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Hello ladies, Do share. What's the favourite thing about your girl and about your relationship? For those who are single, you could tell us about your favourite ex and what your favourite thing was. If you have no favourites, perhaps imagine what you would like as a favourite thing.
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Hello Girls, I imagine that this would be a very interesting one. What is your thought about saying "I Love You" 2days or 1month into a relationship? Does it count as love? Is there really a one-size fit all for what the recommended time frame should be before the 3 words may be uttered? Do share your thoughts.
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Hey Girls, What's that thing or those things about you that make a girl fall for you? What's that thing that gets the girls' attention?
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Hi Girls, So, a few days ago, I came across this ad in my feeds and something struck! While the purpose of it was to help girls get the men of their dreams, I found it apt for our community as well. Check it out below. I've also gone ahead to do a summary from my perspective which I will share below the video. Instead of falling for the real person, you've fallen for an ideal. There are two ways to look at this. The first is go figure. That is; you've gone ahead to over fantasize and have built an entire personality and character for this person even when you've only been talking to them for a few weeks. You have fallen in love with the idea of them and have made them your ideal forgetting that as humans we are multi-faceted -bringing our backgrounds, experiences and plethora of habits along with us. The 2nd way to look at this is from the perspective of understanding that the fact that someone may have checked all your boxes means just that. It doesn't necessarily mean that they are the one for you. This is tricky I know because at what point do you really determine if this person is relationship material or she is simply friendship material. Your duty here is to decide for yourself what "extra" someone needs to possess in order to be considered relationship material. Standards This I believe ties into point 1 as well. Standards could very well be one of the reasons you decide to friend zone someone who has checked all of your boxes. It is very tempting I know to want to be with someone who gets you. But I also want you to not be short-sighted here. Imagine 2,3 years down the line, you would have wished you maintained your standards. Maintaing a relationship is hard enough, why complicate it with by being on board with someone who doesn't share the same values or standards as you? Lol. Nothing to write here. I'm not sure this applies to us or does it? Courtship. I think this is very self explanatory. It's so interesting how when we hit it off with someone and our next thoughts are how to jump into a relationship with them. I've been guilty of this as well in the past 🙄. Lessons learnt. Lol. Courtship is key... all that time inbetween is very very very crucial. It helps you to really get to know and understand the person in question. You are able to assess their responses or reactions across a diverse range of situations... it saves you from getting into a relationship that was bound to fail. Choosing unavailable women. Has she just come out of a bad relationship? Is she struggling with trust issues? Is she emotionally burnt out? Is she too in love with the idea of being single that sharing her life with another is too much of a chore? Is she in a relationship with another or is she in love with another who isn't You? Whatever the circumstances are, if you meet an unavailable woman, simply walk on and spare yourself a truck load of emotional stress and heart ache. I have decided to do this summary because after watching that ad, it dawned on me that perhaps a lot of the reasons why there are loads of short-lived relationships in our community is probably because we jump in too soon without first allowing time to really get to know and understand a potential love interest. Someone being gay or bi or trans shouldn't be the only criteria for determining whether or not to be romantically involved with them. Whew! Lol. Do share your thoughts as well...
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Hey Girls, The supermarkets seem full. Could it be panic buying? 😟 I thought of this thread to serve as a reminder of the essentials you may require before all shops close for the elections. Please add to the list...
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*kimi decides to be a girl... she's off to go freshen up. She'll be back in a bit* 😁🙄
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The last time I heard this happen was in secondary/high school. Who are these people! Hahahaha. What are your thoughts about breaking it off a few weeks before valentine's? Have you ever been guilty of this?
