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It's such a wet Saturday and while I'm here playing ps4 with the nephew and watching him thrash me, I'm also contemplating some very random thoughts; here goes: How open are you to attending lgbt+ house parties? And what are the factors that would determine whether or not you attend one? Would you tag along if a friend of yours invited you for one or are you more risk averse and would only attend if you knew the organizers? Can you pay to attend an exclusive lgbt+ party? If not, why?
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Hey Ladies, A thought popped into my head and it got me wondering... here it is: If one partner did not like say penetration and the other did and would only be able to derive ultimate pleasure from it, what would your advise to them be? Compromise or respect eachother's preferences.
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Imagine this: You've just discovered the key that unlocks wealth. Will you share? If yes, with whom and why. If No, why?
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If your girl's phone is broken, would you let her use yours for the day? Oya expose yourselves😂.
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Eva Clitoral Massager Eva, a hands-free clit vibe, marries the aesthetics of a Pixar character with the sexual gravitas of an L Word character. The arms hug the lips of your labia while the ridge hits your clit, and it can be worn while somebody special is grinding against you or fingerbanging/intercoursing you. G-Spot Touch Finger Vibe “The first sex toy was the finger,” says the copywriter for this particular toy, revealing a deep primal understanding of lesbian mating rituals. “We’ve improved on that!” the copywriter continues, making a truly bold statement everybody here can appreciate. You can become your very own superheroine when you convert your fingers into android fingers capable of bringing your partner seven unique vibration patterns. SEVEN! If you’ve got your finger inside her, the textured pad at the base of the glove ensures her clit will not get lonely. “It literally feels like a vibrating extension of your hand,” the copywriter adds. I believe it! Fun Factory Sharevibe If you’ve ever been to a potluck you know that if there’s one thing lesbians love to do above all else, it’s SHARE. The Fun Factory Sharevibe lets couples share not only that lentil dish, but also that sweet, sweet vibe. One partner’s got the bulb inside them while the other is gently or mercilessly penetrated with control not possible with more traditional strap-ons. Our reviewer found the Sharevibe to bebest-suited for butch cock-sucking, noting, “there was no cloth harness to have to reach under, no hard silicone base to mess around with and no barrier between my mouth or fingers and any part of her. It was awesome.” Kinky Sprinkles describes it as “an amazing dildo that I have had so many super sexy nights with other female-identified partners.” Active Style Harness W/O Ring They look like traditional black boxer-briefs, ideal for lovers with a penchant for masc underthings who like to keep it simple and understated. But the surprise is that these aren’t traditional boxer-briefs, they’re A HARNESS! Plus they’re a harness you can wash in a washing machine, ’cause if everything goes right, you’re gonna get very messy. This strap-on harness is also a great option for trans women with penises who want to fuck their girlfriends with a dildo. We-Vibe Rave The We-Vibe Rave is a high-tech vibrator with ten vibration modes and a corresponding app. Lesbian couples are very often long distance, and the Rave enables you to take Skype sex up a notch when your girlfriend downloads the app on her phone and controls the vibrator from a million miles away. Thigh Harness A classic toy for lovers with specific access needs, this thigh harness enables your lady to bounce atop and rub all over your glorious, glorious thigh, possibly with her knee in a relatively convenient spot for you, and well who knows honestly what she can do with her free hands! You’re probably too distracted by the extraordinary view of her boobs! A world of possibilities awaits you, my fine friends. Clandestine Mimic Massager Picture this: you’re in a bathtub with your one true love, and you want to go down on her, but you can’t, because then you would drown! That’s where the Clandestine Mimic Massager comes in, enabling you to give your special somebody an oral-sex-esque experience while remaining face to face, above water, head in the clouds like a silly love song. It’s rechargeable with eight vibration speeds and is designed to fit right into your hand. nJoy Pure Wand As Lara the Sous Chef famously told Dana Fairbanks, female ejaculation is nothing to be ashamed of, it’s actually one of the best things ever! The nJoy Pure Wand gave our reviewer her best orgasm ever, and what’s more romantic than that? The Shi/Shi Union Girl Vibe At last we’ve come to our Ultimate Lesbian Sex Toy: designed by a lesbian who truly loves to scissor, the Shi/Shi Union is the first vibrating pleasure device designed specifically for female couples. Two contoured orbs, attached at their base and controlled independently by remote, smash right onto your vulvas and between your interlocked legs for scissoring sensations that’ll send you soaring into a sapphic sex solar system. Source
