Administrators FlyJ Posted January 14, 2020 Administrators Share Posted January 14, 2020 Being sapiosexual means you are attracted more to the mind than to the physical features of someone. You find intelligence extremely sexy. Someone who overuses their brain more than their body is the type of person that turns you on. What’s more, you value beautiful souls over beautiful faces. Money and power have nothing on remarkable minds and thrilling personalities. Here are the 10 most telling signs you are a true sapiosexual. 1. You enjoy deep conversations. One deep meaningful conversation means much more than a hundred small talks for you. The kind of conversation that stimulates your mind inspires you. This makes the person you are talking to utterly attractive. 2. You value intellect over physical appearance. Intelligence turns you on. Of course, the first thing you see in a person is their physical appearance. However, you go beyond that, and your main focus is on people’s intellect. If they lack intelligence, you won’t take them seriously, regardless of their looks. 3. You appreciate emotional intelligence. You know the struggle someone has to go through to gain a certain level of emotional intelligence. That’s why you appreciate it so much. People with the most beautiful minds have learned most painful life lessons. Their strength to move on and use this pain in their favor definitely draws your attention. 4. You take your time to get to know people. People become more attractive to you with time. The more you get to know someone, the more you fall for their intelligence. And this someone might even be a person you weren’t into at the beginning. What makes others appealing for you is the way they see the world, and that’s why you need time to truly get to know them. 5. Bad grammar or slang words grind your gears. You keep your distance from people who don’t know the difference between ‘your’ and ‘you’re’. What’s more, you roll your eyes every time you see ‘wyd’ in a text message. On the other hand, whenever you meet someone who is grammatically correct in both text and face-to-face conversations, you are immediately attracted to them. 6. You don’t believe in love at first sight. For you, love-at-first-sight is almost impossible, because you can’t imagine yourself falling for someone only for their looks. You need to truly be impressed by someone’s mind before you catch feelings. That’s what’s slowing down the process of falling in love for you. 7. You are picky for your partners. Your friends and family will definitely agree on this one. The people around you think you are picky because they don’t understand why it takes so much time for you to settle down. Their minds don’t work like yours, and they find this a bit odd. What they don’t really get is you need time to get to truly know someone until you let them close to your heart and your highly sensitive soul. 8. Material things don’t impress you. While most of the people value money and possessions more than moral principles, you function exactly the opposite way. You don’t really care about the financial status of someone. You are more interested in the investments they make for their minds and souls. 9. You constantly crave new knowledge. You aspire to anything that increases your intelligence and widens your horizons. That’s why you fancy people who constantly work on their self-growth, and are brave enough to welcome any challenge on their way. The perfect date for you would include a deep meaningful conversation, plus lots of eye-gazing and intellectual teasing. That’s why one-night-stands just don’t work for you. 10. You are a great listener. Your listening skills are incredible. One of the things you enjoy the most is listening to someone’s wildest dreams and extraordinary thoughts about the meaning of life. Not only this helps you see various points of view, but seeing someone passionately talking about exciting and knowledgeable topics, makes you awfully attracted to them. Source Any sapiosexual in the house? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted January 14, 2020 Share Posted January 14, 2020 Nah. Intelligence alone doesn't do it for me. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted January 14, 2020 Moderators Share Posted January 14, 2020 3 hours ago, FlyJ said: Any sapiosexual in the house? Hahahahahaha. I check off most of the boxes but appearance equally matters to me o... lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted January 14, 2020 Share Posted January 14, 2020 Sooo me.. Character matters too aside intelligence. But, I am yet to meet an intelligent person who isn't well put together. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VINA Posted January 14, 2020 Share Posted January 14, 2020 No wonder!!! No wonder I don't know how it feels to crush on someone especially those you barely know. Lol. No wonder I don't feel attraction because it takes more than a cute face or deep pockets to impress me. I am highly sapiosexual, money, beauty, all come to nothing when there's brains, and soul. This is a beautiful piece. It all makes sense now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrators FlyJ Posted January 14, 2020 Author Administrators Share Posted January 14, 2020 Brains all the way for me o! I rather date an intelligent monkey than a slow-witted princess 🙂🙂🙂. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted January 14, 2020 Moderators Share Posted January 14, 2020 15 minutes ago, FlyJ said: Brains all the way for me o! I rather date an intelligent monkey than a slow-witted princess 🙂🙂🙂. Hahahahahaha at intelligent monkey. I'll fetch one for you from the Zoo ☻😏 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted January 15, 2020 Share Posted January 15, 2020 23 hours ago, FlyJ said: Brains all the way for me o! I rather date an intelligent monkey than a slow-witted princess 🙂🙂🙂. Well said.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mimy Posted January 16, 2020 Share Posted January 16, 2020 On 1/14/2020 at 6:51 AM, FlyJ said: Any sapiosexual in the house? Nah this shit don't turn me on. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrators FlyJ Posted January 16, 2020 Author Administrators Share Posted January 16, 2020 7 hours ago, Mimy said: Nah this shit don't turn me on. Lol. What does it for you? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted January 16, 2020 Share Posted January 16, 2020 13 hours ago, Mimy said: Nah this shit don't turn me on. Boobs.. 😁 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mimy Posted January 17, 2020 Share Posted January 17, 2020 5 hours ago, Txunamy said: Boobs.. 😁 😂😂😂 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mimy Posted January 17, 2020 Share Posted January 17, 2020 11 hours ago, FlyJ said: Lol. What does it for you? Physical attributes. Her boobs, skin, physique... are more likely to keep me greased. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Txunamy Posted January 17, 2020 Share Posted January 17, 2020 7 hours ago, Mimy said: Physical attributes. Her boobs, skin, physique... are more likely to keep me greased. Hahahahaha! I talk am. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hawken Posted January 18, 2020 Share Posted January 18, 2020 Intelligence turns me on but the physical appearance equally matters as well. Its 50/50 for me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted January 18, 2020 Share Posted January 18, 2020 Women that are thick in all the right places and well proportioned make me weak. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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