speak up. If you have the resources, if you have the name, even if you don't come out as gay, you can stand u and speak on the issue' he said. Source
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Gay man arrested for rupturing anus of Ogun prince during sexual intercourse
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Two men have been arrested in Ogun State by the Police in connection with homosexuality. Okon Bassey and Ademola Adekunle were arrested following a complaint by Bassey who reported at the Onipanu Divisional Headquarter that Ademola was threatening his life with violence. Upon investigation, it was discovered that they are sexual partners. The Ogun state Police Public Relations Officer, Abimbola Oyeyemi, revealed in a press release that when Ademola was arrested last Wednesday, he confessed to being introduced to Bassey by one Mandela for homosexual dating. Oyeyemi, a Deputy Superintendent of Police (DSP), stated further that Ademola had explained how Bassey promised him N20,000 if he agreed to be his sex partner. According to Ademola, the said Bassey has had sex with him three times and this resulted in him bleeding profusely from the anus since then. Meanwhile, the agreed N20,000 was not paid to him. âUpon the confession, the two of them were promptly arrested and detained. Ademola was taken to hospital and medical report confirmed that his anus has been violently tampered with. âThe Commissioner of Police, Ahmed Iliyasu, has given directives for the transfer of the case to the State Criminal Investigation and Intelligence Department for further investigation and possible prosecution,â Oyeyemi stated. Source -
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Dewy Oputa the Daughter of Charly Boy who's known for her Stand in LGBT, has finally showed us the face of her Girlfriend for the first time, According to US based dewy she was nervous when she wanted to share the photos, but She doesn't care no more. See below
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Rigid sexual orientations have defined the preference of men and women for decades; however, a new study is attempting to do away with strict definitions of sexuality. The study, published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, argues that thereâs no such thing as a âstraightâ man or woman. Rather, people operate on a spectrum. Researchers showed men and women different kinds of pornographic material. Rather than relying on self-reporting, the study looked at physiological responses to the sexual material. Namely pupil dilation, which is a sign of sexual arousal. The study found that womenâs eyes dilated when they viewed a man and a woman being sexuality intimate, and when two women were sexually intimate. Lesbian are more aroused to their preferred sex than the other sex, a pattern normally seen in men. A similar phenomenon was seen in men. Talking to Broadly, study author Ritch C Savin-Williams, who is also the Director of Developmental Psychology at Cornell University, said: We show straight men a picture of a woman masturbating and they respond just like a straight guy, but then you also show them a guy masturbating and their eyes dilate a little bit. So we're actually able to show physiologically that all guys are not either gay, straight, or bi. He argues that though the idea of bisexuality as the norm is becoming more accepted when it comes to women, men are still struggling with patriarchal stigma. Savin-Williams has a point. There have been multiple studies done that conclude women are naturally bisexual, like this one by Dr Gerulf Rieger at the University of Essex. He did an identical study where he looked at pupil dilation in women who were shown videos of attractive men and women. Source
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Veso Golden Oke, a Nigerian-born Ghanaian transgender woman currently working in Ghana, says her goal is to continue to look more beautiful despite hateful comments from transphobic people. In a chat, the gorgeous 24-year-old model and professional make-up artist describes herself as âunique and beautiful.â The negative comments she receives from people do not bring her down at all, she says. Instead, they motivate her. âWhat keeps me going is the negative utterances from people, because they help build me up. I fight every day to look more feminine, they donât even recognize that I am trans.â Most people think effeminate men are gay, but Oke says she has never considered herself gay despite the fact that she is very feminine; instead, she has always known that she is a woman and thatâs why she is currently transitioning. âI consider myself a Trans because am on hormone pills already,â she says. Unlike most African parents who object to their children embracing their true nature as LGBTQ, Okeâs parents support her fully, she says. They know that she lives openly as a trans woman. Oke lives in Accra, Ghana, where she mentors young female models. With her guidance, some of them have won beauty pageants. Source
