Lavive Posted April 5, 2014 Share Posted April 5, 2014 What are your thoughts on being in a relationship while having ties with an ex gf? Yes or no? Should there be any boundaries? -S Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
M2DD Posted April 5, 2014 Share Posted April 5, 2014 Yeah there should be boundaries Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators moresko Posted April 5, 2014 Moderators Share Posted April 5, 2014 Nothing wrong with having ties to an ex, but there should very CLEAR boundaries, with an understanding that your current girlfriend might have some reservations concerning those "ties". 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skills Posted April 6, 2014 Share Posted April 6, 2014 Being friends wit an ex totally depends on what n how ur relationship ended in the first place...Define your boundaries frm the onset n stick to it...#just my thots# Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dreamgal Posted April 6, 2014 Share Posted April 6, 2014 ur past should be your past,its not moving on if you are still carrying the same baggage with you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Administrators FlyJ Posted April 6, 2014 Administrators Share Posted April 6, 2014 Nothing wrong with having ties to an ex, but there should very CLEAR boundaries, with an understanding that your current girlfriend might have some reservations concerning those "ties". Absolutely. There should be VERY CLEAR BOUNDARIES and the "ex" should respect your relationship. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted June 13, 2019 Share Posted June 13, 2019 I wouldn't remain friends with an ex that didn't respect boundaries. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ewoma Posted August 16, 2019 Share Posted August 16, 2019 Dats true....its not every ex that is worth talking to.....the good ones occasionally u communicate with dem,setting ur boundaries of course,the ones dat did so much wickedness to you,you just forget deir existence, no good record to remember them for,except when u think of their evil deeds they did to u. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators kimi Posted August 16, 2019 Moderators Share Posted August 16, 2019 52 minutes ago, Ewoma said: Dats true....its not every ex that is worth talking to.....the good ones occasionally u communicate with dem,setting ur boundaries of course,the ones dat did so much wickedness to you,you just forget deir existence, no good record to remember them for,except when u think of their evil deeds they did to u. Hahahahahahahaha. I like you. Valid points there. Sometimes it's good riddance. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ewoma Posted August 16, 2019 Share Posted August 16, 2019 Sometimes its good radiance to bad rubbish 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scarlet Posted August 17, 2019 Share Posted August 17, 2019 On 4/5/2014 at 10:14 PM, Lavive said: What are your thoughts on being in a relationship while having ties with an ex gf? Yes or no? Should there be any boundaries? -S I tell a prospective girlfriend, I keep in touch with my Exs, and it's nothing, they cool with it. An Ex some days ago called me crying, I had just came back from work. Immediately, i dropped my bag, ordered Oride heading straight to her house. While leaving moments later, we were both laughing and she was happy again. I got home really late, but was delighted to be there for another human despite our past. One recently invited me to a church program and i went, we talked all through. I try as much as i can to keep in touch with all my Exs, expect one who have refused to forgive me. Of course, there are light boundaries between us all, I respect their relationships, they respect mine. but that's basically it. They are Exs not enemies. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mimy Posted August 17, 2019 Share Posted August 17, 2019 Where do you girls find evil exs na Girls do no evil. Periodt! 😂😂 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ewoma Posted August 17, 2019 Share Posted August 17, 2019 Evil ones are there ooo😂 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ewoma Posted August 17, 2019 Share Posted August 17, 2019 May God not let us come across the bad ones....who no go ...no know........🤣😉 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Damiee Posted August 18, 2019 Share Posted August 18, 2019 Yes I would. I’m cordial with all my exes save for 1. It’s just fine because of clear cut boundaries. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blanco Posted August 21, 2019 Share Posted August 21, 2019 On 4/5/2014 at 10:14 PM, Lavive said: What are your thoughts on being in a relationship while having ties with an ex gf? Yes or no? Should there be any boundaries? -S 🤨 Nothing wrong with being friends with ya ex Actually it comes in handy one of this you might need him/her or end up becoming your best male friend or something It's not adviceable to make enemies na😁😁 But seriously am friends with my ex tho he is a guy😌😌 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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