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Hey peeps, thought to share my experience of what transpired yesterday with you all. So... on my way to the mall, I bought a Nigerian flag from one of the guys selling it by the roadside. Right beside him were 2 beggers doing what they know how to do best. I rarely give alms largely because I typically don't like to encourage what I am not in support of (debate for another day). To cut the long story short, I bought my flag and paid N200 for it without negotiating it because there was no point in doing so really... As I imagined the mark-up on each couldn't be much. It was at that point the beggers sort of started to plead louder and act more desperate. I handed out N500 and got back N300 change in return. On second thought, I handed it all back to the flag guy and asked him to please split it between the 2 beggers. Sighs... I felt like shit 5seconds afterwards. I felt like rubbish because I could have given the flag guy N100 extra to get himself a drink and made the 2 beggers share the remaining N200. But more importantly, the reason I felt horrible was because I had just conveyed the wrong message to the flag guy. A message that clearly points out to him that it pays to beg than sweat it out in a trade. ...because if begging can give just about the price of a single item in his stock then what is the point of it all. I still feel down but at least, lessons learnt. Do you also have similar experiences when you've emphasized the wrong things unintentionally? Do share.

Yaaaay! Or a not so yaay...🤔 Nevertheless, a happy Independence day to my NL family. I set up this thread not really because I am in a celebratory mood. I set it up to get your opinion on a crucial subject matter as it relates to our country. Question: What do you think is Nigeria's biggest problem? Clearly all is not well or we won't be where we are after 57years post independence. Please share your thoughts.

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Rap mogul 50 Cent apparently don't know when to stop playing. He shared a photo with openly gay Empire creator Lee Daniels and insinuated that Diddy and Lee Daniels are in a gay relationship. Source

Former Super Falcons star, Chichi Igbo aka Chified, literally came out as a Lesbian on her IG page today. She shared the lyrics of a coming-out song she composed on her Instastory. The lyrics said it all. Continue to see the lyrics below... Source

Lesbian oral sex is, by far, one of the mind-blowing sexual intercourses between two women. So we’re a little surprised when some lesbians ask us how we do it. We thought it comes with the package once a lesbian is born. To those asking, here are some tips on how to do lesbian oral sex. Lesbian Oral Sex Tip #1: Foreplay Lesbian oral sex isn’t foreplay as some people think it is. It’s an entire intercourse altogether that can make your partner reach orgasm again and again. So when going down on your woman, do a little foreplay. Nothing helps a successful lesbian oral sex than an already wet, swollen, raging vagina. For foreplay, you can do kissing, or mashing of breasts or even fingering lightly just to let her feel you’ll be going there soon. Lesbian Oral Sex Tip #2: Lick Everything When doing lesbian oral sex, you don’t just focus on the clitoris. Your tongue should be exploring everything, from the inner thighs to the labia to the vulva. We know the clitoris is where she will get her orgasm, but to make it mind-blowingly good, you have to lick the other parts as well before you get to the good stuff. If you remember those lollipops with gum inside them, that’s your strategy with the gum as the orgasm. Everything has to be consumed because all these are part of the experience. Lesbian Oral Sex Tip #3: Tell Her How Beautiful She Is There are a lot of women who are still conservative when it comes to sex. Lesbian oral sex is the last thing these sex-shy women would do. As a woman, you know how awkward it can be with your legs stretched wide open and your partner seeing your hoo-hoo in all its glory (when you, yourself, haven’t even seen it.) Some are embarrassed how vaginas can smell and taste weird. So use affirming words to assure her. Tell her how beautiful she is from that angle, how heavenly you feel being down there. Words have power, and making love isn’t any different. Lesbian Oral Sex Tip #4: Reading Her Responses Some people don’t do lesbian oral sex because they think they don’t know how. But how hard is it when there is instant gratification? You will know you’re doing it right by her responses. Trust us. The first sign that she likes it is when she starts pressing on your lips. This isn’t to help you, this is a natural reaction that she wants this to go on. The second sign is if she starts getting wet, or if she already was, she gets wetter. The wetness of her vagina has more oily feel than saliva, so when it’s easier to slide around, that’s your clue. Third, she starts moaning mixed with a rapid breathing and she’s humping your face already. That’s not even arousal anymore but she’s nearing climax. Lesbian Oral Sex Tip #5: These Are Just Tips Making love is the one thing you can never teach another person, not unless you’re guiding her as you’re doing it. Like snowflakes, there are no identical ways to make a woman orgasm. Everyone is different. So while we can give you all the tips in the world, only by exploring your partner will you know how to properly do it. This is also why we encourage to stick to one partner because there’s so much to explore in one woman. Source