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Hi Ladies, What a year it has been! We have spent the last couple of weeks thinking about the best possible way to reach out to various groups including but not limited to orphans, students, the elderly, uniform officers e.t.c. It only recently dawned on us that even within our not so small online community there may be one, two or more people who may be distressed financially. It is to this end that we have decided to launch the #HASI â Help A Sister Initiative. As you would expect, this scheme is only open to registered members. To make an application, all you need to do is follow the steps below. You can be rest assured that confidentiality and anonymity will be guaranteed. To apply: Step 1: Write a note (no more than 100 words) on why you deserve the grant. Step 2: Using your registration email address, send a note in (step 1) along with your username as an email to info@naijalez.com Step 3: Admin will post the notes anonymously in the thread created for members to vote and unanimously agree on who the beneficiary should be. Step 4: The note with the most votes is shortlisted and contacted. Step 5: Admin disburses the funds. You may send in your entries from the date of this post valid through to the 20th of December, 2017 as we hope to make disbursement on or before the 23rd of December, 2017. If you read this and think you will like to donate to this initiative, please contact admin privately as well and thank you in advance. PS â considering this is the pilot project, we are looking at a maximum single disbursement of N30,000. Best wishes, FlyJ for the Admins
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A woman has opened up about how it is to be a lesbian and Muslim. Zayna, 40, spoke to the Manchester Evening News to say she had been beaten, threatened and humiliated because she is gay. She did not deny her true identity despite the abuse she had received before moving from Pakistan to the UK. While studying for her PhD, Zayna said she was kicked out of university because fellow students said they thought she was âdangerousâ. At an Islamic school, she said she was forced by fellow staff to leave or face police action. She had started a relationship with a fellow teacher. But staff said they would be reported to police as prostitutes if they did not end their relationship and leave. Of an incident where her father abused her for spending time with another teenager, she said: âMy father came upstairs and wanted to kill me and beat me like anything. âHe told me how to behave. That was the first time I felt unsafe in my own home. âI still have that horrible pain in my lower back and canât walk properly.â The graduate says she is still a practising Muslim and that her sexuality and her religion are both important to her. She said: âI was born a Muslim and I want to die a Muslim. But if someone wants to kill me then why? Just because Iâm a lesbian? âI am a strong brave person but so many people like me donât have that courage. I realised I need to come out and tell everyone about my story.â She now lives in Manchester, UK, and speaks out on behalf of LGBT+ Muslims. Zayna grew up in Karachi, Pakistan, and her parents were conservative Muslims with no other children. Her parents are both dead. She describes herself as a tomboy, and says she realised she is gay when she turned 13. Zayna says it was âvery hardâ and that she was told âyou are not Muslim if you are a lesbianâ. Going on, she also says she thinks the Quranâs message about homosexuality has been misinterpreted. She now says she feels calm because she is able to have relationships without fear of persecution. Source
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Facebook users reacts to the wedding between two Kenyan homosexuals
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Two gay Kenyan men identified as Kamau and Njorige tied the knots recently. Kenyans, Nigerians and other Facebook users have nothing good to say about the marriage. Source -
"When love is real, you can see beyond today. I pray our love continues to stand the test of time" Lit and sweet âđđ
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Relationships are the same, thatâs true, but there some differences between straight and lesbian relationships. On one hand, there are fun things about being in a lesbian relationship. On the other hand, weâre also sure there are pluses on the other side of the team. Itâs not that weâre comparing ourselves, but there are still people out there wondering how these two are different. Letâs enlighten those who donât know how lesbian relationships are different from the straight ones. Straight And Lesbian Relationships Difference #1: Celebrity Status Weâre serious about this. When two women walk into a restaurant and have a nice quiet dinner, the whole place stops to take a look at us. This is especially more intense when said two women walk in hand in hand. Who else do you know can stop activity like thatâ except celebrities? Okay, seriously now, we do get a lot more attention than straight couples. If in the past these are more on the negative side, this time people are cheering us on for being out and proud. So there. Thatâs a celebrity status in a way. Straight And Lesbian Relationships Difference #2: Periodic Table When youâre in a straight relationship, this means only one of you has their menstrual periods. This also means at least three days in a month, you canât have sex unless you want it all bloody. With lesbian relationships, two people have their periods and sometimes they donât happen at the same time. Ergo, in a lesbian relationship there are at least six days of no sexual contact. Itâs a good thing then sometimes we like to just cuddle, especially when