Administrators FlyJ Posted January 27, 2015 Administrators Share Posted January 27, 2015 Lesbians who like penetration may want to try a dildo for strap-on sex. Here are some tips for great sex with a dildo or strap-on. Difficulty: Average Time Required: An evening Here's How: Find the right dildo. Get used to your new toy. Put on your harness and dildo and get used to how it feels before jumping right into bed with your partner. Have her help you into the harness. The tighter it is, the more control you will have and the more sensation you will feel. Don't forget foreplay. Kiss her. Touch her. Get her excited and turned on before you penetrate. Put a condom on your dildo and use plenty of lube, even if she seems lubricated. Slippery and wet is much more enjoyable. Go slow and easy the first time. Angle your dildo upwards, not back toward her spine. Let your partner guide you in how fast, slow, deep, rough or easy you go. Try different positions. Old fashioned missionary position allows for face to face intimacy. Doggy-style allows you to penetrate further inside her. Use your hands. Remember the foreplay? Keep at it, caressing her where she likes it most. Mix it up. Experiment with oral sex. Watching their lover go down on a dildo is a big turn on for many dykes. If you want to experiment with anal penetration, take it slow and easy and use lots of lube. Remember to change condoms any time you change orifices. Communication is key. As with any sex, talking about what you like, don't like, what you want, what feels good is very important. Listen and pay attention to her body language. Ask her if it feels good. Does she want it deeper, faster, slower? Remember if you share any sex toy, to change the condom! Lets hear the gist o... Source Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Abystacy Posted January 27, 2015 Share Posted January 27, 2015 Lol....you couldn't have said it better..that's a nice way to have a pleasurable sex.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skills Posted January 27, 2015 Share Posted January 27, 2015 hehehehehehe..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Iris Posted January 27, 2015 Share Posted January 27, 2015 'Time Required- Evening'. LOL. What about a quickie before work? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dreamgal Posted January 27, 2015 Share Posted January 27, 2015 can't wait to have this experience Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
relangel Posted January 27, 2015 Share Posted January 27, 2015 Hmmmmmmmmm Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dequeen Posted January 27, 2015 Share Posted January 27, 2015 hmmm indeed Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators moresko Posted January 27, 2015 Moderators Share Posted January 27, 2015 Takes years to perfect. Practice doesn't necessarily make perfect except you're doing it with one person, and getting to know what works for her. "Practicing" with everyone you meet makes you slutty and that's nasty. It is not competition or race. Wearing a strap on doesn't make you a man, don't be a d**ck. Make her cum (many times) first before using the dildo, she'll be wetter. Let her control the phase, and enjoy watching her do it. If a position doesn't work at first, do something else for now, and maybe try it again. There are many ways to do "missionary". Don't "porn up" the sex. Don't judge her (or yourself), if you/her enjoys it too much; don't worry you/her are still gay. Don't worry, you'll get wet watching, you'll also cum. Sometimes someone get tied up. Sometimes someone gets spanked. Kiss a lot, use your tongue a lot. Don't force her to do something she's doesn't want to do. Talk about boundaries, and if you're interested in trying something new, talk to her first. Remember "different strokes for different folks". Laugh. Stay hydrated. Enjoy yourself, and enjoy being with her. That's all... For now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrators FlyJ Posted January 27, 2015 Author Administrators Share Posted January 27, 2015 Jesu!Waris all dis. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators moresko Posted January 27, 2015 Moderators Share Posted January 27, 2015 Jesu!Waris all dis. Really FlyJ? I believe the use of the name "Jesu" is rather inappropriate considering the topic being discussed. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suavity Posted January 28, 2015 Share Posted January 28, 2015 Lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
simpl384 Posted January 28, 2015 Share Posted January 28, 2015 hmmm..I miss my gf Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skills Posted January 28, 2015 Share Posted January 28, 2015 hmmm..I miss my gf no wonder we see u for here...go jor! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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