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Kc strolled grumpily into 'The Madonna' bar. It was a lesbian bar that her best friend Helen had introduced her to a few years back. Kc had frequented the bar enough to be a regular, and the bar had witnessed the milestones of her life. Like the time she sold her first piece of art, or when she met Katie in the bar, they had even got engaged in this same bar. Then life happened, she had got so involved in Katie that she forgot to live, to breathe. She had even let all her friends go because of Katie. She had forgotten about this bar that meant a lot to her because of Katie, and now Katie was gone. Hopefully her friends and of course 'The Madonna' would forgive her. Kc pushed the door and walked inside unsure. The place looked almost the same, just a little changes here and there. Bob, the owner was still there though, and immediately their eyes met, he bellowed ' free shots for everyone' to the glee of the customers. They hugged as much as they could across the counter. Kc had really missed the sorry son of a gun. "Katie finally releases you just enough to breathe fresh air. Hello old timer!" "Hello Bob. I see you still talk alot of crap. Give me my usual Bob, I want to get wasted" "wanna talk about about it?" The big teddy bear of a man asked. Kc thought about it for a while and decided that it was easier to just throw it out there. She couldn't really keep it a secret for much longer. "Katie left me for a dude, she took my car, emptied my wallet and ran off with her co worker. Last I heard, they were married and living happily. Here I am" Kc finished and took a swig of her drink. Bob seemed to figure out her mood, the drink was hard. "I never liked her. Figured something like this would happen. Sorry sweet.. drink up and look around, lots of new p**sy since you were last here" Kc liked that Bob took her story for what it was without asking any more questions. She had forgotten how wise the bartender was. She ordered another drink and decided to look around. It had been six months since the break up, and kc knew she needed to f***k. Hard, raw f***k and nothing else. She scanned the women sitting in groups in different tables. Talking and laughing over discussions. She noticed a few regulars from the time she had been a regular too. She nodded towards a few and continued her scan. That was when her eyes fell on her. Lord! This was one beautiful creature. She was sitting alone at a corner of the bar. She wore ripped tight jeans, boots and a shirt that was both transparent and did nothing to cover her impressive bust. Kc wanted badly to f***k her. As she watched this creature, kc saw her bite her bottom lip and fuss with her glossy blonde hair. f***k! f***k! f***k! 'I'm going to come on this bar stool' kc shifted uneasily On her chair as the beauty looked towards her. Their eyes met and held for a minute before the girl turned back to her phone. Bob noticed kc and chuckled. "Don't tell me it's silent Jane you want" Kc turned reluctantly away from the girl and faced Bob. "What do you mean? She's gorgeous and what do you mean by silent?" Bob attended to customers and once he was through, he turned back to KC. "Well let's see. She walks in here about a year ago, and has been here every week since then," "And?" Kc retorted impatiently. Bob grabbed a huge ledger book and flipped it open for kc to see. "There is a wager on her you see, these are the names of everyone who had tried to pick her up. To be in this, all you need do is drop fifty bucks, walk up to her and take her home" Kc shook her head in disbelief as Bob laughed hard. "So Bobby, you mean to say for about a year, no one has been able to pick her up? What is her name ?" Bob closed the book and turned serious. "She's never spoken to anyone Kay, nobody knows anything about her. Although I heard she is a model but I can't be sure. We call her silent Jane for a reason" Kc tried to assimilate this piece of information but came out stunned. She wanted this silent stranger, that very much was clear but knowing there was a year old bet going on made it much harder. Kc mulled the matter over, maybe silent Jane or whatever her name was deaf and dumb. She knew sign language and could maybe talk to her that way. Kc decided she was going to have to try. She had nothing to lose except fifty bucks. She had everything to gain too. She imagined how much could be up for grabs by now. "So Bob, how much I'm I going in for now? That book sure looks half full." "Uhm! Lets see! About fifty thousand." Wtf! Fifty thousand? Kc was definitely broke as f***k. Katie had left her penniless. The only thing the bitch hadn't taken was the house. She would have if she had found a way to move a house. Kc could see things getting better with fifty thousand bucks. She was still contemplating this when sleazy ol Pat came around. She eyed kc with distaste as she passed fifty bucks to Bob. Bob signed in her name to the book and nodded. She sauntered towards the beauty with the confidence of a lion. Kc turned to watch. This was going to be interesting. She saw Pat take a seat and startstart talking. She gesticulated wildly and laughed alone at the jokes she made, all the while the beauty looked through her like she wasn't even there. Silent Jane even seemed to yawn a few times. Kc wondered if she could hear anything Pat was saying. After some minutes, it seemed like Pat was loosing her cool. Kc saw her slam her fist on the table, probably screaming obscenities as she stormed off the table and out the door of the bar. According to Bob, this had been another one of her numerous attempts gone to waste. I felt for her but this further made me interested in this strange beauty.

So i used to say if i broke up with my ex, i would remain chaste till DFW came but boy could i? i did it for some few months and once an opportunity presented itself, my chastity belt came flying off.. i was inspired again recently when i met a stud who stood her ground and is keeping her chastity real. So my questions. 1) how long can you stay without sex? 2) have you ever tried to stay away from sex? How long did it last? 3) have u ever had a no sex relationship (this one is just funny abeg) 4) if you have been chaste for a while now,biko share some tips. Thanks.