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Hey girls... Got any plans for Val's day? Don't get excited yet. This isn't a giveaway. I would have loved to but the dynamics to sorting out tickets are a tad complex. So... instead, I'm thinking we could still have loads of fun with it online. My thoughts are that two people would volunteer and agree to be eachother's valentine. We will host a thread for them while they dine and make conversation -within the thread. Lol. We could have multiple dinners holding simultaneously as well. The rest of us will simply watch and be entertained with the ensuing discussions... What do you think? To be considered for the dinner, simply indicate your interest and nominate one person you would love to dine with. Once she accepts your nomination, you are in! It's that simple.😘 lol
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Hey Girls... Do you have a price? How much would you consider if someone needed you to make a compromise? Lol Lesbe honest pliss 🙄 (I'll be available to take confessions over the weekend) ☻
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Happy Sunday lovelies... So I was trying to analyse the different pressure points one can have when one is attracted to a woman. For some attractions, the feeling is centred in the chest -the core of you so to speak For some attractions, the feeling is felt at the pit of one's stomach For some other attractions, you feel it right in your groin. Hahaha. You are pretty much turned-on 24/7 either when around them or when speaking to them These are all the points that come to mind. If I have left any out, do share. Question: which have you felt and which do you reckon can be associated with love.
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Hey girls... Here's hoping you've all had a wonderful start of the week. So...! What is your favourite or not thing about Monday?
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Hey Girls... How's your Sunday looking? Good good? It had better! lol. Which are your favourite smileys? You know.... those you use all the time even when it isn't a match with what is being conveyed. Lool. Share your favourite smileys with everyone yo!✌
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If you had more money than you knew what to do with, how would you live your life? What are the first 3 things you would do?
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Hey Girls, What type of girl are you? Are you: A. The indirect type (i.e if I want something I would expect you to figure it out because I ain't telling) B. The more direct type (i.e I want something or I like someone, I voice it out) C. Whichever you fall under, how Is it working for you? D. A-Girls, how in the world do you help people figure you out? Would you go after another A Girl? E. B-Girls, would you go after an A Girl?
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A lovely poem usually credited to Maya Angelou but written by Pamela Redmond Satran... Enjoy! A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE … enough money within her control to move out and rent a place of her own, even if she never wants to or needs to… A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE . something perfect to wear if the employer, or date of her dreams wants to see her in an hour… A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE a youth she’s content to leave behind…. A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE . a past juicy enough that she’s looking forward to retelling it in her old age…. A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE …. a set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill, and a black lace bra… A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE one friend who always makes her laugh… and one who lets her cry… A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE .. a good piece of furniture not previously owned by anyone else in her family… A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE . eight matching plates, wine glasses with stems, and a recipe for a meal, that will make her guests feel honored… A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE . a feeling of control over her destiny. EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW… how to fall in love without losing herself. EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW… how to quit a job, break up with a lover, and confront a friend without; ruining the friendship… EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW… when to try harder… and WHEN TO WALK AWAY… EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW… that she can’t change the length of her calves, the width of her hips, or the nature of her parents.. EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW… that her childhood may not have been perfect…but its over… EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW… what she would and wouldn’t do for love or more… EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW… how to live alone… even if she doesn’t like it… EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW.. whom she can trust, whom she can’t, and why she shouldn’t take it personally… EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW… where to go… be it to her best friend’s kitchen table… or a charming inn in the woods… when her soul needs soothing… EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW… what she can and can’t accomplish in a day… a month…and a year…
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People of God, Is it wrong to pray using profanities? And thanking God with same. E.g. God, I facking love you!! Whatever your position on this is, please state your reason. I need your input to attend to some issues at the temple. Thanks Archy😇📿
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Hey Girls... this used to happen to me quite a bit and then I stopped attending parties 🙄🙈 hahahaha! I agree. It is indeed sinful not to serve one at a party especially after the amount of slaying prep that goes into attending one. Lol 📿 So here goes... 1. How do you feel when you get skipped at the party when food is being served? 2. What did you do when this happened to you? Beckon at the waiter, walk up to the food stations, create a scene ☻ etc... 3. Does it ruin your mood, do you shrug it off or does it leave you with absolute hatred for humanity? Lol. 4. How have you managed to ensure it doesn't rub-off wrong going forward. That is; your do-not-skip-me-ever-again solution? Lez be honest pliss
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Hello... On a lighter note, I looked in the mirror today and then I got upset for another hour. Hahaha. Do people often think that: A. You look your age? B. You look older than your age? C. You look younger than your age? Whichever option you pick, how does it make you feel? Would you rather they thought otherwise?
