chocolat Posted June 12, 2014 Share Posted June 12, 2014 Women! Are we all slightly lesbians? This was the question raised by a man who thinks that women, in general, who seem attracted to other women usually have sexual feelings towards them or are slightly lesbians. Perhaps this guy has a dating problem or problem going after the woman he is interested in. It could also be that the woman he is interested in may not be interested in him but, instead, interested in another woman — a scenario that can be a bit confusing to the guy. But, how do you exactly gauge a woman as to whether or not she is a lesbian? Or slightly lesbian? The answer depends largely on the woman’s perspective. From a straight woman’s perspective, she can definitely say that she does not feel any sexual feelings towards other women at all. Or she can openly say, “the woman” is “very attractive” but it doesn’t mean she is a lesbian. To a straight woman, showing signs of attraction to another woman is simply noticing another woman’s traits which she doesn’t have that she wants for herself to catch a man. It can also be that she is merely wanting to be like the woman she admired as “very attractive,” but not necessarily liking her. These women could just be wishing that, what beautiful things they see in other women, they could somehow have for themselves. Women these days find it refreshing to openly say that other women are attractive, but not in a lesbian way or thoughts. With beautiful faces of super models plastered on TV screens and magazines, women these days can openly say which one is the sexiest of them all. In other words, what these straight women are saying are mere signs of admiration towards other women, pure and simple. After all, to admire someone does not necessarily mean you already like someone or already love or have sexual desire towards someone. The same holds true to a straight woman who gets turned on by another woman. By turning to another woman’s sexual desire does not mean that a woman is a lesbian. She could just be merely satisfying her curiosity. Women are, in general, sexual in nature and it can be that she was just swift off her feet by the gentleness of the other woman. Falling in the arms of another woman doesn’t mean one is a lesbian. She could just be wanting love and affection, which a lesbian gave unconditionally. It would be different if the woman who seems to be attracted to another woman showed no sign of slowing down in her attraction to the other woman. She may not be able to stop thinking about the other woman she is attracted to which could result, at times, to sexual fantasies. The woman could be a lesbian after all. Women who are only attracted to men are definitely not lesbians. These are straight women who are definitely not even slightly lesbians. While there are different types of lesbians, straight women will always be and remain straight women. However, they differ from those straight women turned lesbians. Women are welcome to share their thoughts. inShare Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators moresko Posted June 12, 2014 Moderators Share Posted June 12, 2014 Interesting article, my knee jerk answer would have been "all women are slightly curious", but I realized that I wasn't curious nor am I curious about straight sex. So still thinking Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
simpl384 Posted June 12, 2014 Share Posted June 12, 2014 I like to think 90% of girls are lesbians, but that only lasts for about 2 - thr33 minutes. I've had sex with a straight girl who was attached to me because of the way i flirted with her....happened once and that was it,the next time i tried to touch her boobs it landed me a slap on my pretty face(how could one who was begging me to fondle her fine boobs,pay me back in such a way?well i guess the 2 min lesbo part of her was over). For girls it's only natural to look at a female and think they are hot. That doesn't mean they want to bang them,simply means I like the way you look maybe I wanna look like that to attract boys. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skills Posted June 12, 2014 Share Posted June 12, 2014 In my opinion, i'd say most gurls are curious,not necessarily lesbians..personally,i knw i'm bi-sexual no matter what sexuality i tend 2 lean more on... Neva been curious...i wudn't date a bi-curious female, no offense. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boopsie Posted June 18, 2014 Share Posted June 18, 2014 Hmmm, I think it's more about the world we live in, our societies, where women are the objects to be looked at, so women and men can enjoy look at other women, but if a man looks at another man as attractive (in a non-sexual way) its extreme taboo. Eh, everybody's a bit queer ;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RedSafire Posted July 15, 2014 Share Posted July 15, 2014 I agree with Boopsie. I have been dating men since I was 17 and as far back as 13 when I had my first organsm which I did watching a girl on girl action, I knew I wanted to be with women. I stopped sleeping with men cos I realised it wasn't okay to keep doing something I don't enjoy. Believe me I did a lot of pretending to get through it. I knew which I wanted to lean, I just didn't have the right support system to find others like me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted June 13, 2019 Share Posted June 13, 2019 Most are. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chilee Posted June 14, 2019 Share Posted June 14, 2019 Hhhmmm... This question reminds me of when my cousin tried to make me come out to her😂🤣 "You know, all girls are lesbians". Me (with the straightest face): I had no idea. Bye Sis! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RayBlac Posted June 14, 2019 Share Posted June 14, 2019 On 6/12/2014 at 4:09 PM, simpl384 said: That doesn't mean they want to bang them,simply means I like the way you look maybe I wanna look like that to attract boys. Something of a girl crush, yeah? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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