Moderators kimi Posted August 3, 2019 Moderators Share Posted August 3, 2019 Hi Ladies, Personally, I don't like to advise married people. Lol. Or those in committed heterosexual relationships. Largely because I have a zero tolerance for BS and my perspective isn't always popular. From experience, some women do take a lot and "shrink" themselves for the men in the relationship. To each her own. Now, a good friend of mine confided in me. She is clearly hurting -this broke my heart. As a disclaimer I told her that I'm in no position to give her any advice (she laughed.lol) and so I will simply lend a listening ear and point out to her the actions that I consider unfair on both sides. How willing are you to advise those in committed heterosexual relationships? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chilee Posted August 3, 2019 Share Posted August 3, 2019 Not something I willingly do because I never take my own advice when it comes to "matters of the heart". I tend to just ask questions that I think may "help" them find their own "solutions". 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted August 3, 2019 Author Moderators Share Posted August 3, 2019 2 hours ago, Chilee said: that I think may "help" them find their own "solutions". Love. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted August 3, 2019 Share Posted August 3, 2019 No Advise whatsoever. I have been burnt a couple of times.. So these days I just drink water and mind my Business. Whenever my neighbor starts fighting with her boyfriend, I leave the house.. Life is all about choices. Whenever my friend complains bitterly about her relationship problems, I tell her same thing, i don't want to get involved. Again, life and choices.. I choose my scene. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mimy Posted August 4, 2019 Share Posted August 4, 2019 Lol I'm the last person to seek relationship advise from. Heterosexual or not. Close ones know me well enough to miss me with their relationship dramas. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted August 5, 2019 Share Posted August 5, 2019 I'm always willing to give advice to close friends and family members. I can be very blunt and straight to the point when it comes to tolerating negative energy. I often place myself in the shoes of the person seeking help and give advice based on how I would handle their situation...which for certain may not always be the "right" thing to do. For example, I recently had to agree with a close friend's choice in seeking to be unfaithful to his wife. In my opinion it's justified considering his particular circumstances. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MENA Posted August 6, 2019 Share Posted August 6, 2019 l think when people are hurting, and they come to you, is good you listen and give your own honesty advice when necessary but keep you heart open and allow them make their own choice because it could be a life saver to the person in question. Some people may be passing through depression you may never know. So l dont think is good to do the mind "my business thing". Even if is just to give them a listening ear and just a few honesty words is something. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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