weâre feeling hormonal. Straight And Lesbian Relationships Difference #3: One Night Stands When they said that women are from Venus, what they meant was while men have a tendency to have sex on the brain, women are more inclined towards intimacy. More women would prefer to have sex when the objective is long term. So in a straight relationship, there is one partner who would want to have sex with you, period. In a lesbian relationship, on the other hand, there are more chances that both partners would want to get to know each other better before going to bed together. No surprise here that one-night stands in a lesbian relationship have a tendency to turn into relationships. Straight And Lesbian Relationships Difference #4: Birth Control Lesbian relationships have a higher savings on their account. Why? We donât need a budget for birth control pills and condoms. What for when we have no use for them. At all. Wonderful, isnât it? Straight And Lesbian Relationship Difference #5: Pregnancies Because of the above, we donât have to deal with unwanted pregnancies and indulge in abortion. Not unless we woke up one day and same-sex relations can now produce babies. Of course, this is a news feature and not a science fiction literature. Thereâs no chance of that ever happening. So, truth be told, lesbian relationships are the ultimate pro-life, pro-choice unions. We have a choice not to have children, and we have a choice to adopt instead. What makes us all the same? Weâre all people and we all have the right to love whom we love. Source
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Nearly every song on JayZ's latest album, 4:44, generated buzz when the project dropped in June, but one track in particular stood out to many listeners: "Smile," on which the rapper revealed that his mother, Gloria Carter, is a lesbian. "Mama had four kids, but she's a lesbian / Had to pretend so long that she's a thespian," Jay-Z, 47, raps. "Had to hide in the closet, so she medicate / Society shame and the pain was too much to take / Cried tears of joy when you fell in love / Don't matter to me if it's a him or her." The end of the song features a spoken word poem recited and written by Gloria herself: "Living in the shadow feels like the safe place to be / No harm for them, no harm for me / But life is short, and it's time to be free / Love who you love, because life isn't guaranteed. Gloria publicly addressed the song for the first time on Tuesday, September 5, and revealed how she came out to her son. "Me and my son, we share a lot of information. I was sitting there and I was telling him one day, I just finally started telling him who I was," she explained on the D'USSE Fridaypodcast on Tuesday, September 5. "Besides your mother, this is the person that I am. This is the life that I live. My son started actually tearing 'cause he's like, 'That had to be a horrible life, Ma.' I was like, 'My life was never horrible. It was just different.' So that made him want to do a song about it." The track almost didn't see the light of day, though. "The first time I heard the song, I was like, 'Eh, I don't know, dude. I ain't feeling that,'" Gloria recalled. "When it first happened, I was sharing myself [with Jay], not to share myself with the world." After several discussions with her son, Gloria's apprehension faded away and she agreed to appear on the song. "I was never ashamed of me. But in my family, it was something that was never discussed," she said. "I'm tired of all the mystery. I'm gonna give it to 'em. ... Now it's time for me to live my life and be happy, be free." Source
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Nigerian lady who goes by the name Etz Cici Olamide on Facebook, shared these photos of her kissing and posing with her partner, Ajoke. Ajoke replied saying: Source
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Pastor: Iâm OK with gay marriage as long as they get shot in the head
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A pastor is under fire for a horrific remark about same-sex marriage. Logan Robertson is a pastor at Westcity Bible Baptist Church in Auckland, New Zealand. In a clip from a sermon uploaded to the churchâs YouTube channel, he makes a shocking jibe about gay couples. He says: âSomeone emailed me, asking, whatâs your view on homo marriage? âMy view on homo marriage is that the Bible never mentions it! Source
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The biggest signs that somebody is toxic in your relationship are: If you become the root of all evil. If anything that goes wrong is always your fault. They could never admit to being wrong. You always got to beware of someone who cannot say âsorry.â Someone who canât say âsorryâ you know that as soon as it hits the fan and it gets difficult youâre going to be in a bad time with that person. Anybody who looks to do damage. Psychologists call it âscorpion behaviour.â If you get close to a scorpion and a scorpion gets scared, then that stings you. A bad, toxic partner, when they are afraid, wonât tell you theyâre afraid. Instead, theyâll just sting you. Theyâll try to do damage. Toxic partners wonât actually talk through things or be vulnerable with you. Instead, they hide. Toxic partners will lie about anything. Theyâll find any way to make you the crazy one. Such a person will erode your confidence over time in a very powerful way. Source
