Moderators kimi Posted September 2, 2017 Moderators Share Posted September 2, 2017 How much time after a break-up would you generally allow before going into a new relationship? What is it a function of. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1 Moderators kimi Posted September 2, 2017 Author Moderators Share Posted September 2, 2017 4 - 12 months thereabouts. The older I get, the longer time I require to 'recover' from a break so to speak. Lol. I am very passionate and quite intense, what I find is that because I immerse the whole of myself into a relationship, a break tends to leave me emotionally exhausted. Lol. The exhaustion is what I take time to recover from these days... An emotionally exhausted me is practically useless to anyone. I could try but I wouldn't have anything left to love you with. Lol. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
0 Jenny1403 Posted September 2, 2017 Share Posted September 2, 2017 Lol...more like "emotional numbness"...totally useless to anyone. I feel yuh sistah Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
0 mifled Posted September 2, 2017 Share Posted September 2, 2017 If its someone I fall face flat in love with. I don't think I ever recover....I could pretend to with the help of alcohol and many sidetractions but recovery is never in full. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
0 contessa Posted September 3, 2017 Share Posted September 3, 2017 Took me almost 1½ years to get over my first and that was not even completely.... The more I am into the Person, the more I sink myself, so getting out is always emotionally draining and time consuming .... Unfortunately for me, I can only date people I actually and genuinely feel something strong for... I Dont have the capacity to date someone outside love/very very strong like... Give or take 2 years b4 I try again. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
0 milaz Posted September 3, 2017 Share Posted September 3, 2017 I think it depends. I used o be very attached to individuals I love. But I learnt to live with my head as well as my heart. Recovery becomes a process too, both head and heart work through healing. I don't think I have ever thought of the time frame. The person involved is a strong determinant though. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
0 dreamgal Posted September 5, 2017 Share Posted September 5, 2017 . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
0 scarlet Posted September 5, 2017 Share Posted September 5, 2017 The poster above me sha. Lol I was only here to read comments! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
0 Farida Posted September 10, 2017 Share Posted September 10, 2017 The best way to get over someone is to get underneath someone they said lol. Well i've always been too strong for my own good. I've never allowed myself be fully immersed in love. I don't let my happiness be dependent on someone that way if yeye start dey smell i can quickly rejuvenate without them. Anyway, there's no time frame for me tbh. Depends on when i find someone again and no the person won't be a rebound. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
0 Hawken Posted September 14, 2017 Share Posted September 14, 2017 On 09/10/2017 at ***:20 AM, Farida said: The best way to get over someone is to get underneath someone they said lol. Well i've always been too strong for my own good. I've never allowed myself be fully immersed in love. I don't let my happiness be dependent on someone that way if yeye start dey smell i can quickly rejuvenate without them. Anyway, there's no time frame for me tbh. Depends on when i find someone again and no the person won't be a rebound. You are harsh o. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
0 Dipbluesae Posted January 15, 2018 Share Posted January 15, 2018 Until I feel better and depending of how much inlove I was, takes quite. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
0 Michelle Posted December 24, 2018 Share Posted December 24, 2018 A couple of months or more. Depends on how strongly I felt about her and what went wrong. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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How much time after a break-up would you generally allow before going into a new relationship?
What is it a function of.
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