Relationships are the same, that’s true, but there some differences between straight and lesbian relationships. On one hand, there are fun things about being in a lesbian relationship. On the other hand, we’re also sure there are pluses on the other side of the team. It’s not that we’re comparing ourselves, but there are still people out there wondering how these two are different. Let’s enlighten those who don’t know how lesbian relationships are different from the straight ones. Straight And Lesbian Relationships Difference #1: Celebrity Status We’re serious about this. When two women walk into a restaurant and have a nice quiet dinner, the whole place stops to take a look at us. This is especially more intense when said two women walk in hand in hand. Who else do you know can stop activity like that– except celebrities? Okay, seriously now, we do get a lot more attention than straight couples. If in the past these are more on the negative side, this time people are cheering us on for being out and proud. So there. That’s a celebrity status in a way. Straight And Lesbian Relationships Difference #2: Periodic Table When you’re in a straight relationship, this means only one of you has their menstrual periods. This also means at least three days in a month, you can’t have sex unless you want it all bloody. With lesbian relationships, two people have their periods and sometimes they don’t happen at the same time. Ergo, in a lesbian relationship there are at least six days of no sexual contact. It’s a good thing then sometimes we like to just cuddle, especially when we’re feeling hormonal. Straight And Lesbian Relationships Difference #3: One Night Stands When they said that women are from Venus, what they meant was while men have a tendency to have sex on the brain, women are more inclined towards intimacy. More women would prefer to have sex when the objective is long term. So in a straight relationship, there is one partner who would want to have sex with you, period. In a lesbian relationship, on the other hand, there are more chances that both partners would want to get to know each other better before going to bed together. No surprise here that one-night stands in a lesbian relationship have a tendency to turn into relationships. Straight And Lesbian Relationships Difference #4: Birth Control Lesbian relationships have a higher savings on their account. Why? We don’t need a budget for birth control pills and condoms. What for when we have no use for them. At all. Wonderful, isn’t it? Straight And Lesbian Relationship Difference #5: Pregnancies Because of the above, we don’t have to deal with unwanted pregnancies and indulge in abortion. Not unless we woke up one day and same-sex relations can now produce babies. Of course, this is a news feature and not a science fiction literature. There’s no chance of that ever happening. So, truth be told, lesbian relationships are the ultimate pro-life, pro-choice unions. We have a choice not to have children, and we have a choice to adopt instead. What makes us all the same? We’re all people and we all have the right to love whom we love. Source

Ex BBN housemate, Debbie-Rise has revealed that her parents who were against her going into the Big Brother House tried to deliver and cast out demons from her when she returned from the competition. Speaking to Channels TV, Debbie-Rise said she had to convince her dad to let her go into the competition by promising him that at the end of the competition people will congratulate him for being a good dad. She revealed that her parents tried to deliver her and cast out demons when she got back from the competition. Source

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This past summer, Pastor Twanna Brown and Pastor Vanessa Gause consecrated their love before God and 200 guests at the New Vision Full Gospel Baptist Church in East Orange, N.J. Twanna, 46, and Vanessa, 45, are pastors of Rivers of Living Water United Church of Christ, which has locations in Newark and New York. Love At First Sight Their love story started nearly 30 years ago when both were teenagers singing in the same choir in Jersey City. “I was like, ‘Oh wow, what in the world, who’s that, she’s beautiful,’” Vanessa told the New York Times in an article about their union. “I immediately felt this kind of strange, warm feeling wash over me, and though I had not yet spoken a word to her, I could see myself loving this woman forever. My head was just spinning.” But for Twanna, who was two years older, Vanessa was just a friend. Soon Vanessa’s father, a staunch, conservative pastor moved their family to Atlanta. Enduring Love In 2005 the two reconnected when Twanna invited Vanessa to preach at a church in Harlem where she was ministering. It was after dinner and a night of reminiscing when they shared their first kiss. “It was a wonderful first kiss,” Vanessa recalled. “Well worth the wait!” The two married even though Vanessa’s father, who is strongly against their union citing the biblical texts, refused to attend. For both women all that matters is love. And that was reflected in their wedding ceremony. “Love is patient, love is kind. … Love hopes and endures all things,” recited Rev. Dr. Yvette Flunder, the presiding bishop of the Fellowship of Affirming Ministries, from 1 Corinthians 13 during their ceremony. Love Wins Vanessa later wrote on her Facebook page: “What we want Twanna’s father and those who believe as he does to know is that Love Wins! Love was winning before we got married, Love won on our wedding day and Love will always win.” Source

