Administrators sweetlady Posted June 18, 2011 Administrators Share Posted June 18, 2011 Safer sex for lesbians and bisexual women is a way to protect yourself from contracting or transmitting sexually transmitted diseases including HIV and AIDS. But what exactly is safer sex? And how can you be sure you’re protected? First the disclaimer. If you’re sexually active, there is no 100 percent protection against contracting a sexually transmitted infection. But there are some things you can do to make your play safer. The best way to protect yourself from contracting a sexually transmitted disease is to keep your partner’s body fluids out of your body. These fluids include vaginal fluids, blood, menstrual blood, breast milk, and semen. Here are some low-risk activities: Masturbation (only touching yourself) Cybersex Nipple and breast stimulation when not lactating Erotic massage Body rubbing Kissing Using a sex toy with a condom (be sure to use a new condom if sharing sex toys) Cunnilingus (oral sex) with a barrier, such as a glove, dental dam or plastic wrap Vaginal or anal contact with a latex glove The following activities are Risky: Unprotected cunnilingus, especially when a woman is bleeding Unprotected rimming Sharing sex toys without a condom Sharing needles Unprotected fellatio Unprotected penis/vaginal intercourse Unprotected penis/anal intercourse Here are some additional tips to keep yourself safe: Communication is the key to satisfying sex. If you don’t think you can ask for what you want, you may not be ready to have sex with that partner. Drugs and alcohol can impair your judgment. Have sex when you’re sober. For oral sex use a dental dam, glove or plastic wrap. Always use a condom with dildos, vibrators and butt plugs. Never share sex toys without cleaning them or changing the condom first. Do not share needles for drugs, piercing or anything else. Dispose of gloves, condoms and dental dams properly. Turn gloves and condoms inside out as you pull them off and drop in the trash. Only use dental dams, condoms and other barriers once. Clean your sex toys with antibacterial soap after each use. Use only water-based lubricants. Oil-based lube can break down latex and render it ineffective. Use gloves for any contact with the vagina or anus of your partner. Be sure to use a fresh glove after touching her anus. Never touch your partner’s anus and then touch her vagina, whether with your hand, sex toy or tongue. Wash your hands with an antibacterial soap and put a fresh condom on the sex toys. If your partner has an infection, yeast, bacterial or urinary tract, see a doctor. What if we’re monogamous? For two people who have sex exclusively with each other, here are some recommended guidelines: Use latex barriers every time you have sex for six months. After six months, both of you should be tested for STDs, such as herpes, HIV and hepatitis C. If you both test negative, and there are no other bacterial infections, such as Chlamydia, you and your partner may decide to have barrier-free sex. Remember this presumes that you trust your partner is truly monogamous. 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kelegod Posted June 28, 2011 Share Posted June 28, 2011 can i hve ur number pls wht can i do i want to make love to myself their? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lesluv Posted June 29, 2011 Share Posted June 29, 2011 kelechi, looks like u are a womanizer , u won f***k all p**sy way dey for this forum. na waooooo! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xenastar Posted April 8, 2012 Share Posted April 8, 2012 Using a sex toy with a condom (be sure to use a new condom if sharing sex toys) Cunnilingus (oral sex) with a barrier, such as a glove, dental dam or plastic wrap Vaginal or anal contact with a latex glove This doesn't seem to make any sense to me :blink: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shewa Posted July 27, 2012 Share Posted July 27, 2012 thanks 4 the lecture,wish to hear more Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tender Posted September 17, 2017 Share Posted September 17, 2017 This is quiet enlightening tho Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hephzy Posted October 7, 2017 Share Posted October 7, 2017 Hhmmmmmm..... Lord haff Mercy.... Sex iyaf tired me oo...all this work for just p**sy???....konji is bitch I swear!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrators FlyJ Posted October 7, 2017 Administrators Share Posted October 7, 2017 On 6/29/2011 at 7:11 AM, lesluv said: kelechi, looks like u are a womanizer , u won f***k all p**sy way dey for this forum. na waooooo! This cracked me up . LWTMB 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted October 7, 2017 Moderators Share Posted October 7, 2017 8 minutes ago, Hephzy said: Hhmmmmmm..... Lord haff Mercy.... Sex iyaf tired me oo...all this work for just p**sy???....konji is bitch I swear!! Hahahahahaha. Hephzy Hephzy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hephzy Posted October 7, 2017 Share Posted October 7, 2017 Just now, kimi said: Hahahahahaha. Hephzy Hephzy Abi na....all this wahala for on top p**sy....biko ayam tired ooo Where can one get a healthy, neat, faithful partner...don't like all this stress biko....just