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A lovely poem usually credited to Maya Angelou but written by Pamela Redmond Satran... Enjoy! A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE … enough money within her control to move out and rent a place of her own, even if she never wants to or needs to… A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE . something perfect to wear if the employer, or date of her dreams wants to see her in an hour… A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE a youth she’s content to leave behind…. A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE . a past juicy enough that she’s looking forward to retelling it in her old age…. A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE …. a set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill, and a black lace bra… A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE one friend who always makes her laugh… and one who lets her cry… A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE .. a good piece of furniture not previously owned by anyone else in her family… A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE . eight matching plates, wine glasses with stems, and a recipe for a meal, that will make her guests feel honored… A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE . a feeling of control over her destiny. EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW… how to fall in love without losing herself. EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW… how to quit a job, break up with a lover, and confront a friend without; ruining the friendship… EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW… when to try harder… and WHEN TO WALK AWAY… EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW… that she can’t change the length of her calves, the width of her hips, or the nature of her parents.. EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW… that her childhood may not have been perfect…but its over… EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW… what she would and wouldn’t do for love or more… EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW… how to live alone… even if she doesn’t like it… EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW.. whom she can trust, whom she can’t, and why she shouldn’t take it personally… EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW… where to go… be it to her best friend’s kitchen table… or a charming inn in the woods… when her soul needs soothing… EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW… what she can and can’t accomplish in a day… a month…and a year…
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Hello... On a lighter note, I looked in the mirror today and then I got upset for another hour. Hahaha. Do people often think that: A. You look your age? B. You look older than your age? C. You look younger than your age? Whichever option you pick, how does it make you feel? Would you rather they thought otherwise?
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Ladies, will you make with or pass…?
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Hey girls... What are your thoughts... Is this something you actually check when you want to find out more about a certain person without necessarily engaging them in a conversation? Is yours published or still an empty space? What's your take generally? Would you rather people take the time to put a few words in or you can't be bothered
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Copied Oya rep your package o...lol.
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Would you a) Make out with b) Take to Dinner c) Kiss d) Pass
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People of God, Is it wrong to pray using profanities? And thanking God with same. E.g. God, I facking love you!! Whatever your position on this is, please state your reason. I need your input to attend to some issues at the temple. Thanks Archy😇📿
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Hey Girls... this used to happen to me quite a bit and then I stopped attending parties 🙄🙈 hahahaha! I agree. It is indeed sinful not to serve one at a party especially after the amount of slaying prep that goes into attending one. Lol 📿 So here goes... 1. How do you feel when you get skipped at the party when food is being served? 2. What did you do when this happened to you? Beckon at the waiter, walk up to the food stations, create a scene ☻ etc... 3. Does it ruin your mood, do you shrug it off or does it leave you with absolute hatred for humanity? Lol. 4. How have you managed to ensure it doesn't rub-off wrong going forward. That is; your do-not-skip-me-ever-again solution? Lez be honest pliss
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Hey Girls... I need some clarification. Please be generous. Help a novice. A.What is the difference between 'Babe' and 'Baby'? B. Which do you prefer being called? C. Which do you use for her? D. Should grown-ups really even tolerate being called 'Baby'? E. What does it do to you when she calls you your preferred pet name F. Why do some call it Bambi or Bambutu or Baybee 😁🙄? G. When a real baby comes along, what happens? Does she become Baby 1 or Baby 2. Or 'main Baby' and 'the real Baby baby' or 'Baybie 'and 'Baybeeeeee'? H. Dasall.
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Please I don't want to see breast or bum bum here Lol
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I'm curious. Are/Can Yoruba lesbians also be referred to as Yoruba demons? Share your experiences if any.
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Which two NLers would you say make a good couple? Let's matchmake and have some fun.
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Addendum: straight couples keep pets too, But it's just that for gays, the ratio is higher.. When two lesbians move in together, first thing they get is either a dog or cat. Esp in the western world..Nigerians are getting there gradually.. Personally, I know a couple of gay people with pets here in Lagos, and now my gay neighbors have joined the bandwagon. So this informed my rant above.
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So imagine that you meet a girl, you fall for her. She falls for you, you two start dating... your relationship progresses to you both meeting each other's closest friends and family... ...then, she starts to evolve. So for example, at the start of your relationship, she was very girly and that was the main point of attraction for you. 18months down the line, she's now tilting towards being more masculine by the day. Hair cuts, dressing etc... (and vice versa if your preference is the reverse of what has been described) What would you do. Will it matter to you?
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Which one will you 1) Take on a date 2) Propose to?
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I read an old thread a few minutes ago and it was a reminder of how much I enjoyed conversations about Nigerian lesbians and whether or not they will go through with it against all odds. Ten or Twenty years from now (picture it if you haven't), could you honestly say that you see yourself ending up with a woman or staying unmarried?
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The rains though.... loving it? As usual, some random thoughts popped into my head and I just had to share 😁☻ At the point you are right now, do you think you can be with someone who is still struggling with the guilt brought by religious beliefs? Do you think you will be able to go through that with someone... why?
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This thought came to mind and I thought the responses would make for a really iinteresting read. Lol. Do you subscribe to pet names? Which are your personal favourites?
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Will you make out with or pass?
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When you meet someone (however y'all meet. Lol. Be it online, whatsapp group, in person etc...). How long would you wait before letting them know that it isn't going to work or that you can't continue with the getting to know process? OR Do you simply go cold turkey/bail and cut all forms of communication? Have you ever experienced this, How did you handle it? Alternatively, how were you let down if you have ever been at the receiving end of such situations.
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Another Val's day is just around the corner. Any plans? What did you do last year. Gist us! 😁
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Do you rememeber your best and or worst kiss experiences? Tell us all about it... 👍💋👎
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Here's our very own online postcard. Lol Drop her a line (or two) here... for the world to see.
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Hey girls, What sort of girl would you say you are? A skirt girl, a pants girl or a dress girl? Which do you tend to default to or feel most comfortable in.
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If you could choose any celebrity of your choice (local/international), who would be your preferred pick for the following categories of relationships: A. Hang-Out B. Smash and Dash C. Date D. Marry
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