Moderators kimi Posted November 6, 2017 Moderators Share Posted November 6, 2017 Hey girls, When angry, and I mean the furious type of anger.Lol. Do you serve it while it is still hot or do you allow it cool a bit? Does it make a difference in your responses if you allow it sit a while instead of giving one at that instance. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oluchi Posted November 6, 2017 Share Posted November 6, 2017 @kimi While it is still hot,,, once it is cool I wont be able to say my mind. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted November 6, 2017 Author Moderators Share Posted November 6, 2017 27 minutes ago, oluchi said: @kimi While it is still hot,,, once it is cool I wont be able to say my mind. Awwwh... we are so alike there! As in. I say it as it is at that instant (I try to do so with tact though -most of the time.lol) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oluchi Posted November 6, 2017 Share Posted November 6, 2017 1 hour ago, kimi said: Awwwh... we are so alike there! As in. I say it as it is at that instant (always with tact though) sure, am relieved afterwards 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VINA Posted November 6, 2017 Share Posted November 6, 2017 It's always cool to cool down. You revise what you were going to say, sieve it and improve on it. Then the cool voice you will use to pass it along can just save your relationship. Hot temper no dey boil water o. For me I calm down. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted November 6, 2017 Author Moderators Share Posted November 6, 2017 Come to think of it, it's a bit of both for me... if I think the person could use some slack, then I delay the baptism of fire and or call them out in a more tender way. Lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluelion Posted November 6, 2017 Share Posted November 6, 2017 When angry I mostly (if not always) allow it cool and it makes a difference in my response 'cause I tend to shout or say very mean and unreasonable things when I reply or react out of anger. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gbemie Posted November 7, 2017 Share Posted November 7, 2017 I don't talk @all when am angry bcos I can say terrible things, so I let it cool down totally and talk abt it so much later Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted November 7, 2017 Share Posted November 7, 2017 I don't say anything when I am angry. I tend to say words I can't take back, so I let my anger simmer, not entirely cool, cos if I am no longer angry, then I can as well forget the issue. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted May 31, 2020 Share Posted May 31, 2020 On 11/7/2017 at 1:39 AM, Txunamy said: I don't say anything when I am angry. I tend to say words I can't take back, so I let my anger simmer, not entirely cool, cos if I am no longer angry, then I can as well forget the issue. You sound cute when you swear 😀 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted May 31, 2020 Share Posted May 31, 2020 1 hour ago, Michelle said: You sound cute when you swear 😀 I rarely swear😁 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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