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Hi Girls, So, a few days ago, I came across this ad in my feeds and something struck! While the purpose of it was to help girls get the men of their dreams, I found it apt for our community as well. Check it out below. I've also gone ahead to do a summary from my perspective which I will share below the video. Instead of falling for the real person, you've fallen for an ideal. There are two ways to look at this. The first is go figure. That is; you've gone ahead to over fantasize and have built an entire personality and character for this person even when you've only been talking to them for a few weeks. You have fallen in love with the idea of them and have made them your ideal forgetting that as humans we are multi-faceted -bringing our backgrounds, experiences and plethora of habits along with us. The 2nd way to look at this is from the perspective of understanding that the fact that someone may have checked all your boxes means just that. It doesn't necessarily mean that they are the one for you. This is tricky I know because at what point do you really determine if this person is relationship material or she is simply friendship material. Your duty here is to decide for yourself what "extra" someone needs to possess in order to be considered relationship material. Standards This I believe ties into point 1 as well. Standards could very well be one of the reasons you decide to friend zone someone who has checked all of your boxes. It is very tempting I know to want to be with someone who gets you. But I also want you to not be short-sighted here. Imagine 2,3 years down the line, you would have wished you maintained your standards. Maintaing a relationship is hard enough, why complicate it with by being on board with someone who doesn't share the same values or standards as you? Lol. Nothing to write here. I'm not sure this applies to us or does it? Courtship. I think this is very self explanatory. It's so interesting how when we hit it off with someone and our next thoughts are how to jump into a relationship with them. I've been guilty of this as well in the past 🙄. Lessons learnt. Lol. Courtship is key... all that time inbetween is very very very crucial. It helps you to really get to know and understand the person in question. You are able to assess their responses or reactions across a diverse range of situations... it saves you from getting into a relationship that was bound to fail. Choosing unavailable women. Has she just come out of a bad relationship? Is she struggling with trust issues? Is she emotionally burnt out? Is she too in love with the idea of being single that sharing her life with another is too much of a chore? Is she in a relationship with another or is she in love with another who isn't You? Whatever the circumstances are, if you meet an unavailable woman, simply walk on and spare yourself a truck load of emotional stress and heart ache. I have decided to do this summary because after watching that ad, it dawned on me that perhaps a lot of the reasons why there are loads of short-lived relationships in our community is probably because we jump in too soon without first allowing time to really get to know and understand a potential love interest. Someone being gay or bi or trans shouldn't be the only criteria for determining whether or not to be romantically involved with them. Whew! Lol. Do share your thoughts as well...
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Hey Girls, The supermarkets seem full. Could it be panic buying? 😟 I thought of this thread to serve as a reminder of the essentials you may require before all shops close for the elections. Please add to the list...
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*kimi decides to be a girl... she's off to go freshen up. She'll be back in a bit* 😁🙄
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Hey girls... Got any plans for Val's day? Don't get excited yet. This isn't a giveaway. I would have loved to but the dynamics to sorting out tickets are a tad complex. So... instead, I'm thinking we could still have loads of fun with it online. My thoughts are that two people would volunteer and agree to be eachother's valentine. We will host a thread for them while they dine and make conversation -within the thread. Lol. We could have multiple dinners holding simultaneously as well. The rest of us will simply watch and be entertained with the ensuing discussions... What do you think? To be considered for the dinner, simply indicate your interest and nominate one person you would love to dine with. Once she accepts your nomination, you are in! It's that simple.😘 lol
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The last time I heard this happen was in secondary/high school. Who are these people! Hahahaha. What are your thoughts about breaking it off a few weeks before valentine's? Have you ever been guilty of this?