The photo of a Nigerian man chilling on Lekki-Ikoyi link bridge has made its rounds on social media platforms. The unidentified man was seen sitting beside his parked car with a bottle of wine beside him. While no one knows what made him sit out in the middle of the road by himself, the two glasses of wine placed on the stool showed he was either expecting a guest or he posed for a photo shoot. Interestingly, the rare photo of the man would not be the first one to be seen as he has been spotted sitting in the middle of the road in another area. Ladies, will you do this if the road is free? What could make you get spotted in a place like this? Source

Rita who spoke to NoString said that she was arrested after her ex-husband found her in bed with a female friend and reported her to the police. The police then invaded her house, arrested her and jailed her. The incident reportedly happened a few weeks ago at the victim’s house in Lagos. Rita told NoString that she had divorced her husband a few years ago after the death of her father, who had pressured her to get married. “I knew I was a lesbian, but my father pressured me into getting married,” she said. “I did not have the energy to fight him by refusing, so I obliged. But when he died, I felt that there was no need for me to continue with the marriage since I did not love the man I was married to.” Rita said that her ex-husband, Afolabi (not his real name), was shocked and could not understand why she wanted a divorce. He tried to fight it but lost. The marriage was officially dissolved in court. “After the divorce, I moved away from him and got my own apartment. He swore to deal with me, and never took it well. He kept on sending me threatening text messages and kept on stalking me. I reported him to his family, but nothing changed,” Rita said. On the day of the incident, Rita said that one of her relatives, a young boy who lives with her, left the front door unlocked. Then Afolabi barged into the house, walked straight to the bedroom, and found her and her girlfriend undressed, lying on the bed. Rita stated: “He came right into my bedroom and started shouting and taking pictures. We were not doing anything. We were just gisting [chatting]. My girlfriend had just a towel on her. I quickly asked her to get up and leave. He came outside and shouted that he now had evidence to ruin me. The neighbors gathered to watch what was going on. “He left a few minutes later and then came back with the police, who arrested me and took me to the station. At the station, I was abused by the police officers. Then they locked me in a room along with other girls. I slept on the cold tiled floor for four days. It was a weekend and they said that I could not get bail on weekends.” Rita said that she was eventually released after paying police what to her was a huge sum. “I paid N62,000 [about $172] before I was bailed out. I have been asked to come back to the station at a set date to deal with the matter. I am so afraid right now and I cannot take up the case against my ex-husband. because He is a crazy person and well-connected too. He knows where I live and where I work. I do not know what he might do to me. He said that he can even kill me and nothing will happen to him in Nigeria.” Source

Fibroids—smooth muscle tumors of the uterus—are common, affecting as many as 75% of women. They are rarely cancerous, and they cause symptoms in only about 20% of the women who have them. However, if you're one of those with symptoms like heavy menstrual bleeding, bad cramps, pelvic pressure, constipation, or frequent urination, you know how fibroids can disrupt your life. Even if they don't cause symptoms, they may grow into the uterine cavity, potentially complicating a pregnancy and raising the risk of miscarriage. "Managing uterine fibroids depends on several factors, such as a woman's symptoms, whether or not she wants to have children, her age, and her personal preferences," says Dr. Hye-Chun Hur, director of the Division of Minimally Invasive Gynecologic Surgery at Harvard-affiliated Beth Israel Deaconess Medical Center and associate medical editor of Harvard Women's Health Watch. Treating fibroids These days, there's no reason to endure fibroid symptoms. There are several effective therapies that can be tailored to suit you, including the following: Medical treatment. Traditional combined oral contraceptives, which contain both estrogen and a progestin, can provide effective treatment for fibroid-related symptoms. They can help diminish extremely heavy bleeding and can help regulate menstrual periods. Progestin-only therapies can stabilize the uterine lining to reduce bleeding. Both combined oral contraceptives and progestins come in a variety of forms, including pills, patch (Ortho Evra patch), injections (Depo-Provera), implants (Implanon), vaginal ring (NuvaRing), and a progestin-releasing inatrauterine device (Mirena IUD). Although these treatments can be very effective, fibroid symptoms typically return when women stop taking the medications. Uterine artery embolization. A radiologist performs this minor procedure to deposit small particles into the uterine artery, blocking off the blood supply to the fibroids, which shrinks them and reduces bleeding. This procedure is not advised for women who want to have children in the future. Endometrial ablation. This minor, same-day procedure destroys the lining of the uterus and decreases the amount of uterine bleeding. Although pregnancy is less likely after an endometrial ablation, this procedure does not provide contraception, and those who conceive after an ablation are at increased risk of pregnancy complications. Women who choose ablation are advised to take contraceptive measures, and the procedure is usually recommended only for women who have completed childbearing. Myomectomy. This term refers to a surgical procedure to remove fibroids while leaving the uterus in place. This treatment is often used in women who still want to have children. Fibroids may be surgically removed through a variety of techniques; the best approach depends on the fibroid's location. Fibroids in the uterine cavity are best removed vaginally using a hysteroscope. This is an incisionless approach, in which a miniature camera and surgical tools are inserted through the cervix and into the uterine cavity. Fibroids within the uterine walls or protruding outward are better removed abdominally, either through a traditional open abdominal incision or with a minimally invasive approach using a laparoscope (a device that inserts a camera and tools through incisions no larger than a centimeter). Hysterectomy. The removal of the uterus along with the attached fibroids provides a permanent solution for women who aren't interested in having children. When to get treatment Women typically are not complainers. Generally, they are the caretakers of the family and are not used to putting themselves first, so they may delay getting treatment until symptoms are intolerable. "I often see women who are in the late stage of symptoms—either with severe pain or with low blood counts from anemia due to excessive bleeding," Dr. Hur says. "If women seek help when their condition is symptomatic but not so excessive, they may have more treatment options available to them, including the more conservative therapies. The sooner they can get relief, they can get on with their lives." Symptoms alone are not always the deciding factor for treatment. Whether or not you want to have children is also important. If you still plan to have children, fibroids that have grown into the uterine cavity should be removed before you conceive, since they can cause miscarriages and pregnancy complications. If you have fibroids that have increased significantly in number or size, they should also be removed because they may cause complications during pregnancy. Myomectomy is usually the best fibroid treatment for women who plan to conceive. If you don't plan to have children, your symptoms, age, and health play a greater role in determining when to seek treatment. After menopause, fibroids often shrink and symptoms may resolve in women who don't use hormone therapy. If you are in your 40s and your symptoms are tolerable, you may choose to wait and see if they regress after menopause. However, if you have excessive bleeding that has caused anemia (abnormally low numbers of red blood cells) or symptoms that interfere with your day-to-day life, it may be time to think about having your fibroids treated. Speak to your doctor about which treatment is best for you. Source

