Moderators kimi Posted October 1, 2019 Moderators Share Posted October 1, 2019 Hello Ladies, It's a very wet independence day morning. Nigeria does need all the cleansing it can get. 🙄 As the title suggests, my question is this: How long do you need to have known or dated someone for before you feel certain enough to marry them? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted October 1, 2019 Author Moderators Share Posted October 1, 2019 Yes. I believe time is important. Time reveals. Nothing less than 12 months for me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted October 1, 2019 Share Posted October 1, 2019 For me its like 6months to a year. In relationships, always go with your instincts and gut feelings.. That's your guide. Someone who is a pretender can hide it so well even if you date for 4years. After marriage comes the revelation. My second cousin's marriage crashed on arrival(6months) he married a lady he dated for ten years(since uni) after the wedding, a different being emerged. In summary, time is not enough to be certain(people pretend) If after two months, you feel it in your guts, do it. If you feel it after 6months, do it. Don't do it because you are certain you know all there is to know about the person, do it because you listened to your instincts. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chilee Posted October 1, 2019 Share Posted October 1, 2019 8 hours ago, Txunamy said: time is not enough to be certain(people pretend) If after two months, you feel it in your guts, do it. If you feel it after 6months, do it. Don't do it because you are certain you know all there is to know about the person, do it because you listened to your instincts. Very true. Another thing to note is that people may also change with time, and that change may not always be positive. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted October 1, 2019 Share Posted October 1, 2019 44 minutes ago, Chilee said: Very true. Another thing to note is that people may also change with time, and that change may not always be positive. Yups yups yups.. 😁 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mimy Posted October 1, 2019 Share Posted October 1, 2019 No timespan for me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hawken Posted October 2, 2019 Share Posted October 2, 2019 But why are you proposing? Life would be so much simpler if we all just continued to live in sin. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted October 2, 2019 Share Posted October 2, 2019 17 hours ago, Txunamy said: For me its like 6months to a year. In relationships, always go with your instincts and gut feelings.. That's your guide. Someone who is a pretender can hide it so well even if you date for 4years. After marriage comes the revelation. My second cousin's marriage crashed on arrival(6months) he married a lady he dated for ten years(since uni) after the wedding, a different being emerged. In summary, time is not enough to be certain(people pretend) If after two months, you feel it in your guts, do it. If you feel it after 6months, do it. Don't do it because you are certain you know all there is to know about the person, do it because you listened to your instincts. 😘 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted October 2, 2019 Share Posted October 2, 2019 No specific time span for me, but I can't see myself considering it in less than a year. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Damiee Posted October 2, 2019 Share Posted October 2, 2019 I’ve always thought this should be a year at least but I’m not sure time is much of a factor. When you know, you know. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted October 3, 2019 Share Posted October 3, 2019 8 hours ago, Damiee said: I’ve always thought this should be a year at least but I’m not sure time is much of a factor. When you know, you know. How many proposals have you declined princess? 😀 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ewoma Posted October 3, 2019 Share Posted October 3, 2019 People pretend a lot....but for me a year is enough time for me to know where the relationship is leading to.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Damiee Posted October 4, 2019 Share Posted October 4, 2019 On 10/3/2019 at 2:59 AM, Michelle said: How many proposals have you declined princess? 😀 Lol I’ve lost count 😐 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted October 4, 2019 Share Posted October 4, 2019 4 hours ago, Damiee said: Lol I’ve lost count 😐 Damn 😂 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrators FlyJ Posted October 4, 2019 Administrators Share Posted October 4, 2019 On 10/1/2019 at 2:49 AM, kimi said: Hello Ladies, It's a very wet independence day morning. Nigeria does need all the cleansing it can get. 🙄 As the title suggests, my question is this: How long do you need to have known or dated someone for before you feel certain enough to marry them? It just depends on the person and the relationship; I do not think there is a time limit. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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