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So you have a harness, a dildo, and enthusiasm. What’s next? A strap-on blow job can be part of foreplay, a main sex act, or part of cleanup. No matter where it fits in, build excitement by making out, grinding against each other, dirty talking, or whatever your sex pregame usually looks like. If you’re the one giving the blow job, start by being a tease with touches that get close to or lightly brush over the strap-on, without really engaging with it yet. When everyone is ready to go, move into position and go to town. “An easy way to start is by slowly licking up the shaft and around the head of the dildo. It’s hot and useful, since more saliva makes everything glide smoothly. You can also use this in between sucking and stroking with your hand if you need a break or more lubrication,” says FemmeCock. Then, take the strap-on into your mouth. If it’s long, or if you don’t want it too deep, wrapping your hand around the base can keep it from going too far back in your mouth and can give your partner a firmer surface to grind against if they want one. Resist the urge to bite down to control the depth — the dildo won’t notice, but your teeth will. Then, start to move slowly, and build up to a rhythm as you pay attention to your partner’s responses. A lot of your focus will probably be on the dildo, but don’t forget about your partner’s body. “Bring one of their fingers into your mouth right alongside the dildo so they can feel exactly what you’re doing. […] Reach for their body, hold their hands, grab their thighs, involve their butt or whatever is under the strap on, if they like that. Use your hands,” says Sexsmith. If your partner is into vaginal or anal penetration and is wearing a harness that allows for it, you can finger them during the blow job. Start with fewer fingers and add more, use lube if you need it, and use the same rhythm with your fingers as your mouth for extra bonus points. Finally, remember that the best strap-on blow jobs are noisy and messy and embrace it. “Noises are inevitable and can enhance the experience, since strap-on blowjobs rely on sights and sounds, so don’t be embarrassed of slurping or sucking noises. You can also add more intentional sounds, moaning intermittently to show you’re enjoying what’s going on,” says FemmeCock. How To Receive A Strap-On Blow Job If it’s your first time receiving a strap-on blow job, spend some time in advance getting used to wearing the strap-on. “Think about it as part of you. Touch it yourself, get a sense of its edges and shape and weight and size. Let it become part of your body’s proprioception,” says Sexsmith. Then, in the moment, try to relax and concentrate on what you see and feel. Stay present and connected with your partner via touch. Try resting your hand on their shoulder or stroking the back of their neck or the side of their face, but don’t grab their head, pull their hair, choke them, or more forcefully fuck their mouth unless you’ve discussed it. Use sounds or words to let your partner know they’re doing a good job, check in by asking questions your partner can answer by nodding or making a noise, and let your partner know what you’re into. “It can feel like a lot of pressure to have someone watching you go down on them, so it’s important to let your partner know they’re doing a great job through sounds or verbal affirmation. Make sure they’re on the same page as you by asking questions that can be answered with a gesture or short response, like ‘how’s that’ or ‘are you enjoying my cock?’ Communicate what you want and like; if you find something to be super hot, you can say things like ‘that feels so good’ or ‘I love when you go a little slower,’” says FemmeCock. Use non-verbal expression, too. “The way a lover can tell that you like things is by your movement, sound, and breath. Let those things out,” says Sexsmith. Source
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Hey Girls... Do you have a price? How much would you consider if someone needed you to make a compromise? Lol Lesbe honest pliss 🙄 (I'll be available to take confessions over the weekend) ☻
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Hey girls, How would you suggest I cut-off from someone who I have known for about a decade? Background: she is a former church member who I was quite close to solely because we served in the same department (in church). I left the church when I decided to live true to myself, follow the path that I chose for me and start afresh. The rest is history. Now she whatsapps me occasionally. She just did again. How I do I break off completely without being mean? My tactic has been to delay responses. Dunno... Help😐
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Happy Sunday lovelies... So I was trying to analyse the different pressure points one can have when one is attracted to a woman. For some attractions, the feeling is centred in the chest -the core of you so to speak For some attractions, the feeling is felt at the pit of one's stomach For some other attractions, you feel it right in your groin. Hahaha. You are pretty much turned-on 24/7 either when around them or when speaking to them These are all the points that come to mind. If I have left any out, do share. Question: which have you felt and which do you reckon can be associated with love.
