sweetz Posted January 10, 2015 Share Posted January 10, 2015 Sometimes, its hard to understand most ladies.. When they know how you feel about them, some play along while others frustrates your feelings.. Some make you feel on top of the world, and still flirt around with other ladies.. How do I know when its true love? Share your thoughts with me, you might not just be helping me, but others too Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
relangel Posted January 10, 2015 Share Posted January 10, 2015 Its hard to find who is real. that's one of the reasons being alive in the world where nothing is perfect. But wat I learnt is that you Keep believing in your dreams one day u might be able to find who you can endure their nonsense. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Iris Posted January 10, 2015 Share Posted January 10, 2015 When she puts you first before her friends. When she respects you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daftpunk Posted January 10, 2015 Share Posted January 10, 2015 When she puts you first before her friends. When she respects you. Yup spot on. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dequeen Posted January 10, 2015 Share Posted January 10, 2015 Love. I will forever be confused in that course. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rencie Posted January 12, 2015 Share Posted January 12, 2015 Never believed in that shii Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dreamgal Posted January 12, 2015 Share Posted January 12, 2015 when she's willing to do everything and anything to be with you. I think deep down we know when someone loves us or not. we just sometimes decide to settle/manage and hope their love grows. in my case I deceived myself that my love will be enough for both of us. I dunno sha, beginning to doubt the existence of unconditional love tho. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
M2DD Posted January 13, 2015 Share Posted January 13, 2015 I agree with Iris, when she puts you before her friends because that shit is hard Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
evelyn Posted January 13, 2015 Share Posted January 13, 2015 I agree with Iris, when she puts you before her friends because that shit is hard She cn put u befre her frnds and still dont give a hoot abt you I feel u identify true love when she....... Errrrmmmmm she. ...... Omo i no knw jare Love course is hard Ppl lie and pretend so well Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tasha Posted January 13, 2015 Share Posted January 13, 2015 True love is hard to find but, wen u fine one is easy to tell. DAT person will b all over u weather she is wit u or not. She just cant stay a moment wit@ u. u will always feel it. U can always tell if it real or not. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hipstar Posted January 14, 2015 Share Posted January 14, 2015 remove the adjective 'true' before the other word and i can say it exists. but also know that there's a difference between 'i love u' and 'i'm in love with u'. you alwz gat my back when i dont get my shits together, i can love u for dat, but it doesnt make me be in love wid u. am in love with u when my world starts to revolve around u, i eat and breathe u, and all other fictitious condiments we read and see in books n movies. so where that adjective 'true' is coming from is wot i dunno.. i could say 'i'm in love wid u' not 'i'm in true love wid u'... c'mon lets get real here. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sweetz Posted August 4, 2015 Author Share Posted August 4, 2015 Ok, Love is Love.. There's nothin like true or fake love.. And people pretend a lot esp when they know what you expect from them. They can Love u and cheat on u as well. But when they are in love with u, you'll know.. Talkin from my experience, and agreeing wif some of the replies.. Until u are in love, u might not know what love is. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fummy Posted August 8, 2015 Share Posted August 8, 2015 How do you know when it's true love ? Well there's no fake love, it's either love or not... How do you know when someone loves you truly? Patience- That's the secret, I tell this to my friends everytime. With patience, you will know when someone loves you , is deceiving you or is just trying to make use of you or whatever their intentions are, with time you will find out . No matter how good someone is in pretending, they will always show their true colours with time, no one can pretend forever . The problem is when someone starts showing us the kinda attention we want and says all the right things we wanna hear, esp when it's coming from someone we are attracted to, we let ourselves go . Someone can do everything stated above and even more without loving you, Time is the only way to be sure of someone's love for you . Time will determine if the words: actions is balanced or not. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dequeen Posted August 13, 2015 Share Posted August 13, 2015 @Fummy, you speak as though love is necessarily forever. sometimes its a moment , a moment blissful in itself, sometimes its a month or a year or 5years. its all love, and that of a moment was just as true and as pure and as good as that of five years. when we place conditions on love, we begin to jumble things up and make true love look / seem fake. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fummy Posted August 13, 2015 Share Posted August 13, 2015 @Fummy, you speak as though love is necessarily forever. sometimes its a moment , a moment blissful in itself, sometimes its a month or a year or 5years. its all love, and that of a moment was just as true and as pure and as good as that of five years. when we place conditions on love, we begin to jumble things up and make true love look / seem fake. Lol a month? Love? Well am sorry but maybe we have different definitions of love . Every feelings we have doesn't have to be necessarily LOVE. Sometimes its not even love, it can be infatuation, like, lust, feelings, or any other thing . The fact that you care about someone and think about them often doesn't mean you love them and it's why i'll still insist on what I stated above. In my opinion, the only way to know if you truly love someone or if someone truly loves you is through Patience. How many times have you thought you were madly in love with someone and the sun just couldn't shine without them only for you realize later on that you do not love them . The way people fall in love this ddays surprises me and no I will not believe you if you tell me you love me just after knowing me for a month . And here's why: I believe love is a gradual process and I believe you can only know your love for someone is true after getting to know them for who they really are and still loving them with their imperfections. There's no way you can love me after a month when you don't really even know me . You can have feelings for someone after a month, like them a lot and all but feelings are very very fickle and it's why after some months we realize we don't really like someone as much as we thought we did after finding out who they really are.. when we say we love someone without really knowing them, Ii think what we actually really love is our idea of them, who we think they really are and that's why we see people fall in n out of love anyhow but ofcourse it's not actually LOVE . 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michelle Posted April 20, 2019 Share Posted April 20, 2019 On 1/12/2015 at 12:41 PM, dreamgal said: when she's willing to do everything and anything to be with you. So true. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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