Administrators FlyJ Posted January 27, 2018 Administrators Share Posted January 27, 2018 So you have a harness, a dildo, and enthusiasm. What’s next? A strap-on blow job can be part of foreplay, a main sex act, or part of cleanup. No matter where it fits in, build excitement by making out, grinding against each other, dirty talking, or whatever your sex pregame usually looks like. If you’re the one giving the blow job, start by being a tease with touches that get close to or lightly brush over the strap-on, without really engaging with it yet. When everyone is ready to go, move into position and go to town. “An easy way to start is by slowly licking up the shaft and around the head of the dildo. It’s hot and useful, since more saliva makes everything glide smoothly. You can also use this in between sucking and stroking with your hand if you need a break or more lubrication,” says FemmeCock. Then, take the strap-on into your mouth. If it’s long, or if you don’t want it too deep, wrapping your hand around the base can keep it from going too far back in your mouth and can give your partner a firmer surface to grind against if they want one. Resist the urge to bite down to control the depth — the dildo won’t notice, but your teeth will. Then, start to move slowly, and build up to a rhythm as you pay attention to your partner’s responses. A lot of your focus will probably be on the dildo, but don’t forget about your partner’s body. “Bring one of their fingers into your mouth right alongside the dildo so they can feel exactly what you’re doing. […] Reach for their body, hold their hands, grab their thighs, involve their butt or whatever is under the strap on, if they like that. Use your hands,” says Sexsmith. If your partner is into vaginal or anal penetration and is wearing a harness that allows for it, you can finger them during the blow job. Start with fewer fingers and add more, use lube if you need it, and use the same rhythm with your fingers as your mouth for extra bonus points. Finally, remember that the best strap-on blow jobs are noisy and messy and embrace it. “Noises are inevitable and can enhance the experience, since strap-on blowjobs rely on sights and sounds, so don’t be embarrassed of slurping or sucking noises. You can also add more intentional sounds, moaning intermittently to show you’re enjoying what’s going on,” says FemmeCock. How To Receive A Strap-On Blow Job If it’s your first time receiving a strap-on blow job, spend some time in advance getting used to wearing the strap-on. “Think about it as part of you. Touch it yourself, get a sense of its edges and shape and weight and size. Let it become part of your body’s proprioception,” says Sexsmith. Then, in the moment, try to relax and concentrate on what you see and feel. Stay present and connected with your partner via touch. Try resting your hand on their shoulder or stroking the back of their neck or the side of their face, but don’t grab their head, pull their hair, choke them, or more forcefully fuck their mouth unless you’ve discussed it. Use sounds or words to let your partner know they’re doing a good job, check in by asking questions your partner can answer by nodding or making a noise, and let your partner know what you’re into. “It can feel like a lot of pressure to have someone watching you go down on them, so it’s important to let your partner know they’re doing a great job through sounds or verbal affirmation. Make sure they’re on the same page as you by asking questions that can be answered with a gesture or short response, like ‘how’s that’ or ‘are you enjoying my cock?’ Communicate what you want and like; if you find something to be super hot, you can say things like ‘that feels so good’ or ‘I love when you go a little slower,’” says FemmeCock. Use non-verbal expression, too. “The way a lover can tell that you like things is by your movement, sound, and breath. Let those things out,” says Sexsmith. Source 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted January 27, 2018 Moderators Share Posted January 27, 2018 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈😇😇😇😇😇🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈☻ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VINA Posted January 27, 2018 Share Posted January 27, 2018 Keys to life. Dope stuff, and points taken but I'm already so great at this so I'm just brushing up my skills. Ehen aunty @FlyJ has abandoned our popular rainbow dildo tho, we are still sentimentally attached to it. Bring back our rainbow dildo abeg. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted January 27, 2018 Share Posted January 27, 2018 ☺ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teewhy Posted January 28, 2018 Share Posted January 28, 2018 On Sat Jan 27 2018 at 7:25 AM, kimi said: 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈😇😇😇😇😇🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈☻ Hmmmmmmmm, even the archbishop was here........... #JustPassing Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted January 28, 2018 Moderators Share Posted January 28, 2018 2 minutes ago, Teewhy said: Hmmmmmmmm, even the archbishop was here........... #JustPassing Hahahahaha.... I came here to sanctify Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teewhy Posted January 28, 2018 Share Posted January 28, 2018 8 minutes ago, kimi said: Hahahahaha.... I came here to sanctify Oya, gimme the anointing oil and that bucket of holy water. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChazBee Posted January 28, 2018 Share Posted January 28, 2018 Am not really a fan of sex toys especially when am in a relationship. Maybe I weird but I don't see the need for it when the whole reason I wanna be with a girl is cos she's soft and subtle 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mimy Posted January 30, 2018 Share Posted January 30, 2018 On 1/27/2018 at 7:50 AM, vina said: Ehen aunty @FlyJ has abandoned our popular rainbow dildo tho, we are still sentimentally attached to it. Bring back our rainbow dildo abeg. Really, after registering the rainbow dildo in our mind as the default cock. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VINA Posted January 31, 2018 Share Posted January 31, 2018 7 hours ago, Gimbiyya said: Really, after registering the rainbow dildo in our mind as the default cock. Lmao. I don miss you sha. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mimy Posted January 31, 2018 Share Posted January 31, 2018 26 minutes ago, vina said: Lmao. I don miss you sha. I was about starting where's Vina hashtag, bring back our Vina hashtag. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VINA Posted January 31, 2018 Share Posted January 31, 2018 40 minutes ago, Gimbiyya said: I was about starting where's Vina hashtag, bring back our Vina hashtag. Me Ke? I haff been here now. Is you that went AWOL. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted February 8, 2019 Share Posted February 8, 2019 This has only happened once unexpectedly. In the words of Young MA "she make me weak when she deep throat". I don't know why I felt this way 🙈 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted February 8, 2019 Moderators Share Posted February 8, 2019 1 hour ago, Michelle said: This has only happened once unexpectedly. In the words of Young MA "she make me weak when she deep throat". I don't know why I felt this way 🙈 Hahahahaha... girl! You is badt 🙄 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted February 8, 2019 Share Posted February 8, 2019 3 minutes ago, kimi said: Hahahahaha... girl! You is badt 🙄 I'm and angel 😇 *wink* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted February 8, 2019 Moderators Share Posted February 8, 2019 3 minutes ago, Michelle said: I'm and angel 😇 *wink* Hahahaha. I'm an angel and I've never seen you around girl! Lol 🙃 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted February 8, 2019 Share Posted February 8, 2019 3 minutes ago, kimi said: Hahahaha. I'm an angel and I've never seen you around girl! Lol 🙃 Iyam 5 star angel ooo 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted February 8, 2019 Moderators Share Posted February 8, 2019 1 minute ago, Michelle said: Iyam 5 star angel ooo Loool. You try. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted February 8, 2019 Share Posted February 8, 2019 59 minutes ago, Michelle said: Iyam 5 star angel ooo Lol @'Iyam' By fire by force. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted February 8, 2019 Share Posted February 8, 2019 6 minutes ago, Txunamy said: Lol @'Iyam' By fire by force. 😘 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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