strap n move on Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted October 7, 2017 Moderators Share Posted October 7, 2017 *** minutes ago, Hephzy said: Abi na....all this wahala for on top p**sy....biko ayam tired ooo Where can one get a healthy, neat, faithful partner...don't like all this stress biko....just strap n move on Haa. It may be tough. She may be healthy and dirty or faithful and sick. Make your choose or forever lie with 'gada' the smelling bumbum Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hephzy Posted October 7, 2017 Share Posted October 7, 2017 1 minute ago, kimi said: Haa. It may be tough. She may be healthy and dirty or faithful and sick. Make your choose or forever lie with 'gada' the smelling bumbum Sugar...if I don't f**k I won't die na...shey??....this disease this days aren't nice n babes ain't loyal... So I can continue holding up...maybe get married n turn straight... I canno come n die because of p**sy na Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted October 7, 2017 Moderators Share Posted October 7, 2017 *** minutes ago, Hephzy said: this disease this days aren't nice n babes ain't loyal... 👍for it is written, woman shall not live by p**sy alone... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrators FlyJ Posted October 8, 2017 Administrators Share Posted October 8, 2017 22 minutes ago, Hephzy said: Sugar...if I don't f**k I won't die na...shey??....this disease this days aren't nice n babes ain't loyal... So I can continue holding up...maybe get married n turn straight... I canno come n die because of p**sy na Is it safer with men though? Lol. Everything is a risk including life. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hephzy Posted October 8, 2017 Share Posted October 8, 2017 Just now, FlyJ said: Is it safer with men though? Lol. Everything is a risk including life. Sheeeeyyy??..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mimy Posted October 8, 2017 Share Posted October 8, 2017 7 hours ago, kimi said: Where can one get a healthy, neat, faithful partner We plenty o. Stop getting paranoid. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted October 8, 2017 Moderators Share Posted October 8, 2017 2 minutes ago, Gimbiyya said: We plenty o. Stop getting paranoid. I'm being framed. Those are not my words... 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mimy Posted October 8, 2017 Share Posted October 8, 2017 Hahah Pele o I was referring to @Hephzy Hephzy 7 hours ago, kimi said: Haa. It may be tough. She may be healthy and dirty or faithful and sick. Make your choose or forever lie with 'gada' the smelling bumbum I belive this 👆 words are yours. It is only tough when una choose to look at the wrong places. Locate us for we are in abundance and bountiful. Errm...leave 'gada' alone Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teewhy Posted October 8, 2017 Share Posted October 8, 2017 7 hours ago, kimi said: 👍for it is written, woman shall not live by p**sy alone... But by the two lovelies on her chest. #OkayBye. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hephzy Posted October 8, 2017 Share Posted October 8, 2017 6 hours ago, Gimbiyya said: Hahah Pele o I was referring to @Hephzy Hephzy I belive this 👆 words are yours. It is only tough when una choose to look at the wrong places. Locate us for we are in abundance and bountiful. Errm...leave 'gada' alone You are plenty where?? where can I find u na....in short am coming to look for now sef....even if u stay in heaven I don't mind...I will book my visa down...lolzzzz But seriously...babe am so scared.... Tank God ain't got any disease so far sha...God help me...I stick to one babe at a time....considering the fact DAT I like f***king...aiye mi oooo Na to stay celibate for a while ni yen....abi wat do u think?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hephzy Posted October 8, 2017 Share Posted October 8, 2017 5 hours ago, Teewhy said: But by the two lovelies on her chest. #OkayBye. Lolzzzz.... Am telling boobs can make somebori commit suicide.... I can be staying on my own jejely ooo...one fair slim babe with firm orange looking boobs will just pass ur front n wink at u....and ask 'Do u wat to have a feel of wat u love so much?'......ah! Jesu! This is wahala something o...... Pls I am travelling abroad....a country where babes don't exist only men..maybe Saudi Arabia...will u come with me??...so we nobody can give somebori herpes biko Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted October 8, 2017 Moderators Share Posted October 8, 2017 Hahahahaha. Shoot me now biko!😂 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teewhy Posted October 8, 2017 Share Posted October 8, 2017 This girl, coman be going. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted October 8, 2017 Moderators Share Posted October 8, 2017 On 28/06/2011 at 0:34 PM, kelegod said: can i hve ur number pls wht can i do i want to make love to myself their? Hahahahaha. This one is a very sharp somebody o.. lol ☻ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suavity Posted October 9, 2017 Share Posted October 9, 2017 Chai all this kind of talk eh Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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