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If you regularly load up your grocery cart with a variety of veggies, you could be well on your way to a healthier and longer life. But which ones should you reach for? Recent research has shown that dozens of vegetables pack a particularly big nutritional punch. Sneaking them into your daily diet couldn’t be simpler. Watercress Often overshadowed by arugula, this peppery green can knock any dish into nutritional shape. It’s particularly rich in vitamins A, C, and K, and other antioxidants that are good for you. Cooking tip: Watercress can instantly make sandwiches and salads more lively and fresh-tasting. Or blend the greens into pureed soups. Red bell pepper You think of it as a veggie, but it’s actually a fruit. One medium pepper delivers B vitamins, beta carotene, and more than twice your daily need for vitamin C. Cooking tip: For a fanciful main dish, cut the tops off peppers, remove the inner white membranes and seeds, and then roast until tender. Finish by filling with your favourite whole-grain salad. Spinach This green has healthy amounts of vitamins C, A, and K as well as manganese. Working 1.5 cups of green, leafy vegetables into your day may lower your odds of getting type 2 diabetes. Cooking tip: Sneak spinach into your daily routine by adding it to scrambled eggs and casseroles or blending it into smoothies. Swiss chard Two main varieties of Swiss chard are found on store shelves: one with multicoloured stems and veins, often called rainbow chard, and another with white stems and veins. Both are great sources of lutein and zeaxanthin, an antioxidant duo that’s good for your eyes. At only seven calories a cup, the green giant is waistline-friendly, too. Cooking tip: To preserve its nutritional might, lightly steam chard and toss with vinaigrette. You can also use the leaves instead of tortillas when making soft tacos. Collard greens This Southern favorite contains a wealth of nutritional goodness, including notable amounts of vitamins K and C, folate, and beta-carotene. To boost your daily nutrition, aim to eat about 2 cups of dark, leafy greens like collards every day. Two cups of raw greens is equal to 1 cup of vegetables, and 2.5 cups is recommended daily for a 2000-calorie diet. Cooking tip: Quickly blanch the leaves in boiling water, then chop them and add them to whole-grain or lentil salads. Asparagus With an earthy-sweet flavour, asparagus is a good way to load up on folate. Research suggests that this B vitamin is an ally in the battle against high blood pressure. Cooking tip: Shave raw asparagus with a vegetable peeler. You’ll get ribbons that are wonderful in salads. Broccoli Broccoli is one of nature’s rock stars. It’s a top source of natural plant chemicals shown to help lower the risk of some cancers (though many other things also affect your cancer risk). Each cup of the florets also gives you plenty of vitamins C and K. Source
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Hey girls... Here's hoping you've all had a wonderful start of the week. So...! What is your favourite or not thing about Monday?
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If you had more money than you knew what to do with, how would you live your life? What are the first 3 things you would do?
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Hello Everyone, Please don't judge me. I will be having sex for the first time in a couple of months. What must I know? Is it painful with a woman? What constitutes sex? How would I know I have had sex? We are both virgins. Your tips will be very much appreciated.
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Hey Girls, What type of girl are you? Are you: A. The indirect type (i.e if I want something I would expect you to figure it out because I ain't telling) B. The more direct type (i.e I want something or I like someone, I voice it out) C. Whichever you fall under, how Is it working for you? D. A-Girls, how in the world do you help people figure you out? Would you go after another A Girl? E. B-Girls, would you go after an A Girl?
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Hi Girls, It's Monday and I am in the mood to get my fingers moving without purpose. Hahahaha. I'm absolutely loving this head space I'm in at the moment. I've got absolutely nothing to chat about but I thought to share, spread and send some positive happy energy. How's your Monday morning looking ladies? Thinking of you all x
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Hey Girls, Another one for you. Lol. A. Can you date a woman/girl who has no breasts? Not small breasts o... I mean breastless. B. What if you found out that a year prior she underwent a mastectomy.... would it make a difference to your decision in A above?
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Have you ever just had the urge to write but with no topic or subject matter in mind? That's what I am doing right now. Hahahaha. It's been an interesting weekend for me. A very eye opening one. Hey girls, I had this idea on hosting our very own NL Bachelorette. I've discussed the concept with a pal of mine who thinks it's doable. We are yet to conclude on the workings of it that is: who would be on offer ? What will be the qualifier to decide who would be on offer (by way of voting)? What sort of tournament or games would be most effective for deciding who gets the girl. Lol.? Other concerns include: What should the prize be: a date outside of NL? Is this asking too much? See? It's a tricky and rather complex one. Do you girls think we can pull this off? If yes please share your thoughts below on all questions posed above Happy Sunday 📿
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This topic was inspired by one in the anonymous section. Have you ever had an issue developing a sexual connection with anyone? I have also heard a few stories of this happening from friends and how all effort to force a connection was to no avail. Sex wasn't just happening for them. Why do you think this could occur?
