dequeen Posted October 21, 2014 Share Posted October 21, 2014 The topic says it all. What do you do? how do you cope? I have some friends going through this now, one is confused cos the electronics are hers n another thinks of the matress, another says she furnished d entire house although the rent is not on her, another shared the rent and can't afford to pay another, yet another feels heartless about sending the other packing. what's your take on this? what has been your experience? what was your experience like? Do you have friends that have done it? how did you view them? if given the chance would you want to live-in with your partner? and if you've done it before, would you want to do it again? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators moresko Posted October 22, 2014 Moderators Share Posted October 22, 2014 ☝☝This illustrates why I would never with live with anyone until we are legally bond together. In Nigeria, since I can't get married; my name (and her name) has to be on house documents as joint owners. No one will kick me out of a house I legally own, if we break up; we sell the house or she's buys me out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dreamgal Posted October 22, 2014 Share Posted October 22, 2014 I have been staying with my gf for years. if you love each other,then who buys this and that won't be a problem. you will play ur role and she will play hers. how can u marry someone you can't stay with? yes issues will come but they won't last so long as you share the same bed and you guys understand and respect each others space. if she is independent, and you guys are in a monogamous relationship(u don't cheat) then its just like staying with your sibling. Its actually fun and brings you closer Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dreamgal Posted October 22, 2014 Share Posted October 22, 2014 I have been staying with my gf for years. if you love each other,then who buys this and that won't be a problem. you will play ur role and she will play hers. how can u marry someone you can't stay with? yes issues will come but they won't last so long as you share the same bed and you guys understand and respect each others space. if she is independent, and you guys are in a monogamous relationship(u don't cheat) then its just like staying with your sibling. Its actually fun and brings you closer Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
simpl384 Posted October 22, 2014 Share Posted October 22, 2014 My girlfriend and I love each other so much and we planning to live together during our service year so when that happens I'll come back to share the experience...I look forward to it biko... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skills Posted October 22, 2014 Share Posted October 22, 2014 Hmmmmmmmmm.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrators FlyJ Posted October 23, 2014 Administrators Share Posted October 23, 2014 I have been staying with my gf for years. if you love each other,then who buys this and that won't be a problem. you will play ur role and she will play hers. how can u marry someone you can't stay with? yes issues will come but they won't last so long as you share the same bed and you guys understand and respect each others space. if she is independent, and you guys are in a monogamous relationship(u don't cheat) then its just like staying with your sibling. Its actually fun and brings you closer Couldn't have said it any better. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daftpunk Posted December 7, 2014 Share Posted December 7, 2014 My girlfriend and I love each other so much and we planning to live together during our service year so when that happens I'll come back to share the experience...I look forward to it biko... lol yes we will live together and ill be a very good girlfriend to you, i will cook nice meals for you :D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
relangel Posted December 7, 2014 Share Posted December 7, 2014 The truth don dey come out those that act single are not o o o Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daftpunk Posted December 7, 2014 Share Posted December 7, 2014 The truth don dey come out those that act single are not o o o some people were single when they said they were single and started dating afterwards so they weren't actually lying. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dii Posted January 10, 2015 Share Posted January 10, 2015 Naahhh, I love my personal space so much to want to have a live in lover. Highest you can do is come spend a few night, maybe a month and go. As long as I see an end in sight we are good. But when I'm stuck with you till God knows when? Nahhh I cant deal. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dequeen Posted January 10, 2015 Author Share Posted January 10, 2015 Hahahaha!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Missmart Posted January 10, 2015 Share Posted January 10, 2015 lol yes we will live together and ill be a very good girlfriend to you, i will cook nice meals for you :D/> Are u her girlfriend?... Hahahaha.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
relangel Posted January 10, 2015 Share Posted January 10, 2015 Shalo is clear they are congratulations guys at least u guys have proven you can still find love here. By Gods grace if I find that my UN job I will give make so u r posted to the same village for ur youth service. And I will u, ur dream apartment Lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tasha Posted January 10, 2015 Share Posted January 10, 2015 Naahhh, I love my personal space so much to want to have a live in lover. Highest you can do is come spend a few night, maybe a month and go. As long as I see an end in sight we are good. But when I'm stuck with you till God knows when? Nahhh I cant deal. On point. :D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daftpunk Posted January 11, 2015 Share Posted January 11, 2015 Until recently i thought I was so chilled and could live with anyone. But really everyone needs their space now and then, I'll like my gf to live close by :P but not necessarily with me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rencie Posted January 12, 2015 Share Posted January 12, 2015 I love my space and privacy too much to want to have a live-in lover. E no even fit happen,at most 2wks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Helena Posted February 19, 2015 Share Posted February 19, 2015 Never been in a relationship with a live in love...mostly visits... Wouldn't mind though.. Still I think it depends on who your with. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dequeen Posted February 19, 2015 Author Share Posted February 19, 2015 Welcome @Helena, its been awhile. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrators FlyJ Posted February 20, 2015 Administrators Share Posted February 20, 2015 Never been in a relationship with a live in love...mostly visits... Wouldn't mind though.. Still I think it depends on who your with. Yes, it definitely depends on who you are in a relationship with. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dequeen Posted February 21, 2015 Author Share Posted February 21, 2015 I doubt. Space is a personality thing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Helena Posted February 22, 2015 Share Posted February 22, 2015 Welcome @Helena, its been awhile. Thanks Dequeen..been busy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Helena Posted February 22, 2015 Share Posted February 22, 2015 Yes, it definitely depends on who you are in a relationship with. :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted April 25, 2019 Share Posted April 25, 2019 I would only have this living situation with someone I'm engaged to. And I have yet to propose to anyone or accept a proposal. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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