Lool. It's a Sunday.... what better way to end the day. Would you subscribe if BeHoly was your thing? There're quite a number of these sites out there. Just the other day, I was wondering if Naija had its own.... wouldn't be such a bad idea to have some local content. Lol.

TWISTED: It was a pretty decent evening. We're at a bar enjoying good music and drinks. I tried to avoid her gaze as I kept asking myself what I was doing here with her. I'd broken up with her earlier that day. I told her it was for the best; she was getting married and moving to Port Harcourt. I could feel her gaze on me. I busied myself with the drops of water from my bottle of drink. I began to draw silly patterns on the table. "Would you like another bottle?" she asked. I looked at my bottle, I'd barely touched it. I shook my head and said no. She finished up her drink and signaled for a waiter. She ordered for more drinks for both of us. I started to protest but it fell on deaf ears. She shot me a look that made me squirm in my seat. My phone rang, it was a girl I had planned to meet that day. She grabbed my phone before I could. She looked at the caller ID. I couldn't tell what was going on in her head. "So who is this one calling?" "she's just a friend. I was supposed to see her today." "Are you f***king her?" I was. But there was no way I was going to tell her that. Not right now at least. "I'm talking to you. Look at me." I obeyed. I looked at her. She was either hurt or annoyed or both and I couldn't bear to look at her face. My gaze rested on her breasts; they were one of my favorite things about her. Today they looked bigger, they looked like they were about to break free from her t-shirt. I found myself wondering if she was wearing a bra. "I guess you keeping quiet means you are f***king her. Right?" I'm not a snitch. Let her do her worst. She signaled for the waiter and asked for our bill. She paid. "Let's go." she got up and I followed. We walked to her car and got in. The drive was painfully quiet. I wanted to turn the radio on, anything to break the silence. I decided to enjoy the scenery... it was too dark to see much. I heard her sigh. She turned the music on. Usher's "how do I say" began to play. I rolled my eyes. Perfect! I sat up and turned to her when I realized that she had passed my route home. She gave me a look that said "don't even say a word" and returned her focus to the road. I looked down at her laps. She was putting on a cute brown shorts. I had a nice view of her lovely thighs. She has this habit of running her hand through her hair when she's pissed. It was cute. She leaned into her seat as she raised her left leg and rested it on the door. That was when I saw it. She was soaking wet. I couldn't look away. Like moth to flame I was drawn to the wetness. My hands itched to feel it. I looked at her breasts and saw her nipples looking perky. I wondered how she'd react if I touched them. I didn't wait for my brain to provide an answer when I reached out and touched her wet crotch. She gasped lightly. She didn't look away from the road. I waited for her to react, but the gasp was all I got. I began to caress her p**sy through her shorts. I undid the button and unzipped her shorts, then I slid my hand inside. I felt my head spin slightly at how wet and warm her p**sy felt. Her grip tightened on the steering wheel. I slid a finger in her p**sy and then another. She gasped and moaned a little. She hit the accelerator and the car sped. I stopped stroking her p**sy and wanted to take out my hand. She quickly held my hand with her thigh. She began to move her hips urging me to continue. I picked up where I stopped and continued to slowly stroke her p**sy. I could tell she loved my fingers inside her. As she drove towards her estate, I quickened my pace, she began to shudder. I pulled my hand out and she looked at me, hurt. I smiled as I put my hand in my mouth and licked off the juices on my fingers. The car came to a halt as we had reached our destination. She turned off the engine and turned to me. She pulled me close and ground her lips against mine. She kissed me like her life depended on it. She bit my lips and broke the kiss...

What would you do if your partner is unable to satisfy you sexually? What options can couples explore who are faced with this.

Hey girls, Happy May 29th. Lol. aka Inauguration day. So... would you ask your girl to get tested? If yes, at what point in your relationship would this be? If your asked you to go get tested, how would you feel about it. Is it something you appreciate or would you rather continue on in good faith?

Hey Girls, Successful relationships are a function of a number of things including sex/sexual compatibility etc... In the case of couples who have almost opposite sex drives, that is, the one doesn't love sex all that much while the other can't get enough of it. What would you recommend they do?

What turns you on more as a lesbian? Three things are it for me: 1. Back hugs. I can't describe that feeling of being loved and wanted. It's very comforting. 2. Boobs with very dark areola. Let's just say I like my toast brown 😏 3. Watching my spouse masturbate. 4. Nude pictures (from someone I'm attracted to and I have to ask otherwise it's a trashable nuisance.

Why the use of sex machines in lesbian relationships? You say you are a lesbian? So why need a rubber penis? And you have biphobia? Who is fooling who?

Let's play - Do you prefer using a dildo or bullet or both? Why would you pick one over the other?

Do you like being the dominant one or the submissive one in the bedroom?

What are your thoughts on kissing or having sex on the first date. Do you have dating rules or do you go where the tides take you? How long into a relationship would you kiss her or make love to her?