Peter Okoye of the Nigerian music duo, Psquare, has allegedly split from the group. According to a letter circulating on social media, purportedly sent by Peter Okoye to Festus Keyamo chambers, Peter said he had decided to terminate the agreement between him and Psquare. Recently, the announcement of Peter’s new stage name, Mr P, on social media, had led to rumours that the brothers were not in good terms. But in the letter that has since gone viral, Peter Okoye stated his reasons for terminating the agreement between Paul and older brother/ manager, Jude Okoye, adding that he had acted with caution because the safety of his family was his priority. Mr P also stated that his decision was a painful one as he wished his brothers well in their future endeavours. He said, “What I am about to do has been the most difficult decision to make, I have tried and exhausted all my options to make this work. However, it seems that Paul is not willing to cooperate. “For example, he cancelled our US tour without discussing it with me, he cancelled each show we were booked for. “He has also been accusing and threatening my wife and family of unimaginable lies via social media outlets. I and my wife have been getting different threatening messages… “I cannot continue with Psquare in conditions like this that will jeopardize my well-being. “We all have agreed that as long as PSquare is in existence, we can operate as individuals as long as it doesn’t tamper with the group songs. “I wish Jude and Paul the best in their careers, I love them and their families but my family comes first.” Source

*drum roll* please... Give it up for the last but not the least SET Ffffffffffff! Ladies and Ladies... You know the drill, please do your introductions so we can get this show on the road!☺

Hey Ladies, The time is now . You know the drill...the floor is open for introductions.

Hey girls.... Are you here?

It's time o... Bluelion, come introduce yourself. Suav Suav. Chimo

*drum roll* You guys know the drill. By 9.15PM you two should do your introduction. We are all eyes...👀👁👁 The games begin shortly afterwards. All the best with it girls! Make your girlfriends or fwbs or one night standers proud 😁

Yay! It's almost time ladies.... I bet our contestants are warming up... Please introduce yourselves at the stroke of 8. 🤠

So I had this idea to start a series whereby members who will be paired, battle it out. This is how it will be played: let's say the game selected is "names of states". The duo in the battle ring will have to keep posting till one person either repeats a word or is unable/fails to after 30seconds. Hopefully 30seconds is enough time to ensure people don't have enough time to run to google and back. Lol. No prizes so please no cheating k... makes for more fun. If you think this is something you will like to participate in, please sign up below 🙄😋 I will do the pairing of who would battle it out with whom. Yay. Lol. Also, I'm thinking this should run weekends when people are most likely to have some time to themselves (with minimal interruptions).