Moderators kimi Posted September 13, 2019 Moderators Share Posted September 13, 2019 A topic finally. Lol. Do you consider yourself as having a strong support system? Who would you share your greatest news with? Who would you turn to if you needed to just cry and get things off your chest? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chilee Posted September 13, 2019 Share Posted September 13, 2019 Yay💃 Yes, I do. That's the one thing I can boast of at the moment; I've been blessed with really amazing people. Hhhmmm...my sisters A particular friend; we've been friends for a long time and she's very open-minded. What about you @kimi? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted September 13, 2019 Author Moderators Share Posted September 13, 2019 Yaaay right back. Lol 🙄 Yes I do as well. I'm quite fortunate. For great, family first. Lol. For sad, my childhood friend first. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scarlet Posted September 14, 2019 Share Posted September 14, 2019 11 hours ago, kimi said: Who would you turn to if you needed to just cry and get things off your chest? Nobody cos everyone around me, thinks I got everything going well for me and should not have a reason to cry.. And funny enough, I put up the hard geh facade a lot. So, whenever i feel a need to cry or get things off my chest, i do with strangers. If only the ones who'd a least allow me break in front of them weren't miles away... Then maybe.. You know, talking these sort of things on the phone don't do enough justice in the expression of how you really feel inside. 11 hours ago, kimi said: Who would you share your greatest news with? Family. They are my number one fans. 11 hours ago, kimi said: Do you consider yourself as having a strong support system. In a way, yes . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Damiee Posted September 14, 2019 Share Posted September 14, 2019 Yes, I believe I am. Family and a few close friends. Those close friends lol. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mimy Posted September 15, 2019 Share Posted September 15, 2019 No I don't even have a support system let alone a strong one. I'm so alone in this world. No one. I'd say my mom. I know she will do anything for me but there are lots of things I can't really open up to her. The last time I tried, she was so devastated and blamed everything on herself for failing me as a parent. I hated myself for making her feel that way. So I bottled everything up now. During really trying times, I just sleep and hope I don't wake up but I kept waking and it doesn't seem like I'm going anytime soon. So I get used to being around and suck it up and keep going. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chilee Posted September 15, 2019 Share Posted September 15, 2019 25 minutes ago, Mimy said: No I don't even have a support system let alone a strong one. I'm so alone in this world. No one. I'd say my mom. I know she will do anything for me but there are lots of things I can't really open up to her. The last time I tried, she was so devastated and blamed everything on herself for failing me as a parent. I hated myself for making her feel that way. So I bottled everything up now. During really trying times, I just sleep and hope I don't wake up but I kept waking and it doesn't seem like I'm going anytime soon. So I get used to being around and suck it up and keep going. 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted September 15, 2019 Author Moderators Share Posted September 15, 2019 4 hours ago, Mimy said: No I don't even have a support system let alone a strong one. I'm so alone in this world. No one. I'd say my mom. I know she will do anything for me but there are lots of things I can't really open up to her. The last time I tried, she was so devastated and blamed everything on herself for failing me as a parent. I hated myself for making her feel that way. So I bottled everything up now. During really trying times, I just sleep and hope I don't wake up but I kept waking and it doesn't seem like I'm going anytime soon. So I get used to being around and suck it up and keep going. We are always here for you Mimy and I mean it. Hugs xx 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted September 15, 2019 Share Posted September 15, 2019 Yes I do Used to be my mum, but these days, My siblings, and friends, and my mum too. I still talk to her picture.. Lol My friend from high school, my mum again.. My siblings are clowns, they don't take anything serious, which is a good thing I guess, but I'd rather not talk to them when I am sad. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted September 15, 2019 Share Posted September 15, 2019 5 hours ago, Mimy said: No I don't even have a support system let alone a strong one. I'm so alone in this world. No one. I'd say my mom. I know she will do anything for me but there are lots of things I can't really open up to her. The last time I tried, she was so devastated and blamed everything on herself for failing me as a parent. I hated myself for making her feel that way. So I bottled everything up now. During really trying times, I just sleep and hope I don't wake up but I kept waking and it doesn't seem like I'm going anytime soon. So I get used to being around and suck it up and keep going. "No man is an island" you are not alone, you shouldn't have to be alone. Always reach out. And hey, like kimi said, we are all here for you. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hawken Posted September 17, 2019 Share Posted September 17, 2019 Has to be my friends. Both good and bad news, its them. It would be my mum but she's a worrier. Can't have her worrying about me. My brothers are well, my brothers. But I tell my mum all my good news sha. Sometimes even before they happen. Woman will now start calling me upandan asking "how far how far how far". Me: mummy leave me alone, I for no just tell you 😒 My mum: ah sorry oh, I won't ask again *rinse and repeat* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted September 18, 2019 Share Posted September 18, 2019 My support system is solid. I can share good news with just about anyone. I'm not a crier, but I have a small circle of friends and family members(4) that I can share anything with. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ewoma Posted October 3, 2019 Share Posted October 3, 2019 My support system .....not strong I can share my good news with everyone I cry alone ....no one to lean on. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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