Why you’re not Meeting Quality Women?

[FlyJ]

 

One complaint I often hear from single women is that they are not meeting quality women. They’re often out and about, but they don’t meet any women they want to date. Or they do go on dates, but find the dates fizzle and lead nowhere. Are you one of these people who are having trouble meeting quality women? Let’s fix that! Here are some reasons why you may not be meeting quality women:

 

1. You’re not looking where quality women are.

 

What does quality mean to you? Where are the kind of women you want to meet? If you’re into kayaking, running, hiking and swimming and you keep trying to meet women at bars and social mixers, you might not meet the kind of women you want to meet. For you a quality woman is probably someone who is into athletic pursuits and enjoys the outdoors. Even if your preferred way of enjoying the outdoors is with a few friends or by yourself, put yourself in situations where you will meet other women who share your interests. Join a lesbian running or hiking group. Check out a meet-up with women who do athletic events. If you are interested in activism, start volunteering with a political campaign or for a politician that interests you. If you love animals, volunteer with an animal rescue group or hang out at the dog park. The best way to meet someone who shares your interests and values is to do the kinds of things that interest you.

 

2. You don’t present yourself as a quality woman.

 

Quality women like women who are confident, self-assured and attentive. Pay attention to yourself and pay attention to the women you meet. Look them in the eye. Ask about their lives. Listen. Pay attention to your looks, your clothes, your health. Need to lose a few pounds to feel better about yourself? Then get on an exercise plan and do it! If you need to work on your self-esteem and your social skills, employ the help of an honest friend. Ask her to give you some pointers about things in your personality, posture or grooming that you might improve on. Those people who feel best about themselves are often the ones who make those around them feel good too. Work on the areas of yourself that you know you want to improve to make yourself feel better.

 

***. You’re too focused on looks.

 

When dating, it can be easy to just focus on who we’re immediately physically attracted to. You can brush someone off because you don’t think she’s hot enough or cute enough. But people can become more attractive as you get to know them—as you feel more comfortable with them, if she makes you laugh, makes you feel good about yourself. Chemistry can come over time. Don’t write someone off if you don’t immediately feel it. It can be easy to pass someone by, especially on a dating site based solely on her looks. Dig deeper. Find out if you have things in common before you move on to the next profile.

 

4. You’re not stepping outside of your social circle.

 

If you always hang out with the same six friends and go to the same places after work, you may have a wonderful social life, but you’re not going to meet new women who are dating material. In order to meet quality women for dating, you’re going to have to expand either your circle of friends or the places where you and your friends hang out. You don’t have to ditch your current group of friends. Invite one of your pals to join you at a single women’s mixer or women’s ultimate frisbee game. Chatting with new people can be easier if you have a friend to be your wing-woman.

 

5. Your write women off too quickly based on certain criteria.

 

You meet a nice woman, then learn she works in a coffee shop. You want to be with a “professional” woman, so you never call her. Or maybe you’re not into someone who has kids, eats meat, is bisexual, who smokes or is outside of your age range. There are a million and one reasons to write someone off. Why not step outside of your predetermined criteria and see who shows up? Someone ten years older or ten years younger may be the perfect match for you. Maybe you that lady down the street with three kids shares your love of antique cars and Japanese anime. Be open to someone different than who you imagine yourself with. You might be pleasantly surprised.

 

6. You’re not dating.

 

You can’t meet quality women if you’re not meeting women. Maybe the first woman you meet up with from a dating site doesn’t work out, so then you decide this online dating this is not for you. Or maybe the first five don’t work out. That’s no reason to give up. Maybe number 6 is your future wife. If after 20 dates and you still aren’t meeting anyone of quality, then perhaps that dating site isn’t the right one for you. Read again reasons 1-5 and see if there’s something you need to change about the way you’re approaching it.

 

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Lets read from you Ladies.

[Iris]

I applied 2 or *** of these to one of my past relationships. I was almost going to look away based on looks n habits. I dint. Then I found out she had d kindest heart. She does.

[Iris]

P.S- Sometimes I question my decision but this doesn't change my view of her..not even by a dot.

[Abystacy]

Looks can be deciving and I have learnt that sometimes we shouldn't rely on first impression for whatever reasons.

[dequeen]

how could I have been getting it all wrong all these years??? got some major changing to do / embark on. Thanks Flyj for illuminating me.....

[Suavity]

nice

[daftpunk]

I guess I'm guilty of *** 4 and 6

[kimi]

#Eziokwu 😁

Throwback Tuesday. Lol

[Txunamy]

Hmmmm.. 

[Suavity]

Word....