My Name Is Sara (sensitive material)

[VINA]

My name is Sara, my mummy call me Sara girl. I have two brothers and I am the first born. I am the only girl in my family. I love my mummy, I love my brothers but I don't like my Daddy.

 

I am five years old, last year I was four years old and that was when my daddy start to do bad things to me.

 

My daddy is a business man and my mummy work in government office. Last year I was four years old and one night my daddy came to my room in the night. He on the light and wake me up from sleep, I said "daddy, what happen?" And he said nothing, that he want to show me something.

 

My daddy brought out his pee pee from his trousers and started to rub it, then he said I should  touch it. I don't want to but he drag my hand and put it on his pee pee. 

 

Then my daddy ask me to suck it with my mouth, he put it inside my mouth and later he wee wee on my face. He remove my wrapper and cleaned the wee wee. He said I should not tell anybody or else he will take me to soldier boarding house.

 

My daddy start to do this to me every night. One night my daddy put his pee pee inside my bum bum. It was very painful, I cried very much but he cover my mouth. There was blood on my pant and the bed, daddy carried them, he say he will wash them.

 

The next day my daddy buy me new clothes, juice and biscuits but I do not want it, I just want him to stop.

My  daddy told me that next time it will not pain me again but it's a lie, that night it still pain me and there was still blood.

 

Every night my daddy will not allow me to sleep, when I get to school I will sleep in class, I cannot hear what my teacher is saying. I used to carry first but now I am 35 over 40. My mummy beat me very well, my teacher too beat me, she said I use to know book but now I'm not serious again, she said it's like witch have carry my brain.

 

I cannot jump in school, I cannot play because my tummy always hurt me. I like Simi, she is my best friend but I cannot play with her again.

 

I always stay in class during break, I don't like to play again. One day I went to Simi house and I ask her.

"Simi does your daddy use his pee pee to play with your bum bum?"

 

Simi did not understand, she say her daddy carry her on her shoulder, he play with her and he hug her.  I want Simi daddy, I don't like my daddy. Why did I have a bad daddy? Is it because I am a bad girl. My mummy say I am a bad girl.

 

One day I kneel down in my room, my mummy say I should always tell God my problem. I tell God how my daddy make me cry but He does not answer because that night daddy came again. I tell him it's paining me and he say he will do it in the back and that one will not pain me, but he lied again, that one too pain me very well.

 

I want to die, I want to run away but my mummy, I love my mummy.

 

One Sunday I want to go and wee wee and I pass big people church, and I hear big pastor say many people only complain to God, they don't ask. He say we should ask and it shall be given and so that night I don't complain, I kneel down and I ask, I ask God to take away my daddy, I don't like him, he hurt me and he should not come back to the house. He should go away.

 

For the first time in a year, I sleep very well. My daddy did not come. When I wake up, I see people in our house, my mummy is on the floor crying. I ask her what happen, they did not want to tell me. Later she told us that daddy has gone to heaven, he had accident.

 

My daddy is a bad man, he cannot be in heaven, he is in hell fire, but as I see my mummy crying, I start crying too because I am the one that kill my daddy. Did I kill my daddy ???

[Txunamy]

*sad sigh*

Reading or hearing of things like this leaves me seething with rage. 

How someone can take away the innocence of an innocent child is what I would never understand. 

Mehn! This is real sensitive.

[VINA]

21 hours ago, Ivyy said:

*sad sigh*

Reading or hearing of things like this leaves me seething with rage. 

How someone can take away the innocence of an innocent child is what I would never understand. 

Mehn! This is real sensitive.

Lool. Calm Down ma.  I know of too many Cases Not to write about This.  How can I help The girl Child? I ask Myself daily.

[Txunamy]

33 minutes ago, vina said:

Lool. Calm Down ma.  I know of too many Cases Not to write about This.  How can I help The girl Child? I ask Myself daily.

Hehehe! No calming down for this kain mata oo.. 

[Damiee]

This is incredibly sad and happens more often than we choose to admit. Usually, it's a close family member. 

[kimi]

Well done Vina. Another fine one...

[Farida]

💔

[MENA]

All the women outside is not enough? there are many that will even give him for free. Na small pinki he see? 

This is pure wickedness. He is suppose to be castrated first, serve jail terms before burning in hell 

[scarlet]

19 hours ago, vina said:

Lool. Calm Down ma.  I know of too many Cases Not to write about This.  How can I help The girl Child? I ask Myself daily.

Via sensitization! That's the most primal tool we could adopt to fight against sexually abuse perpetrated by some of  these animals called (men). We have to teach them never to liken sexuality and shame,  hence the shame they feel  won't silence them, and tell  them to speak up,  or shout  when something, whatever thing makes them uncomfortable. There's this  particular brand of shame our society had conditioned girls to feel about themselves,  we have to purge them of all of those crippling feelings. Not excluding  Most Nigerian women who are awfully quiet and complicit,  we have to teach them to learn how to drop this inherited type of shame, (the what we people say kind) and stop blaming sexual assault victims, its abhorrent.  She should never reprise a female girl Child when she report sexual assault. Sexual assault is bad and isn't normal.  She should  learn to report/ inform  appropriate authority. We do the little we can,  collectively we'd fight it. 

Weldon vina

[Mimy]

This is really sad. It even more unfortunate that some women still cover up for their husband even after finding out their husband has been molesting their daughter all in a bid to salvage their marriage.

 I can't understand this mindset. A society where you're expected to remained in marriage against all odds. A very terrible mindset it is.  

[Suavity]

I cried when reading this, imagine the terrible things little children who has never done any wrong to any one go through everyday, this is horrifying.

[Teewhy]

These lawmakers should make a law that all rapists and pedophiles' balls chopped off and fed to the dogs. Then, their useless dicks be used as burnt offerings to awon maami. 

I hate to hear and read stories like this. Jeez!  What a world! 

[Hipstar]

Am I sad? Very, am I surprised? Not one bit.. nonhalal like this is very rampant in a society like ours simply because everyone looks the other way. Government would arrest perpetrators and instead of sending them to jail where they belong, they give them option of miserly fine.. like 20k, or even 10k as if money would mend a broken hymen or ameliorate the psychological effects later to come. If you are opportune to be in a court room, you would weep at the manner at which verdicts are passed. So why will the beasts not continue to fish for preys?

[VINA]

On Thursday, December 07, 2017 at 3:49 PM, Hipstar said:

Am I sad? Very, am I surprised? Not one bit.. nonhalal like this is very rampant in a society like ours simply because everyone looks the other way. Government would arrest perpetrators and instead of sending them to jail where they belong, they give them option of miserly fine.. like 20k, or even 10k as if money would mend a broken hymen or ameliorate the psychological effects later to come. If you are opportune to be in a court room, you would weep at the manner at which verdicts are passed. So why will the beasts not continue to fish for preys?

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