Jump to content
Volunteer with Us at Naijalez: Empowering Nigerian Lesbian Community ×
Nigerian Lesbian Forum

Texting etiquette


FlyJ

Recommended Posts

  • Administrators

Texting-etiquette-360x354.jpg

 

Texting is a simpler and faster way for people to pass quick and short messages to one another. These rules will help ensure your texts are not considered offensive

 

Don’t leave them guessing

 

If the recipient doesn’t have your cell phone number stored in their phone, be sure to let them know who you are in your text.

 

Don’t send texts after bedtime

 

If the recipient forgot to turn their phone to silent before turning in for the night, you’ll wake people up at midnight by the beep of their phone alerting them they have a new message. Know when it’s appropriate to send a text. Spur-of-the-moment texts can be nice, but not at 12am.

 

Keep them short

 

Think of texts as preludes or follow-ups to conversation, not the conversation itself. Keep them short. More than 160 characters means that a phone call or e-mail is a better way to deliver your message.

 

Don’t keep texting until you get a reply

 

Even though everyone seems to be glued to their cell phones these days, you can’t assume the people you text receive your messages right after you send them. Persistent texting to check if a friend has received your first message is just plain rude.

 

Proofread messages before sending

 

Proper grammatical constructions should not be taken for granted when composing a text.It tells the recipient a whole lot about you. Go over the text you have composed before sending it to check for errors.

 

Don’t send awful news via text

 

Know when what you’re trying to communicate is best sent in a text or an actual voice call. Unpleasant news like getting divorced, terminal illness, death, etc is better shared via emails, phone calls or personal visits

 

Set the volume to a low level

 

Many phones come with sound levels such as “vibrate,” “loud,” “soft,” or a combination of the two. Have a habit of changing the volume tone to a low level or, better yet, silent. Keep this habit so that you have the practice of changing it back and forth once you are in a comfort zone of having a loud ring tone or alert.

 

Learn when and where it is appropriate to text

 

Places that restrict people from using cell phones to call should be practiced while texting people. If sound disruption is the issue, for example, a library or waiting room at the doctor’s clinic, then placing the phone on either silent or vibrate would be acceptable for you to continue texting.

 

Prioritise other people’s company over texting

 

If you are chatting with a group of people or one person, try to ignore texting as much as possible until the other party leaves or you have gone somewhere alone such as a restroom. If the text is very important, apologise to your party first, then text. Never make it seem like your phone is more important than their presence.

 

Respect their knowledge of chat acronyms

 

Acronyms and abbreviations are the fastest way to get a message across, but knowledge of what they are comes with it. Think about if they would or wouldn’t understand it. If they wouldn’t, don’t use it.

 

Source

  • Like 1
Link to comment
Share on other sites

These service providers, you’d think they'd be the first to have texting etiquette. They don't! Sending you unsolicited text messages even at midnight. You can’t put your phone on silent to sleep, you know. You need your alarm to get you out of bed.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Join the conversation

You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.
Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible.

Guest
Reply to this topic...

×   Pasted as rich text.   Paste as plain text instead

  Only 75 emoji are allowed.

×   Your link has been automatically embedded.   Display as a link instead

×   Your previous content has been restored.   Clear editor

×   You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL.

×
×
  • Create New...