So this one is for someone who wants me to start another story as fast as I can. You know who you are!! WARNING!!!! Do not read this story if you are sensitive to sexual scenes as this story is graphic and very very sexual. I repeat don't even open it, it would ruin you. If you kept reading then you should know that this story isn't about anyone living or dead, it is entirely a product of my over active sexual imaginations. (Sue me) **As usual let's try not to comment so as not to ruin the flow of the story, but believe me, this one would be very short, hard and fast. *DO NOT COMMENT* PS: no one should blame me for writing sex, it's how I get off Biko.... Thank you.

When is the best time of the day for sex?

Would you ever pay for sex?

I know a lot of people argue strongly for both sides. Question is what is your preference and what will not even consider. - Full on bush - Mild bush - Sparse Or Bare. My favourite is bare because i just dont like hair. I can live with sparse and depending on how mild we are talking sure. Full on bush, i find incredibly daunting and issa no for me.

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So I saw the preview to the movie on NL first but then I forgot about it. I finally got my hands on it this weekend and phew, very hot things in this movie. The movie is a typical queer girl meets 'straight girl' in a relationship but still pursues her. Chaos ensues and bla-bla-bla. Just imagine Jenny and Marina in season 1 of Lword. SOME SMALL SPOILERS: I didn’t appreciate when Dallas didn’t stand up to the sexist men when they were catcalling, and the way she treated Joselyn was annoying. Almost like she was trying to hard to be Shane. But following that their initial conversation at the bar was nice and their first kiss was just the right amount of want, teasing, and asking the reluctant partner to take control. I can totally see how that will happen in real life and the ensuing freaking out with her friend. The sexuality, curiosity and discovery was handled with a lot of honesty. The scene in the bathroom where Jasmine masturbated to her working was just that: indulging in a fantasy you can't have, yet you want so desperately. That is something I can even see myself doing. Thumbs up to the sound engineer. Their scene behind the dumpster was HOT. The foreplay on the car was sizzling. When Dallas asked Jasmine about the strap-on, and all she got was a leg raised, I almost came in my pants. That is enthusiastic consent handled with class. Then leading her hands to control how deep she wanted it to go, just phew! The face sitting was electric. The tribbing was realistic. Basically, the sex was tasteful not not as performative as Blue Is The Warmest Color. Their post-sex talks about their wants, needs, desires were unraveled like poetry. Layer by layer, exposed one after the other. They were reckless, electric, playful, wild, hot. And did they burn hot. One of the things I love about the movie is the fact that a strap-on was visible in many scenes. I think too many people shy away from displaying or discussing the simple fact that many queer women (lesbians, bisexuals, GNCs, pansexuals) enjoy and participate in penetrative sex. The butches, the femmes, the masculine-off-center, many people enjoy toys and I am glad it was so effortlessly introduced. MAJOR SPOILERS: DO NOT PROCEED IF YOU HAVEN'T SEEN THE MOVIE When the fiancee caught them and she said "she is a woman," that broke my heart. Too many times people say that like it doesn’t make a difference. Like women can't be in relationships and be in love, and f***k each other. Like it is half a relationship. It really hurt coming from another queer. In fact, he was the one who countered her. All in all, I am conflicted in how the movie ended. I am glad that they got a happy ending, but I am unhappy that two people who cheated got away with it. Urgh! For those of you who have seen it, what do you think?

What are your views on hooking up with bi-curious ladies or first timers? I know a lot of people will rather not and I am one of those. I have been scarred for life!!!

I have heard and read that sometimes, emotions get so intense that people cry during love making or afterwards. Have you ever cried during sex (tears of joy o) Lol. Or do you think you have potential to cry. 😁

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Lesbians who like penetration may want to try a dildo for strap-on sex. Here are some tips for great sex with a dildo or strap-on: 1. Find the right dildo. Here are some tips for buying the right dildo for your needs. 2. Get used to your new toy. Put on your harness and dildo and get used to how it feels before jumping right into bed with your partner. Have her help you into the harness. The tighter it is, the more control you will have and the more sensation you will feel. 3. Don't forget foreplay. Kiss her. Touch her. Get her excited and turned on before you penetrate. 4. Put a condom on your dildo and use plenty of lube, even if she seems lubricated. Slippery and wet is much more enjoyable. 5. Go slow and easy the first time. Angle your dildo upwards, not back toward her spine. Let your partner guide you in how fast, slow, deep, rough or easy you go. 6. Try different positions. Old fashioned missionary position allows for face to face intimacy. Doggy-style allows you to penetrate further inside her. 7. Use your hands. Remember the foreplay? Keep at it, caressing her where she likes it most. 8. Mix it up. Experiment with oral sex. Watching their lover go down on a dildo is a big turn on for many dykes. If you want to experiment with anal penetration, take it slow and easy and use lots of lube. Remember to change condoms any time you change orifices. 9. Communication is key. As with any sex, talking about what you like, don't like, what you want, what feels good is very important. Listen and pay attention to her body language. Ask her if it feels good. Does she want it deeper, faster, and slower? 10. Remember if you share any sex toy, to change the condom! Source

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