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Hey Girls... I need some clarification. Please be generous. Help a novice. A.What is the difference between 'Babe' and 'Baby'? B. Which do you prefer being called? C. Which do you use for her? D. Should grown-ups really even tolerate being called 'Baby'? E. What does it do to you when she calls you your preferred pet name F. Why do some call it Bambi or Bambutu or Baybee 😁🙄? G. When a real baby comes along, what happens? Does she become Baby 1 or Baby 2. Or 'main Baby' and 'the real Baby baby' or 'Baybie 'and 'Baybeeeeee'? H. Dasall.
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So imagine that you meet a girl, you fall for her. She falls for you, you two start dating... your relationship progresses to you both meeting each other's closest friends and family... ...then, she starts to evolve. So for example, at the start of your relationship, she was very girly and that was the main point of attraction for you. 18months down the line, she's now tilting towards being more masculine by the day. Hair cuts, dressing etc... (and vice versa if your preference is the reverse of what has been described) What would you do. Will it matter to you?
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If you are Christian, you would be very familiar with these words: "it is finished" Indeed, it is finished. Everything you need to succeed you already have. You are empowered. You do not need to pray to be anymore. Only believe. You are free, you must start to act like it. You are successful, you must start to believe it because you know what? It all begins in the mind. This mind of ours is capable of the unimaginable... This is no hocus pocus or some motivational speech. This is fact. It is reality. Whether or not you subscribe to it, the universe is run by a law that answers to a firm believe. Some of you may call it faith. Do you have a desire deep enough that it reaches to the very core of you? Do you have a believe resolute enough that you will achieve it come what may? And are you taking action everyday to get you closer to that goal? You become an unstoppable force once you are fired up with these 3things. Test it. The universe would always create a path of progression for you. It may not be one smooth path but the lessons you pick up along the way become priceless. Hold fast till you see what you desire materialize. Do not quit and you will see for yourself that you are invinsible once you set your MIND to the accomplishment of a thing. This new year... I implore you to use your MIND to your advantage. Don't waste precious mind energy dwelling on negativity or on the things you do not want to see or even on battling spiritual forces. Use your God given power to attract the sort of things and life that you desire and believe that all things are working out for your good. Believe that no harm shall come near you. If you believe the preceding, I assure you that enemies would no longer be priority on your list. They wouldn't even be anywhere near your list because you would have far more important things to focus energy on. Start small. Test this law. Believe with all of your heart that you are a magnet for good and watch good flow to you. Above all, be your best self this new year. You owe yourself that much. Not for anyone else, but for you. #selah Lots of Love from the NL Chapel 📿 Disclaimer: these are my thoughts, please consume at your own risk. I am not an ordained minister and I do not go to church either. Lol. I refer to myself as a child of God. Most importantly, I am one with the power that has created the universe.
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All hope isn't lost girls. Madly in love and want to put a ring on it? Look no further! Yaay!! Lool. I am now available to officiate wedding ceremonies online. . Believe it or not, this shall be binding on both parties involved and dissolution can only occur formally once certain conditions are satisfied. #makeyourownway #lovewins 📿💍 PS - T&Cs apply. (To be published)
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If you had the option to date a replica of you, would you? If Yes/No, why?
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*kimi in the building setting up...* No sponsors this year save for some pretty fargins... they've been generous with their donation of fresh milk! Yipppeee!! 😇
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Hey Girls, Is there anything at all you want to be done with this year? Share away...
