Administrators FlyJ Posted November 17, 2017 Administrators Share Posted November 17, 2017 Versatile, simple, and almost everyone has one: bullet vibrators are essentially the little black dress of the sex toy world. I understand the temptation to just use them as you think you should: pressed right up against your clit until you orgasm, before popping out to the kitchen to make yourself a coffee, but there’s the potential to do so much more. Here are some tips on how to have sex using a bullet vibrator, that’'ll hopefully show you that this unassuming sex toy can be the gateway to a new world of possibilities. Test out the different areas of your clit Sure, it’s small on the surface, but you’d be surprised just how much variation there is in your clit, and in what happens where. If you’re used to manual masturbation, you might not be familiar with the level of precision you can achieve with a good bullet vibrator. A great bullet vibrator allows you to pinpoint exactly where you want the vibrations to be. Some people report that a particular side of their clit is more sensitive, while others prefer to stimulate somewhere just above or below it. If you’re especially sensitive, or you’re packing a bullet vibe that has a lot of power – you can also try using it outside the labia; by covering the clit, the vibrations are dulled slightly, which gives you a slower build up to orgasm. As an added bonus, the more you experiment with your technique, the better you’ll be at directing someone else if you want to use your bullet while shagging. Which is handy, and means you get to play the sexy teacher giving them a crash-course in how best to make you come. You don’t always have to go straight to orgasm I’ve heard of ‘edging’ mentioned far more frequently in relation to guys having a wank than girls, and I think that’s a shame. Edging is the practice of bringing yourself close to the ‘edge’ of orgasm, but not quite tipping yourself over it. Then you have a brief break, get back to it, reach the edge again, and keep doing this until you build to a state of super-heightened arousal, where literally any time you touch yourself you think you’re going to explode. Fun, right? Obviously. Edging can be one of the most delightful ways to kill an hour or so, and a bullet vibrator makes this so much easier, because you’re not having to worry that you’ll get hand-cramp halfway through and have to give the whole thing up and go sit on a washing machine or something. Use your bullet vibrator to bring yourself to the edge, then repeat and repeat until you can’t repeat any more. Especially useful when you’ve got a night in lined up and you’ve got no decent box sets to watch on Netflix. Examine the bullet vibrator pulse settings Back in the day most vibrators came with a selection of speeds from ‘rubbish and weak’ to ‘buzzes like a horde of angry bees’. These days the tech has moved on, and a decent bullet vibrator will come with a selection of different pulse settings. Like your phone when it rings on silent, but in a whole variety of different patterns. I was initially sceptical of these settings, because why on Earth would I want something to go‘on/off/on/off’ when instead it could be permanently jammed against my clit, and shoved ‘on’ to the highest setting? It turns out they’re bloody excellent, though. Like a meal which comes with salad so you appreciate the chips more, pulse settings give you a bit of a contrast. It’s essentially a clitoral massage, and exploring these massage settings means even more excuses to lock yourself in your bedroom with some loud music and a hard-drive full of porn. Use a bullet vibrator during sex I shouldn’t need to mention this, should I? OK, I should, and I will. Because after Nicki Minaj’s fierce and righteous proclamation that she demands orgasms from sex, we need to mention the fact that most people with clits find it easier to come clitorally than they do from penetrative sex. Given this, if you love your bullet vibrator and you struggle to come during penetrative sex, then for God’s sake please say so – it’ll help us challenge the myth that everyone wants exactly the same kind of sex, and introduce more people to the range of sexual variety that exists within different human bodies. By this point you should have a good idea of exactly the kind of setting you like, and know exactly the right place to put it. Show your partner, lie back, and enjoy a clitoral orgasm that both of you get to take part in. If your other half is reluctant, let them know that when you come, the muscles in your vagina are likely to twitch and spasm in a way that feels like a top-class milking machine. There are plenty of other ways to use a bullet vibrator during sex, of course – if you’d rather be in control, then placing it between you and your partner when you’re on top means you can do that fun tribbin thing. Use a bullet vibrator on things other than your clit Obviously, the clit is the place it’s most likely to give you an orgasm. Feel free to ease your partner into it by using the bullet on their sensitive bits: nipples, clit, labia minora, labia majoria, and the vagina. Basically, anywhere with nerve endings can be stimulated, and as long as it’s somewhere on the outside of your body (never ever stick a bullet vibe up your arse), it’s perfectly safe. Final tip: if you’ve got a bullet vibrator and you want to explore some of the best ways to use it, make sure you’ve got it fully charged (or with fresh batteries) before you begin. It’s fun, and time flies, and nothing’s worse than having a sex toy die on you when you’re a bare three seconds from climax. Source Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teewhy Posted November 17, 2017 Share Posted November 17, 2017 He he he! E wo tun ni bullet vibrator? Ak47 vibrator nko? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted November 17, 2017 Moderators Share Posted November 17, 2017 Nice one Prof. Hahahaha Odiegwu Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Farida Posted November 17, 2017 Share Posted November 17, 2017 Boyyy i’m get This! Sounds like fun Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mimy Posted November 17, 2017 Share Posted November 17, 2017 Lool anything for the goddess clit Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VINA Posted November 17, 2017 Share Posted November 17, 2017 Rabbit bullet vibe is the baddest. Lip stick bullet is small, handy and totally fun. . Some people are still f***king and masturbating the old fashioned way. Welcome to the 21st century. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted November 17, 2017 Moderators Share Posted November 17, 2017 15 minutes ago, vina said: Rabbit bullet vibe is the baddest. Lip stick bullet is small, handy and totally fun. . Some people are still f***king and masturbating the old fashioned way. Welcome to the 21st century. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted January 3, 2020 Share Posted January 3, 2020 Would love to try this out! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted January 3, 2020 Moderators Share Posted January 3, 2020 2 hours ago, Txunamy said: Would love to try this out! Hahahahahaha... it's a nice way to get off the new year! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted January 3, 2020 Share Posted January 3, 2020 2 hours ago, Txunamy said: Would love to try this out! Get me one too 😀 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted January 4, 2020 Share Posted January 4, 2020 Kandi Burrus has a nice collection. https://www.bedroomkandi.com/bedroom-kandi/vibrators-toys 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted January 4, 2020 Share Posted January 4, 2020 7 hours ago, kimi said: Hahahahahaha... it's a nice way to get off the new year! I know right? 😉 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted January 4, 2020 Share Posted January 4, 2020 7 hours ago, Michelle said: Get me one too 😀 Okay😘 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted January 4, 2020 Share Posted January 4, 2020 4 hours ago, Michelle said: Kandi Burrus has a nice collection. https://www.bedroomkandi.com/bedroom-kandi/vibrators-toys I checked it out, that's a lot😀 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrators FlyJ Posted January 6, 2020 Author Administrators Share Posted January 6, 2020 Lol. Kandi is so freaky 😋. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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